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By (user no longer on site) OP   
2 weeks ago

Any advice on my profile. Need some help getting replies. I never send anything rude, im always respectful and polite in my opening messsges. Tend to open with a bit about myself and what im looking for and then explain im happy to take things at whatever pace theyre comfortable. Tend to attach a couple body pics as my profile doesnt have many open to the public, unless their profile asks for any other pics. Multiple times ill have women just block me straight away? And im curious as to why? I get many are hounded with messages.

But to go and block or to type "sorry, no thank you" cant take much longer. Sometimes ill be chatting for a while to someone and then theyll just read multiple of my messages and say nothing.

Sorry for a bit of a rant but just curious for any advice or anything i could maybe improve on my profile even??

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

As most people are not mutually compatible with most other people, you don't need to be doing anything wrong, to not get replies or blocked. It would not work with the vast majority.

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By *r SensualMan
2 weeks ago

London

If I were you OP, I’d get some more public pics of you of many varieties E.g. some with clothes on, others that leave a little to the imagination too.

Your bio could do with some work too. Think about what makes you different or unique to the 1000’s of other men. Talk more about who you are, what you have to offer and lastly what you’re looking for in that particular order.

Neither of these are a sure fire guarantee of replies to your messages but it helps. Unfortunately, getting responses is totally out of your control, could have all of the above & someone could just not be attracted to you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I find it interesting that you have changed your lower age range to 19 but left the upper one at 99.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley


"Any advice on my profile. Need some help getting replies. I never send anything rude, im always respectful and polite in my opening messsges. Tend to open with a bit about myself and what im looking for and then explain im happy to take things at whatever pace theyre comfortable. Tend to attach a couple body pics as my profile doesnt have many open to the public, unless their profile asks for any other pics. Multiple times ill have women just block me straight away? And im curious as to why? I get many are hounded with messages.

But to go and block or to type "sorry, no thank you" cant take much longer. Sometimes ill be chatting for a while to someone and then theyll just read multiple of my messages and say nothing.

Sorry for a bit of a rant but just curious for any advice or anything i could maybe improve on my profile even??"

You are aware that no reply is a way of saying no thanks on here?

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By *usanStoHelitWoman
2 weeks ago

liverpool

If you're sending messages be sure to fully read their profile, and mention something in it that catches your eye. Not much that is less of a turn on than a generic 'hi how are you' or 'I just came across your profile and wow 😍' type message.

Agree you need more public photos and a less generic 'normal guy looking for fun' type bio.

Make it at least look as if you are interested in them and not just out to shag any willing hole.

Not saying that you are, but plenty on here are so you need to stand out from them

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
2 weeks ago

mid glam


"Any advice on my profile. Need some help getting replies. I never send anything rude, im always respectful and polite in my opening messsges. Tend to open with a bit about myself and what im looking for and then explain im happy to take things at whatever pace theyre comfortable. Tend to attach a couple body pics as my profile doesnt have many open to the public, unless their profile asks for any other pics. Multiple times ill have women just block me straight away? And im curious as to why? I get many are hounded with messages.

But to go and block or to type "sorry, no thank you" cant take much longer. Sometimes ill be chatting for a while to someone and then theyll just read multiple of my messages and say nothing.

Sorry for a bit of a rant but just curious for any advice or anything i could maybe improve on my profile even??"

Here's what I took from your op.

You send a message about what your looking for .......nothing about what you bring.

You send unsolicited pics....to those that maybe don't ask for them.

You have a gripe at no reply......you haven't read the rules, or done the research of your question otherwise you wouldn't have included it.

You chat but then the other end goes quiet....maybe the chat fizzled out.

Look at your profile and if you'd reply to you then leave it alone and of you wouldn't, do the search on this topic. There's 100s of advice threads

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Op people reply to those who have interesting profiles and who they are attracted to.

You don't say what you would offer any meets and have just one pic from almost 4 years ago.

I know you say you attach pics, but if I get a message the first thing i do is look at their bio. If it's bland and doesn't tell me much, I delete the message without even reading it. So I wouldn't see the pics.

Update your profile, add some up to date pics and bulk the text out with more about what you can bring and what you're actually into.

Also as Sally said read people's profile and only message if you think you'd be what they're looking for.

Many messages get deleted because the sender couldn't take 2 mins to read what the person was actually after.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
1 week ago

Hinckley


"Any advice on my profile. Need some help getting replies. I never send anything rude, im always respectful and polite in my opening messsges. Tend to open with a bit about myself and what im looking for and then explain im happy to take things at whatever pace theyre comfortable. Tend to attach a couple body pics as my profile doesnt have many open to the public, unless their profile asks for any other pics. Multiple times ill have women just block me straight away? And im curious as to why? I get many are hounded with messages.

But to go and block or to type "sorry, no thank you" cant take much longer. Sometimes ill be chatting for a while to someone and then theyll just read multiple of my messages and say nothing.

Sorry for a bit of a rant but just curious for any advice or anything i could maybe improve on my profile even??"

You don't have a profile fella!!

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By *ensual_SamMan
1 week ago

Bracknell

I don't think there's anything you can really do mate. It basically comes down to physical attraction and women have the pick of the crop and fair play to them. People will jump on that comment and say typical guy comment etc etc but there's so many male profiles that have no profile pictures and barely any text but plenty of variations why.... 6ft +, Six pack, six inches +

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By *icecouple64Couple
7 days ago

Nottingham

I have just read a single Guy saying "Don't you just love no replies to your messages!" He has no pics, no verifications, can't accommodate, has spent no time at all on his description. Basically there's nothing there to attract interest. Do I really need to answer?

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