I think I'd enjoy sex a lot more if I didn't feel obliged to put my penis inside other people.
Let me elaborate by means of a recent event. This isn't my main account on fab -- I opened this profile months ago to check my cam and mic worked.
I went to a swinger's club of an evening, in the last two weeks. There was about a dozen people in, a quiet day for that venue. After spending a short while there, chatting a little, I glanced in to the sauna (windowed door) and saw one of the women sat amongst about five men, her legs apart. If she opened an onlyfans (maybe she has), she'd be a top earner. So I stepped in to the sauna, sat down, gave myself a little wank to get hard.
She stood up and moved to the corner without seating "so you boys can get a better look," she said and after a minute of posing, she moved around each of the guys. She gave the first chap a blow while he felt between her legs for a few moments and moved on to me. I was sat higher than the first guy so she didn't have to kneel, and she took hold of my shaft -- already, I knew what was cum, I mean, coming.
Before her lips met my bell, I gently took hold of her wrist and guided her away, muttered something, like, not an apology or explanation, more a request to move on. I covered my tip with my hand, caught my load just in time (so as not to surprise baptise her) and I slipped my seven inches under the towel around my waist.
All this happened without a shudder. There was no anxiety as she approached, just a wave of weary resignation as the moment passed. I wonder, had she noticed what happened? I don't think any of the guys did. I stayed in the sauna for maybe a minute, had a shower, mooched around, left soon after. Within an hour, I was telling my asexual husband the evening's events. He said, "I guess you won't be having a wank tonight?" and I said, "Hells teeth, I'm so horny, definitely gonna unload again before bed".
This wasn't my first rodeo -- I go to events regularly, often I have lots of fun. This was a worst example of what can happen. It helps that I'm bi and a (wannabe vers) bottom -- At least I have a sex life. Top sex, or sex with a woman, only works when taken easy. I love to give oral, I'd like to use toys more. To have kissed her between her legs would have been great, even better if I was wanking her bloke at the same time, he was super hot too. There's are workarounds. If I pop half a Viagra (I had forgotten until 10 minutes before), I get stiff super easily that I don't have to wank it, and so can last longer. A beer helps. I was tempted for one, had bought some before arriving but had driven there so decided against. If I fuck or get sucked through a glory hole, I've lasted much longer. And sometimes, things are just better than others. TBH I was surprised that my reaction to her touch was so quick. (Two seconds!? If that!?!?) I thought, from recent experience, I could enjoy as much head as the last guy got and not cum. Wouldn't have entered the sauna otherwise.
Since then, I've found that there's a pill that may affect a man's duration, called dapoxytine. I'm looking into it. One side effect, may cause or make worse glaucoma. I have glaucoma.
Anyhoo, here be my thoughts. I figure, if there's any group of folk likely to have some helpful and sympathetic replies, they're here. |
