FabSwingers.com forum: No luck- help

By *witchPassion OP Man
7 weeks ago

Peterborough / London

So I’ve been on this website for over 5 years. I was curious one day and turned up to Eureka in Kent alone made some friends and was told to join.

Went to Eureka 2/3 times met some cool people and played on my last visit.. joined an MMMF whilst the husband watched (talk about baptism of fire!?)

I suddenly moved to Peterborough (long story) and didn’t go on for a while.. I’ve been to Dark Desires in Liberty Elite and had an amazing time. I was leaving and a couple told me they’d been looking for me and we played.. then again when I was leaving someone else I had spoken to also told me they were looking for me. - I spent most of the day on the dance floor just genuinely enjoying my time.

My problem is.. I haven’t got many verifications and hardly anyone responds to my messages or wants to meet etc. I don’t think I’m unattractive although I definitely look better in person.

Any advice on what I’m doing wrong / should do better ?

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

Without knowing what you're actually doing its difficult to tell. You might not be doing anything wrong at all

By *witchPassion OP Man
7 weeks ago

Peterborough / London

"Without knowing what you're actually doing its difficult to tell. You might not be doing anything wrong at all"

I think that’s the problem- I honestly can’t tell.. I always read profiles .. make sure I reference something from the profile in messages.. I just seem to not be many people’s cup of tea.. this is a stark contradiction to real life I do not struggle with attention in person .. I just don’t come across well on the site I guess.. how does my profile read?

By *allySlinkyWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

"I just don’t come across well on the site I guess.. how does my profile read?"

I think the text reads well but the majority of your profile is BDSM test results which some people think are pointless.

What does "must have Pedi" mean ?