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By *asty Tobe OP Man
7 weeks ago

London

Been here a little while now, need some help i don't know what I'm doing wrong here is my profile that bad and my photos...

Would appreciate some feed back please..

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By *rad670Man
7 weeks ago

South Lakes

Probably better to hear from females but from a male point of view there's nothing jumping out as bad about your profile. It took me months and months to even get to cam with someone for my first verification, my first meet was a spontaneous one after a late night chat and that was a really good veri from a very experienced couple with loads of friends, that started the ball rolling properly from there on. So it is a long game unfortunately even when you think your profile is good and you send pleasant messages, for every 10 messages you get maybe one reply, it'll happen eventually. Have you thought of visiting a club just to socialise and get veris?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
7 weeks ago

London

6 weeks is not long on fab. Go to clubs and organised socials.

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By *issmorganWoman
7 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, the thing I picked up on was the lack of punctuation in your bio.It makes it a bit hard to read in places,so you could maybe review that.

You have a good selection of pics, which is great & a verification already.

It's hard on here for men because there are just so many, all looking for women.

You could try an organised social, I'm half a couple and we've made more connections at socials, than just relying on fab alone.

I think there are socials around the London area, if you put London in the forum search, it hopefully will show you what's on etc.

The one tip I'd give you is to always read a profile and only message if you seem to be what they're looking for.

I delete so many messages,purely because they haven't read my bio or they have and think I'll make an exception for them.

For example I had a man message a few days ago, he more or less said I know you don't meet attached men, but....

There's no but for me, if I've said I'm into certain things, that means I'm not into them.

Good luck op.

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By *asty Tobe OP Man
7 weeks ago

London

After reading your replies I appreciate your honesty and have tweaked my bio a bit and hopefully it's better in context then what it was before and I hear what had been said to me about meets/events it is possibility in the future but I'm not to sure i would fit into that environment just yet...

Kind regards and many thanks for your comments...

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By *asty Tobe OP Man
4 weeks ago

London

Feel like I'm wasting my time on here I actually didn't know I was that ugly to look at!

I know I'll probably get negative feed back from this....

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
4 weeks ago

Reading & Ignite & Kent

"Feel like I'm wasting my time on here I actually didn't know I was that ugly to look at!

I know I'll probably get negative feed back from this...."

Not trying to be negative but posts like this and your status are unattractive and would instantly put us off. I would suggest attending a few local socials or clubs, get a few veris.

You have one very from web cam from a profile that is hidden. If you have good in person veris you will get a lot more attention

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

from mars

🥲🥲

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By *asty Tobe OP Man
4 weeks ago

London

Can a person form admin contact me asap

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By *ucka39Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

"Can a person form admin contact me asap"

Hiya op

Admin don't randomly contact users but if you wish to contact them here's a link

https://www.fabswingers.com/contact-us

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By *asty Tobe OP Man
4 weeks ago

London

Thanks for the info 👍

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

The profile says nothing to stand out from the 800 other men also just looking for anything to fuck that slide through the inbox.

I appreciate the face pics. The random penis in the middle of them feels out of place. A lot of people would be more interested in how the body looks overall though.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
4 weeks ago

Chester

"After reading your replies I appreciate your honesty and have tweaked my bio a bit and hopefully it's better in context then what it was before and I hear what had been said to me about meets/events it is possibility in the future but I'm not to sure i would fit into that environment just yet...

Kind regards and many thanks for your comments..."

A two line bio will not get you anywhere on here - I’m wondering what advice you had that led to that decision?!

As other people have said, organised socials and clubs will be your best bet if you’re finding things too tricky for your liking online.

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By *asty Tobe OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

Thanks for the advice and appreciate it honestly...

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By *ogandher1962Couple
3 weeks ago

Reading

Are you getting many people “asking you” OP?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

"Been here a little while now, need some help i don't know what I'm doing wrong here is my profile that bad and my photos...

Would appreciate some feed back please.."

Your profile says "ask what you want" and nothing else. You have a good profile pic but no other pics.

Personally I think it would help if you added more text and a body shot or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

As many have said you have an initial decent pic but no more , a none existent bio , so from my perspective with 35k users on here ( and probably mostly male ) I’m moving on to someone who has made the effort to stand out

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By *asty Tobe OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

Hi, thanks for the comments, I don't know what OP is...

Yes I had half a dozen pics on here before and a whole bio written out about me what I'm looking for and I tweaked it and ended up deleting it because it just wasn't working for me. Never had one person message me from my pics or bio I had up since I've actually joined...

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By *ogandher1962Couple
3 weeks ago

Reading

OP = Original Poster.

And please keep your replies to the forum rather than DMing us.

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By *asty Tobe OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

Oh sorry didn't mean to offend you both by replying to your inbox your the first to express that.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I didn't like it either

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By *ogandher1962Couple
3 weeks ago

Reading

"I didn't like it either"

We think that it comes across as a wee bit "Creepy"

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
3 weeks ago

land of overweight munters

Your profile header says this- Genuine guy looking for fun females&amp;amp;Couples-

Needs correcting

Would you fuck a 99 year old?

There's 100s of advice threads if you use the search function and they all have the same theme....

Witty status's stand out for some.

Decent pics taken with a phone timer.

No bathroom pics.

Don't tick every interest box, tailor it to what your actually interested in.

Write something about hobbies

Don't write in block, separate sentences as its hard to read in block

Look at other male profiles that frequent the forums, there are some good ones but don't copy

And get involved with the forums

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

This is very good advice.......................... ⬆️

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By *asty Tobe OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

Thanks notes taken 😁

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

"Feel like I'm wasting my time on here I actually didn't know I was that ugly to look at!

I know I'll probably get negative feed back from this...."

You're not ugly, you're fairly good looking. But women here will pick exactly who matches them - and it's perhaps over optimistic for even 1% to be mutually compatible. You do have to have thick skin here though..

Emphasise the positives that you bring. You could perhaps reduce the OCD cleanliness a little, as it may distract

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