FabSwingers.com forum: Stretch marks/imperfections

By *lassiccokeorpepsimax OP Couple
50 weeks ago

Cardiff

Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
50 weeks ago

Chester

I think I have a similar collection of scars to yours - in my experience, people are completely not bothered, or actually are quite positive about them. I used to crop my gallbladder scar out of photos, but I leave it in now, I really couldn’t care less!

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

For me no one is perfect. If ladies have scars that is not a turn off. There is a lot of fun getting naked for the first time and finding out what they really look like. Scars certainly would not be a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

To the OP just looked at your profile you have nothing to be ashamed off. You look great.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

No it doesn't matter what so ever.

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By *rallover1000Man
50 weeks ago

St helens

Personally I love a woman with stretch marks and a mummy tummy, so sexy.

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimax OP Couple
50 weeks ago

Cardiff

Thank you all for your kind reassurance.

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By *lossomTreeWoman
50 weeks ago

Ipswich

I have some stretch marks and they bother me a little, but I take my cue from the guys who fuck me enthusiasticly, they certainly don't take any notice!

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By *heonixrising500Man
50 weeks ago

Barnsley

All part of who you are dont worry about them just be sexy

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By *huck5772Man
50 weeks ago

dukinfield

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

I love seeing the scars

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By *unshine 57Woman
50 weeks ago

Essex

You look beautiful No one would even notice

I had breast cancer 10 years ago so have scars from that and another two surgeries I have stretch marks More curves than i wished i had

But to the best of my knowledge all that and even my age has never bothered anyone

So have faith in yourself And a smile hides a thousand sins

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

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By *erry 58Man
50 weeks ago

doncaster

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

"
you look amazing

I have scars all over my body from operations and injuries during my army service , I just look at them as map of my life

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By *orbidden eastMan
50 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think most of the time is worse than you think. I personally don’t really mind. We all live a life and sometimes we have scares to show for it. so it’s not a bad thing.

Perfection is a imperfection

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By *riel13Woman
50 weeks ago

Northampton

I've never really understood the scar/stretchmark thing... They are just things that have happened to your body... Sometimes they had to... They're OK to have

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I have stretch marks from fast gains when lifting weights years ago, especially on my shoulders. I was proud of them, like I earned them.

Our scars tell a story about us, be proud

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By *cottish guy 555Man
50 weeks ago

London

Be happy in your body. It looks amazing. We all have issues with ourselves, others less so. They see the person that you are, and any decent people will have no issues with the body within which you have lived your life.

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By *ymbunny99Woman
50 weeks ago

sheerness

I’m with you, I will always try to hide my stomach because of my stretch marks although never notice them on other people, one rule for me and another rule for everyone else

You look fab op

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

When you give birth inevitably there are stretch marks of course. Some are lucky to get away with little but in the end anyone so shallow to turn up their nose due to this is a TOSSER 😉

Trixie

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
50 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

I'd say its your mind ruining your fun.

I have scars, I've met people with scars.

You could always mention it to potential sexual partners before they see you naked. Gauge their reaction.

If they're negative about you, then ditch them and find more positive people.

Good luck OP x

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By *rightonsteveMan
50 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What I love to see on a woman is a scar. Weird perhaps but I really find them fascinating, the story behind them, the character it builds. I have a very faint scar on my face from a rapier, a proper real live duelling scar - except I wasn’t actually duelling - tripping is more accurate but at least its a sword so counts.

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By *sabellatina80Couple
50 weeks ago

London

I sympathise with you as I have some stretch marks too after 2 pregnancies but I feel that guys don't pay much attention to them. So, I kind of forget about it sometimes. You look amazing by the way.

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By *P15Man
50 weeks ago

brighton

Have certainly never been turned off by scars or jiggly bits, and now I’m 40+ I actually find it a turn on.

There’s especially something very sexy about a woman’s body post pregnancy. It’s feminine and hot.

I looked at your profile and you have an absolutely amazing body.

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By *awpleasureMan
50 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

"I sympathise with you as I have some stretch marks too after 2 pregnancies but I feel that guys don't pay much attention to them. So, I kind of forget about it sometimes. You look amazing by the way. "

You both look amazing tbh

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By *icecouple561Couple
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50 weeks ago

East Sussex

I wish people wouldn't think of things like stretch marks as imperfections. I doubt there's anyone with a flawless body.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
50 weeks ago

Coventry

There are very few people in this world with any years and life experience under their belts who haven't got scars, marks or blemishes. It's just being human. And the perverse thing is the only people who care about them is ourselves. Genrally most adults fancy us because they fancy us not because our bodies are perfect. Most grownups recognise no ones body is a brand new box fresh archetype just as their own isnt. And so it's on us to be comfortable in our own skin first so we can be comfortable with other being comfortable with our skin and bodies. Because it doesn't work no matter how much someone accepts and adores our bodies if with we can't accept and adore ourselves.

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By *leep walkerMan
50 weeks ago

Caerphilly

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

Hi OP. Could you DM me please ? I wish to discuss a scar I have which affects my self confidence. Not looking for a meet, just to discuss this.

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
50 weeks ago

Prestwich

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

I've met women who used to be bigger, women who've had kids, women who have had operation, women who haven't had any of the above.

It doesn't bother me at all, I think sometimes because we live in a very material world, we carry that into our relationships but once the layers come off, none of that shit matter, it's just if you connect.

I think lmfao, like the best sex I've had in my life wasn't with the materialistically defined most attractive. Not sure that proves anything hahaha

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By *ippyandBungle2Man
50 weeks ago

Central Scotland

There's far too much unrealistic expectations in the media world about how people should look, and it can be tough mentally to just block that out and be yourself.

Fat, thin, scars, flab, love handles, dad bods, stretch marks, big boob's, small boob's, massive cocks, small cocks etc etc.

Body positive, be yourself and to hell with anyone who doesn't appreciate you for who you are.

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By *irsSubCouple
50 weeks ago

Stockton

Own them, they are part of you, your perfect imperfections - to quote Robin Williams. With things you can't change, like scars, the self confidence issues are 100x less sexy than the scars themselves.

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By *exymarvelMan
50 weeks ago

cardiff

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

Stretch marks and scars make you who u are, embrace them, its a sign of maturity and anyone that says anything negative is not worth ur time. Every imperfection is a sign of life experiences

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By *onk3yb0yMan
50 weeks ago

south west

I have scars all over my trunk (body not penis 😉) some big some small. I am confident that in the heat of the moment nobody gets put off about a few scars or stretch marks.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

The scars we carry are just proof we’ve lived.

You have nothing to be self conscious about. You are beautiful. ☺️

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By *inky and QuirkyCouple
50 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard

We enjoy and adore people just as they are. With the right connection and personality we never see imperfections just the person. None of us are perfect and we all have visible and invisible scars and we are sure that you are a beautiful, sensual and wonderful woman ❤️❤️

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

I obviously cannot speak for others, only myself…

But for me, I’m far more worried about if I am attractive enough for the people I’m meeting than the other way around once it comes to the point of actually getting together.

By that point I know that I’m already attracted and a few lumps, bumps and scars aren’t going to distract me from someone I already like. Everyone has something they don’t like about themselves.

And you are beautiful OP

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By *am3032TV/TS
50 weeks ago

Sutton in Ashfield

You’re gorgeous the way you are. Bet there’s not many people without a scar, stretch mark or birth mark. Be confident in who you are X

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By *i FWB filthy fun coupleCouple
50 weeks ago

Didcot

You are perfect regardless x

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By *ive-aloneMan
50 weeks ago

rotherham

Noone is bothered about looks you are fine as you are. Problem is no women thinks I'm good looking enough to meet

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By *am101aMan
50 weeks ago

swad

"Personally I love a woman with stretch marks and a mummy tummy, so sexy."

I agree...

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By *partharmonyCouple
50 weeks ago

Tonbridge

Scars and stretch marks are not an issue to us. Hannah had breast reconstruction after cancer and has scars all over the shop. People have scars. It's part of life. You don't have to look like a model in Cosmopolitan to be attractive (in fact it probably helps if you don't).

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By *round_the_FurMan
50 weeks ago

Magherafelt

Even the best paintings have their brush strokes visable up close.

Honestly, if anyone is bothered by them it's their problem.

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By *ogloomMan
50 weeks ago

Levens

You're looking fine. Your mind is just fucking with you. Own it. You've a very sexy lady body

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By *heelerMan
50 weeks ago

Northants

Certainly wouldn't bother me in the slightest

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By *eppipWoman
50 weeks ago

Lancs

Just to reiterate what everyone else has said really, most people are busy concentrating on their own insecurities to acknowledge yours.

Stretch marks, scars, blemishes etc. are all part of life. I personally wouldn't be fussed by them on someone else, however, I'm acutely aware of them on my own body.

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By *aulo_IsabelCouple
50 weeks ago

Manchester

Is very normal to be self conscious about scars/marks, etc... But believe me, most men don't care at all. Most of us don't have a perfect body and we all have insecurities about ourselves.

By the way you have a great body.

Paulo

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Don’t worry about it nun of us are perfect and we are what we are never put your self down

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By *avexxMan
50 weeks ago

cheshire

no it wouldnt bother me what so ever

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By *appyOldOneMan
50 weeks ago

West Midlands

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

imho scars and marks on a skin are a sign of a life lived, often they suggest a story behind them, shared or not, doen't matter - to me the show you've lived through, or experenced, something I've not. So to me they show someone to be respected, someone whose come though something I haven't.

Full respect to you - and more for having the balls to ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Yes I have two abdominal scars, I'm very conscious of them but I'm kinda lucky both are below my belly button but if I'm naked I detest them, I have thought of tattooing to disguise them

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By *artorialMan
50 weeks ago

weymouth

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

For me absolutely not, if anything they add intrigue and raise the enjoyment of exploring someone's body.

Own them and be proud they show you have lived

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By *ere4It3000Couple
50 weeks ago

Belgium

First I want to say is OP you are fine, no need to worry!!

I’ve got it all, scars, loose skin, stretchmarks.. All has a story. Always have been super insecure about it all and I’m only learning now - as example on here, I present myself the way I am and there’s stil more than enough attention to receive. Other people don’t seem to bother as much as we do for ourselves.. we’re our own worst critic x

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By *ofuMan
50 weeks ago

london

Is there such a thing as a perfect body , stretch marks on women look sexy from child birth body shape changes I’ve yet to check your profile if your married or single , your husband is obviously happy with you

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By *utterfly64Woman
50 weeks ago

Raynes Park

I think we often look at the negative about our own bodies. If people are so shallow as to not want to get intimate because of our scars or flaws then it is their loss. We are all amazing and should be proud of who we are and what we look like.

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By *jh59Man
50 weeks ago

Stoke Golding

Wife has stretch marks - nothing wrong there

She also has a 6 inch scar on a spine where she had an operation

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By *osworth13Man
50 weeks ago

Leicester

Best place to go dogging in Leicestershire

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By *azler17Man
50 weeks ago

Castleford

Scar's are part of life, and are more interesting than tattoos,everyone has Scar's

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By *ornycouple70Couple
50 weeks ago

Hampshire

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

Hi, female of the couple here, you have an amazing body, and scars, stretch marks are lifelines of your story. Don’t ever be embarrassed or ashamed, if someone doesn’t like them that says more about them than you. Be brave, be bold, you are beautiful 😊

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By *olo180Man
50 weeks ago

Greater London

Just had a peek of your pics and you have a beautiful body x

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By *attoo_PeachCouple
50 weeks ago

Norfolk

not bothered in the slightest , go have fun

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By *ideshaft1971Man
50 weeks ago

Midlands

None of us are perfect but we need to be happy in our own skin, go girl and don’t worry

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By *ingpong70Man
50 weeks ago

Surbiton

Ughh. Absolute deal-breaker.

....said no man ever...

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By *ootnootboopCouple
50 weeks ago

Cheshire

To anyone male, female or whatever lovely shade of the rainbow you choose to identify with.....

Scars, stretch marks and "imperfections" are not a putt off, or something to be ashamed of. They are a physical reminder of the journey your body has been on, after all that is the purpose any of us are knocking around on this lump of rock hurtling through space!

Embrace them, cover them, adorn them with jewellery, whatever. But never ever feel apologetic to someone that they exist!

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By *rebus1975Man
49 weeks ago

Birmingham

You’re 100% on the target here.

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By *ickD80Man
49 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

If someone is shallow enough to be bothered by scars and stretch marks then they’re not worth being with so you really shouldn’t care what they think.

I completely understand how you feel though, as i’m sure the majority of everyone else does, because nearly everyone has some part of their body they don’t like. We are all way more critical of our own bodies than anyone else is of them.

When i worry about it I think about times when other people have told me about what they worry about on their bodies and how it’s always something that they really don’t need to worry about. I always think that if the things other people worry are things they don’t need to worry about then I shouldn’t be worrying about my body either…..that was surprisingly difficult to articulate so it probably doesn’t make much sense haha.

Failing that i’ve found that being open and honest from the start always helps. I always used to be really nervous about being naked with someone for the first time in case they hated my body and that used to really hold me back, so now i tell them all the things I’m worried about, and even show them, before we meet so that i know they aren’t bothering about them if they still want to meet me and then i feel completely relaxed and a lot less worried.

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By *icosaurvoMan
49 weeks ago

Church Crookham

Women with stretch marks look beautiful embrace them ladies xxx

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By *nnocentsecret66Woman
49 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Women with stretch marks look beautiful embrace them ladies xxx"
no thanks

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By *xx0123Man
49 weeks ago

nottingham

You look incredible 😍 no need to worry at all. Loving your tattoos too x

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By *uriousCpl91Couple
49 weeks ago

Stockport

I find we are our own biggest critics we get in our own heads about our hang ups i can speak from personal experience i gained alot of weight when i started comfort eating after having a traumatic experience happen to me in 2012 im currently in the process of losing the weight and have a much better relationship with food i know im not going to be everyones cup of tea bodywise but i can go in to a club with my head held high knowing that i will tick someones box like many have said scars are just a mile stone in your life journey people that turn there noses up at them are not your kinda people

Dan

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By *ust and PoundCouple
49 weeks ago

Wirral

Scars and stretch marks are just a normal part of life. We have to love our bodies.

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By *ifty69Man
49 weeks ago

north tyneside

"Scars and stretch marks are just a normal part of life. We have to love our bodies."
it’s a natural, sexy and wonderful

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By *rpeggioCouple
49 weeks ago

Baughurst

People here will tell you that you are beautiful, that no one bothers... Etc etc.

Truth is that you will be gorgeous for some and not so much for others. That some will be repelled by them and others will not create about it.

So maybe consider if you'd like to go to bed with someone that is bothered about your stretch marks instead of liking you as a person, as an individual. Make sure you don't hide who you are and you will attract the right kind of partners so you can choose among them, and forget about those that are not a good match to you?

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By *ral Services LtdMan
49 weeks ago

Manchester

Speaking openly, no one is 100% confident in the way they look and there are different parts of their bodies that they don’t like as much as others. I’ve found trying to be brave (which isn’t easy at times) and showing them when intimate can be really powerful. Plus, from an outsider looking in, you have a beautiful body.

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By *immyMcGillMan
49 weeks ago

Hornchurch

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

From looking at your pics you’re gorgeous. Scars don’t matter, they just show that you’ve been through some things. You’re worrying far too much about minor things.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

We are what we are if others don’t like the way you are fuck them

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By *unover40Couple
49 weeks ago

yeovil

Love all those imperfections, makes us who we are, real people

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By *en ItaliaWoman
49 weeks ago

your lap

"People here will tell you that you are beautiful, that no one bothers... Etc etc.

Truth is that you will be gorgeous for some and not so much for others. That some will be repelled by them and others will not create about it.

This ^

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By *ellhungvweMan
49 weeks ago

Cheltenham

We all have things we don’t like OP. I could give you a list of things I don’t like but I have learnt people generally don’t even notice them - they are too worried about the things they don’t like about themselves and that you might not like them.

Focus on making them feel comfortable and they will think you are great.

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By *rebus1975Man
49 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

Having looked at your pics, I’d explore them with fascination and lust! They’re part of who you are and where you’ve been in life - and makes you more attractive, not less, as you’ve survived to tell the tales.

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan
49 weeks ago

Westmidlands

Jeez look Dam fine to me girl.

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By *rown.studMan
49 weeks ago

Eccles

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

U are one fine lady!! You shouldn’t worry about anything.

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By *J swingCouple
49 weeks ago

North

You look great.

I have several scars , stretch marks

Have a good scar around the Nipple where it were removed due to having breast cancer behind it , I've had 2 c sections personally I don't care if people like me or not.

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By *unTimeVikingMan
49 weeks ago

downham market

Some people are shallow and believe that people should be like those magazines.

You shouldn’t be care what people think. Just have fun and be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

Speaking for myself...no it doesn't bother me, it's a part of who you are. ☺️

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By *reya73Woman
49 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

OP we all have bits that were not happy with. I have stretch marks, scars, a wonky finger, mummy tummy, rogue hairs etc etc. Sometimes I'm more conscious than other times but I tend to focus on what my body is capable of instead. Giving and recieving pleasure isn't limited to how we look. Our attraction is multi dimensional.

Maybe there are some for whom a certain body type is important but I think for most, attraction goes way beyond.

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By *issP69Woman
49 weeks ago

Neath

Aww I have my fair share of imperfections....stretch marks, c section scar, wobbly bits from weight loss etc....embrace it

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By *issP69Woman
49 weeks ago

Neath

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By *aphunterMan
49 weeks ago

horsham

I don’t think you should worry x

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By *iddle ManMan
49 weeks ago

Walsall

I think you need not to worry.

The majority of us have a part of our bodies were are not fond of, but for others they are barely visible or are insignificant to the rest of your body and personality.

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By *alkingbobMan
49 weeks ago

Hamilton

Doesn’t bother me you look great

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

Doesn't bother me at all. We all have our bumps and lumps as we progress through life. I hope you are getting lots of pleasure and successfully distracting yourself from those thoughts.

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By *igad999Man
49 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Know everyone has different likes but personally I prefer the curvy body on a lady

And natural with all bumps wobbles and bits too. Find it so sexy.

Wife’s had 3 kids and is size 18 and yeah love every little bit of her

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man
48 weeks ago

mums cellar

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

Can only answer from my perspective, but can promise you would make zero difference, we've all lived a life until now.

What's important to me is how dirty your mind is.

I've looked at your profile and I don't think you have anything to worry about

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
48 weeks ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

I look upon them as honourable battle honours from life and attractive in their own right. Be proud!

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By *rivervaderMan
48 weeks ago

bolton

Trust me anybody lucky enough to get you naked will not be bothered about scars or stretch marks . You look amazing.

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By *inx_xxWoman
47 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I see them as badges of honour /courage and strength.

Breast scars...goodness you survived, that's amazing

Heart bypass....thats cool you had your body cut open

C-section/stretch marks...how womanly you bared life.

All of these scars and more, I've seen on the scene, and am always in awe of the person wearing them

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By *layfullsamMan
47 weeks ago

Solihull

I actually love imperfections curves, cuts, etc it’s all part of life’s battle scars

That and a cheeky smile and friendly attitude and I’m in heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

With my profile, I'm used to it, plus a couple of decades in martial arts and such.

Honestly, scars are cool and endearing.

Doesn't put me off at all. I love the stories behind them. x

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I actually love imperfections curves, cuts, etc it’s all part of life’s battle scars

That and a cheeky smile and friendly attitude and I’m in heaven "

Agreed

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By *aughtynice78Man
47 weeks ago

Telford

Dear lord, beautiful lady... you have nothing to worry about! Scars are what make us individual, we've all lived a life that has left its mark. A career serving my country has left a few

You look magnificent, your partner is a lucky man. Be you, there's only one of those

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By *raigxMan
47 weeks ago

Rugby/Northampton

Stretch marks and imperfections - they are what make you YOU, unique, beautiful, sexy. Don’t try being someone you’re not - it never works as you never come across as your natural self (this includes us males). Personally I find stretch marks (or tiger stripes) a massive turn on!!!

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By *ADYSECRET OF KENTWoman
47 weeks ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Who's looking

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By *avelovescouplesMan
47 weeks ago

Telford

We are all different and unique learn to love your body what you see in the mirror you might not like but others would love

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Throughout life our bodies go through so much and it will leave a scar, some are visible some are not.

Anyone with an ounce of integrity and eyes that can see the real person, will see through the scars and be able to enjoy a persons body for what it is.

Confidence is hard to find, having the right ppl around you helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Even imperfections are perfect. People look past scars .

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I'm natural women who pushed out children and I have lots of stretch marks and huge belly and lots of wobbles and saggy tits as lots of breastfeeding

I embrace my body and size x

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By *ucka39Man
47 weeks ago

Newcastle

Scars are just part of life that has a story and not everything as there is more to a person

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By *izandpaulCouple
47 weeks ago

merseyside

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

Imperfections don't bother me, as I have imperfections too.

I had surgery last year and have a scar from below my ear to the top of my chest.

It upset me initially, but now that I'm well, I see it as a sign I got through a brutal experience and now I'm fine.

Would certain characteristics stop me from meeting for a sexual encounter, absolutely they would, but not for social meets.

Non of us are perfect, either inside or out and those that believe they are should be given a wide berth as they tend to be nothing but a bundle of grief and drama on two legs.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
47 weeks ago

Central

I don't think 99.9% of guys care

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

It doesn't matter we all have bits of us we don't like or would tweak. You look stunning

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By *enial PandaMan
47 weeks ago

Globetrotting

I'd agree with the majority on here.

I dislike the word imperfections as it implies less than perfect.

Scars are trophies of you winning in life. Your body has repaired itself and you are still here to tell the tale.

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By *reenlanerCouple
47 weeks ago

bournemouth

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

"
. It’s

You look absolutely beautiful, and everyone has marks, shapes n size they don’t like, Forget media crap that has false images of the natural female form,

good luck and happy fabbing

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair

Is there anyone on this site who doesn't carry a scar, a blemish or any other semblance to a 'bodily foible'? I think it's safe to surmise that the vast majority of people wouldn't be affected by such 'imperfections'.

I have my fair share as most others do too.

(As a sidenote - your areolas are unsurpassed)

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By *ubFTMTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Swindon

If there are no grill marks that meat ain't done yet.

Once heard a saying that went something like 'bones are for dogs, men like their meat and honey is he don't like them stretchmarks get rid of that boyfriend and find yourself a manfriend'

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By *tuddy9Man
47 weeks ago

Coventry / Nuneaton

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

It doesn't bother me in the slightest, and admiring your photos you are hot, and have absolutely nothing to worry about!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
47 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

when we were meeting, we didn't mind scars, stretch marks, or anything like that at all.

Real people aren't air brushed. And personality counts for a lot more than image.

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By *effdelightMan
47 weeks ago

Grimsby

"Hello!

I am seriously lacking in self confidence.

I've had 2 surgeries and have stretch marks. I am slim but I am so self conscious about some of my scars etc

For example I have 1 on my back and some on my stomach.

When I meet with someone I find I am so worried about what they think of them.

So, my question is, do these things actually bother people? Or is my mind just trying to ruin my fun

"
you look incredible. And very beautiful. X

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By *7stangMan
47 weeks ago

drogheda

Have no problem with this ...in fact its part of who you are we all gave scars or marks ...to me it's not a turn off ...anyway you look fantastic 😍

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By *onty777Man
47 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Had to take steroids when I was younger and ballooned and have stretch marks as a result. I hate them. I am self conscious about them, but I’m beginning to be cooler about them.

I know they happen as a result and they don’t bother me at all. It’s life.

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By *ilfhunter40plusMan
47 weeks ago

Runcorn

You have great body! Should not worry about scars at all. We are all different and things can happen to anyone anytime. I think true swingers are the most adequate people in relation to intimate questions and problems. The ones who claim to be the highest moralists most of the time are the biggest pervs with lack of communication skills and diplomacy.

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By *edh0tn5exeet00Woman
47 weeks ago

Dagenham

Most of us have scars of some sort. It really doesn’t bother me if someone has them, they’re a part of their journey to getting where they are now.

Ask me about my scars, the answer would be the same. Ask me about my body and it would be different.

As women we have pressure from every direction to be perfect, none of us are, but it sticks in your head

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By *J swingCouple
42 weeks ago

North

If someone can't accept a person who has stretch marks or scars then they are not worth meeting , stretch marks and scars hold a story only you need to know.

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By *ovebunny70Woman
42 weeks ago

portsmouth

"If someone can't accept a person who has stretch marks or scars then they are not worth meeting , stretch marks and scars hold a story only you need to know. "

Love this ❤️

I'm starting to love my body i am what i am and its a good feeling accepting yourself flaws and all

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By *anny34500Man
42 weeks ago

Luton

I love a natural body with stretch marks and hairy Fanny this is amazing

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
42 weeks ago

Leicester

I think any self respecting adult doesn't even think twice about those things. It's part of life, growing up. You can end up with them through a variety of different experiences x

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By *ippyandBungle2Man
42 weeks ago

Central Scotland

"If someone can't accept a person who has stretch marks or scars then they are not worth meeting , stretch marks and scars hold a story only you need to know. "

Yes!!

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By *etcouple22Couple
42 weeks ago

Salisbury

If they care about such things it is best to stay cleare of them.

Be yourself, have fun, and don't worry about the shallow bits that are on here, they normally disappear when they discover they are getting nowhere.

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By *esigned_For_FunWoman
42 weeks ago

wherever I am. ;)

Fuck what people think. You have to learn to love yourself which imho , is more important.

Try and get the scarred areas into sunshine so it helps reduce the scar. We all have scars , lumpy bits etc on our body. No one generally notices until it's pointed out. Even then, they aren't bothered by it.

If they are bothered, they can doubly fuck right off.

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By *esigned_For_FunWoman
42 weeks ago

wherever I am. ;)

"I love a natural body with stretch marks and hairy Fanny this is amazing "

As a possesser of a 'hairy fanny', that's is really dying out!

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By *haosAfterDarkCouple
42 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

I love scars (not in a scarification fetish way). But the way I see it, scars and stretch marks tell your life story - Mrs

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By *aphunterMan
42 weeks ago

horsham

"I love scars (not in a scarification fetish way). But the way I see it, scars and stretch marks tell your life story - Mrs "

💯 agree. When did you ever meet someone who you fancy and then not fancy them when they take their clothes off? For me if I like someone when I meet them, it’s either or both because I like they way they talk, walk or their mannerisms. I’ve never stopped fancying someone when I see a scar or stretch mark. It would be hypocritical if I did as they would see mine!

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By *haosAfterDarkCouple
42 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

"I love scars (not in a scarification fetish way). But the way I see it, scars and stretch marks tell your life story - Mrs

Exactly. We've all lived a life

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By *antasiaFoxxCouple
42 weeks ago

Essex

I have similar scars from either surgery or gaining weight or losing it and have at times felt insecure. Defo normal lovely… not on your own! I have good days and bad days with it

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By *effdelightMan
42 weeks ago

Grimsby

"I have similar scars from either surgery or gaining weight or losing it and have at times felt insecure. Defo normal lovely… not on your own! I have good days and bad days with it

You are also very beautiful. And that's a lovely post. X

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By *nniebellaWoman
42 weeks ago

Harrogate

I find scars incredibly sexy! 🥰 ... and looking at your pictures, you have an amazing body. I dont think anyone would even notice.

Ive some big scars across my ass and around my hips and I actually really love them. They are my war wounds and show everything ive been through.

Be proud of your body. You look fantastic. Overthinking can spoil your fun x

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