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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated!" Agree with all you're statement, I'm a bi man and go by what you described  | |||
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"I'd agree with what you've written, I'm down as bi curious as I'd never bottom, so won't ever be bisexual. " Thank you all for responding! Particularly this one, as I'd never considered that bi curious might be used in that way. | |||
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"I'd agree with what you've written, I'm down as bi curious as I'd never bottom, so won't ever be bisexual. " . I'm the same. I will not engage in any anal activity whatsoever but don't mind getting a BJ | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated!" At the risk of being the only one disagreeing in this thread the correct terms ologies are: Bisexual - indicates a firm and established sexual identity. Bi-curious - suggests a period of exploration or curiosity about bisexuality. Bi Vers ⬆️⬇️➡️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex both giving and receiv ing Bi Top ⬆️ - enjoys oral and penetrative sex giving only Bi Bottom ⬇️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex receiving only Bi Side ➡️- mutual oral, no penetrative sex In all of the above, at discretion, some men will either kiss or not kiss. | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated!" I believe your spot on , that’s how I would define them | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated! At the risk of being the only one disagreeing in this thread the correct terms ologies are: Bisexual - indicates a firm and established sexual identity. Bi-curious - suggests a period of exploration or curiosity about bisexuality. Bi Vers ⬆️⬇️➡️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex both giving and receiv ing Bi Top ⬆️ - enjoys oral and penetrative sex giving only Bi Bottom ⬇️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex receiving only Bi Side ➡️- mutual oral, no penetrative sex In all of the above, at discretion, some men will either kiss or not kiss. " The top/bottom bit refers to anal. Based on having lots of gay male friends I would say that virtually all bi bottom men give oral and virtually all tops receive it. On a personal level, I find it best to ignore labels and initialisms and discuss what people are into. It was only reading the forums here that alerted me to the fact that the relative positions of the letters in MMF meant something and that I wasn’t the only person not understanding the significance of that. | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated! At the risk of being the only one disagreeing in this thread the correct terms ologies are: Bisexual - indicates a firm and established sexual identity. Bi-curious - suggests a period of exploration or curiosity about bisexuality. Bi Vers ⬆️⬇️➡️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex both giving and receiv ing Bi Top ⬆️ - enjoys oral and penetrative sex giving only Bi Bottom ⬇️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex receiving only Bi Side ➡️- mutual oral, no penetrative sex In all of the above, at discretion, some men will either kiss or not kiss. " This definitely is slightly off. A bi top is far more likely to receive oral than give. | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated!" I class myself as bi curious because I am only orally bi as I like give and receive but maybe I’m better to say I’m Orally bi - oral both ways is a better individual of my desires.  | |||
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"Gets more complicated when you have guys who will happily do a bit of bi-play as part of a threesome but aren't attracted to men and would never consider a 1-on-1 with a man. We recently had a conversation with another couple (man handling comms) where the dude felt the need to repeatedly tell us he wasn't bisexual. Unsurprisingly it didn't work out." I kinda get that, but doesn’t the bi curious definition cover that guys status ? | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated! I class myself as bi curious because I am only orally bi as I like give and receive but maybe I’m better to say I’m Orally bi - oral both ways is a better individual of my desires. "This is me also...bi curious isn't accurate but feel it's the best of the three options available and then I quantify it in my profile | |||
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"Gets more complicated when you have guys who will happily do a bit of bi-play as part of a threesome but aren't attracted to men and would never consider a 1-on-1 with a man. We recently had a conversation with another couple (man handling comms) where the dude felt the need to repeatedly tell us he wasn't bisexual. Unsurprisingly it didn't work out. I kinda get that, but doesn’t the bi curious definition cover that guys status ?" I've always thought that bi-curious meant "never done it but would like to try". It still suggests that there is attraction to men. If Pinky sucks cock, that's nothing to do with his sexuality and everything to do with submission and the desire to please a partner. We need to think up another name for it that doesn't have "sexual" on the end. | |||
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" I've always thought that bi-curious meant "never done it but would like to try". It still suggests that there is attraction to men. If Pinky sucks cock, that's nothing to do with his sexuality and everything to do with submission and the desire to please a partner. We need to think up another name for it that doesn't have "sexual" on the end." True. I've just changed mine ha!...bisexual is more accurate than curious. I didn't want bisexual to lead anyone to think that I was fully and not just orally bi. But then the profile clears that up. Worth a read of this thread this morning for sure | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated! At the risk of being the only one disagreeing in this thread the correct terms ologies are: Bisexual - indicates a firm and established sexual identity. Bi-curious - suggests a period of exploration or curiosity about bisexuality. Bi Vers ⬆️⬇️➡️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex both giving and receiv ing Bi Top ⬆️ - enjoys oral and penetrative sex giving only Bi Bottom ⬇️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex receiving only Bi Side ➡️- mutual oral, no penetrative sex In all of the above, at discretion, some men will either kiss or not kiss. " That seems more accurate to my understanding. There is also a term ( switch) meaning they can enjoy any of the above depending on how they feel on the day and how comfortable they are with the person they are with | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated! At the risk of being the only one disagreeing in this thread the correct terms ologies are: Bisexual - indicates a firm and established sexual identity. Bi-curious - suggests a period of exploration or curiosity about bisexuality. Bi Vers ⬆️⬇️➡️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex both giving and receiv ing Bi Top ⬆️ - enjoys oral and penetrative sex giving only Bi Bottom ⬇️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex receiving only Bi Side ➡️- mutual oral, no penetrative sex In all of the above, at discretion, some men will either kiss or not kiss. " I think a bi side is what i would be under still explorinf at the same time | |||
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"I’m running a group chat full of genuine bi guys contact me if u wanna be in the group. No time wasters " A straight guy running a group chat full of genuine bi guys... Why do I smell a rat?  | |||
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"I’m running a group chat full of genuine bi guys contact me if u wanna be in the group. No time wasters A straight guy running a group chat full of genuine bi guys... Why do I smell a rat? "You beat me to it. | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated!" Top , he gives Bottom he takes Versatile gives and takes Oral , sucking only | |||
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"Gets more complicated when you have guys who will happily do a bit of bi-play as part of a threesome but aren't attracted to men and would never consider a 1-on-1 with a man. We recently had a conversation with another couple (man handling comms) where the dude felt the need to repeatedly tell us he wasn't bisexual. Unsurprisingly it didn't work out. I kinda get that, but doesn’t the bi curious definition cover that guys status ?" I thought the term was bi-playful | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated!" I agree with what you have written as I’m a Bi Top myself won’t receive penetration but can be tempted for heads | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated!" Couldn’t agree better - simple but to the point | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated!" I'm not bi but having met several bi curious guys here it seems a very broad term ranging from; * Just thinking about it * Curious and actively looking to try/experiment * Not my first choice but I'm horny and on the odd occasion I'll take what's on offer   | |||
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"Best way is just to have a conversation and ask what aspects of bi play do they enjoy or want to try. Because while there are widely accepted terms, people are pretty diverse in what they like. Plenty of bi and gay guys don't like or can't do anal play. Just like some straight people don't like or can't do anal play. " Well said | |||
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"Not sure if I'm misunderstanding terminology, or whether several guys recently have misled me to get a meet! As far as I understood, but I may be totally wrong: Fully bi - oral and penetrative, giving and receiving Bi top - penetrative giving Bi bottom - penetrative receiving Orally bi - oral both ways Recently had descriptions of bi top which have turned out to be oral receiving only (if that!) Would anyone be kind and candid enough, to tell me what they mean if they refer to themselves by any of these terms? Much appreciated! At the risk of being the only one disagreeing in this thread the correct terms ologies are: Bisexual - indicates a firm and established sexual identity. Bi-curious - suggests a period of exploration or curiosity about bisexuality. Bi Vers ⬆️⬇️➡️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex both giving and receiv ing Bi Top ⬆️ - enjoys oral and penetrative sex giving only Bi Bottom ⬇️- enjoys oral and penetrative sex receiving only Bi Side ➡️- mutual oral, no penetrative sex In all of the above, at discretion, some men will either kiss or not kiss. That seems more accurate to my understanding. There is also a term ( switch) meaning they can enjoy any of the above depending on how they feel on the day and how comfortable they are with the person they are with " That's more 'versatile' as in both top and bottom. 'Switch' relates to dom and sub | |||
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"I'd agree with what you've written, I'm down as bi curious as I'd never bottom, so won't ever be bisexual. Thank you all for responding! Particularly this one, as I'd never considered that bi curious might be used in that way. " I wondered if I am miss labeling myself as well. I consider myself bi curious. But I only suck (love it)and get sucked and have let the odd twink ride me.. So not sure what I am.. lol | |||
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"Doesn’t anyone else know the colour code system of defining bisexuality? I thought it was a standard, universally recognised system… Pink bi = full bisexual (receives and gives oral and anal) Red bi = only receives anal, gives and receives oral. Orange bi = only receives anal, only gives oral Yellow bi = only gives anal, only receives oral Green bi = no anal, receives and gives oral Blue bi = no anal, only gives oral Purple bi = no anal, only receives oral Brown bi = no anal, no oral, just kissing and holding hands White bi = attracted to men but has never done anything with a man. " Never heard of those colours. I consider myself fully bi as I love receiving anal. I do on occasion top guys but they have to be a slim guy and shorter than me. | |||
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"I dont know whether im more confident about my label, or whether im now more confused 😂 (Mr)" Same here  | |||
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