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how many cpls would be happy to play with us both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi basically post is what it says on title just wanted to know how many cpls would be happy playing with us both. its male part here i know my partners beutifull me not so much but wondered if anyone would take a second look at us in a club xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm kinda helps if there;s a few better face pics availiabe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not. And that's not based on the pics, but the previous posts have all been along the lines of the b/f lacking confidence in his looks and an element of having to be convinced to be involved and any hint of that type of dynamic does not appeal.

But having said that, if we met in a club and there was an attraction and it was clear that both parties were happy playing then conversely yes we probably would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooopsss, posted that halfway through the post.

Basically, the point I'm making is that attitude is as least as important as looks in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. Profile text says very little and pics aren't great. All previous advice has been ignored, Pity as there was some great advice given but up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we would .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have some confidence....and fill out your profile a bit more. You look good to me, but it's not just about looks. Neither me nor my man are drop dead gorgeous, but we both get plenty offers.......might be the dirty twinkle in our eyes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me either

Another look at me post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember you asking last week for advise on profile and was advised to remove said boxing pic and its still on there

Tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember you asking last week for advise on profile and was advised to remove said boxing pic and its still on there

Tut tut "

very off putting pic in my opinion but the OP obviously like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really confused what type of couple you are looking at the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys - you're probably going to start confusing people. Your last post was all about how to get a meet with a single female. Loads of advice was given (which yes, did include considering meeting for couples) but it appears that apart from that suggestion you've ignored every other piece of advice offered.

I'd be suprised if you hear anything different on this thread to the previous one!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah im deffo gonna get around to updating profile. thing is i like my boxing pic but i suppose it is a bit off putting and not relevent to the site. As for previous posts we are gonna start with socials first as we are not just in this for sex we also wanna make freinds with like minded people. cheers guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah im deffo gonna get around to updating profile. thing is i like my boxing pic but i suppose it is a bit off putting and not relevent to the site. As for previous posts we are gonna start with socials first as we are not just in this for sex we also wanna make freinds with like minded people. cheers guys xxx"

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Any clothing that is baggy as yours looks makes you look bigger than you probably are.

I agree that in a club its about personality a great deal more. So hard to comment x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

OP! I belive that you were given ample advice and help about your profile by a large number of experienced swingers in you post 'how could we improve profile to attract bi fems' as well as on a few other threads in the same kind of subject.

Not surprisingly you have not listened and have made no improvement whatsoever.

You are what I call TIMEWASTERS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember you asking last week for advise on profile and was advised to remove said boxing pic and its still on there

Tut tut

very off putting pic in my opinion but the OP obviously like it."

Yes I feel the same plus if you are taking any drugs for body building that on its own would be a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about anyone else but I am getting ticked off with the repeated asking for advice and then blatantly ignoring it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

As above really lots more sexy pics might raise more interest. Get the camera clicking. You can soon doctor the pics on your computer to hide faces etc if like us don't want to be recognised in public pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember you asking last week for advise on profile and was advised to remove said boxing pic and its still on there

Tut tut "

Surely advice is advice and not an order? It's up to them if they take the advice or not? (that comment is to everyone commenting on their profile)

OP yeah we'd play with you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"yeah im deffo gonna get around to updating profile. thing is i like my boxing pic but i suppose it is a bit off putting and not relevent to the site. As for previous posts we are gonna start with socials first as we are not just in this for sex we also wanna make freinds with like minded people. cheers guys xxx"

If you like your boxing pic then keep it. It is your profile..... (Don't really see what is off putting about it myself) Better than no picture at all.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We would chat to you if we saw you at a party....whether we would play with you would depend on your attitude and how well we got on.

However we would not mail you on here because of your lack of profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try The Lodge in Gloucestershire for their under 40's nights. Loads of Guys and Girls of a similar age to you two.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"We would chat to you if we saw you at a party....whether we would play with you would depend on your attitude and how well we got on.

However we would not mail you on here because of your lack of profile.

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Exactly the same as us to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would chat to you if we saw you at a party....whether we would play with you would depend on your attitude and how well we got on.

However we would not mail you on here because of your lack of profile.

"

Says it all.

Not everyone uses looks for first impressions and attraction has many many ingredients.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but then again first impressions so often turn out to be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP! I belive that you were given ample advice and help about your profile by a large number of experienced swingers in you post 'how could we improve profile to attract bi fems' as well as on a few other threads in the same kind of subject.

Not surprisingly you have not listened and have made no improvement whatsoever.

You are what I call TIMEWASTERS "

To be fair they have only been on nine weeks which is a very short amount of time to work out what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try The Lodge in Gloucestershire for their under 40's nights. Loads of Guys and Girls of a similar age to you two.

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The last subfourzero event was brilliant! A lot of like minded, great atmosphere, cracking music for all ppl under 40. You should check it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not all about looks its how well we get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your old profile had better pics.

But seems like you are no closer to actually meeting people for real than you were when you had that one.

Make your mind up what you want and then just go for it.

M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not all about looks its how well we get on "

This is true but first impressions count for a lot and if you're relying on your profile for that first contact, rather than an animated "you" at a club or party, you can live or die by your photos. I am 100% sure this couple could take better photos of themselves and as they themselves emphasised the male half, I reckon mrs should get clicking - but I'd prefer fewer clothes to see physique and a non aggressive pose personally

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