FabSwingers.com forum: Ex partners sister

By *agertoexplore OP Man
9 weeks ago

Cambridge

Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms

After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.

16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her

She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up

Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?

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By *cotlickMan
9 weeks ago

Falkirk

"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms

After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.

16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her

She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up

Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?"

Batter in. You are 2 consenting adults

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By *mateur100Man
9 weeks ago

nr faversham

"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms

After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.

16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her

She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up

Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?

Batter in. You are 2 consenting adults"

Agreed

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By *agertoexplore OP Man
9 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms

After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.

16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her

She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up

Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?

Batter in. You are 2 consenting adults"

That’s my thoughts but should we keep it quiet until it gets serious?

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By *londebiguyMan
9 weeks ago

Southport

"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms

After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.

16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her

She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up

Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?"

Enough time and more has passed.

You are adults so do what you want

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By *bi HaiveMan
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9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Has your ex moved on and seen other people?

Yes, there the family connection issue but you're all grown adults capable of making your own choices and decisions on who you see.

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By *agertoexplore OP Man
9 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Has your ex moved on and seen other people?

Yes, there the family connection issue but you're all grown adults capable of making your own choices and decisions on who you see.

Yes she’s with someone else, we can’t help who we’re attracted to I guess. If there wasn’t a family connection I’d have done something about it by now but I’ve held back because of it

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By *cotlickMan
9 weeks ago

Falkirk

"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms

After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.

16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her

She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up

Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?

Batter in. You are 2 consenting adults

That’s my thoughts but should we keep it quiet until it gets serious?"

Just enjoy yourself. Do you have a family who might give you stick for screwing their Aunty?

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By *agertoexplore OP Man
9 weeks ago

Cambridge

The family all still like me

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By *lleyCat1969Man
9 weeks ago

Folkestone

At least you already know what your future possible mother-in-law is like.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

Don't hide it, that makes people a bit miffed.

Women quite often don't feel the same sense of ownership towards a man the men do towards women but if I were you I'd mention it to your ex wife so she's not blindsided by it.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Northampton

What would your children say? Dating their aunt

Same question for ex partner

Then consider you are all consenting adults

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
9 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

You are both consenting adults so you both can do whatever you feel is right.

But if there is fall out you will both have to own that.

Make sure to tell her you uave a swingers website profile.

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man
9 weeks ago

mums cellar

I would say nothing wrong with it, but then I'd have said that 6 months after the split. I'm weird lol

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By *ellinever70Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Could you cope with how your kids might feel about you bedding their aunt?

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If deffo run it past your ex wife, she's still the mother of your kids and it's her sister at the end of the day.

You don't wanna hide it and things get weird or cause issues.

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By *lcherasDreamTimeCouple
9 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm sure I read in here about someone who married his ex wife's sister.

Couldn't begin to advise though sorry, the horn in me is saying go for it but the normal everyday me would be advising caution.

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By *teinsGateDuoCouple
8 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

So your kid might end up with an uncle-daddy?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
8 weeks ago

Coventry

"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms

After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.

16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her

She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up

Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?"

Not at all. You don't owe anything to your Ex. If this is a genuine mutual thing it would be stupid to not explore it and see where it goes.

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