FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey, I’ve been on the site for a little bit now but haven’t had much luck.

I get that the m/f ratio is huge so I don’t send messages to everyone, I normally just send a few likes and see if I get any indications of interest. This might be silly since women so many likes and it gets missed but let me know what you think.

Anyway this means there’s a heavy reliance on my profile for initial interaction so was hoping for some advice (as brutal as it may be) to improve.

Thanks!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

Age bracket

Bio let your personality shine give a reason for a question to be asked

Remember people tend to read the bio before even sending the first message or even if responding so make it interesting

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Would you really want to sleep with a 99 year old?

A few more pictures wouldn’t hurt, they don’t have to be your cock or face but tasteful pics really can help.

I’d expand on your bio a little more, your profile is your shop window, try to sell yourself.

Maybe add a few more likes, interests, what you can offer

Donna x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
52 weeks ago

"Hiya op

Age bracket

Bio let your personality shine give a reason for a question to be asked

Remember people tend to read the bio before even sending the first message or even if responding so make it interesting "

Didn’t even think about the age bracket, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

It tells the reader nothing of what you’re looking for or what you offer. You talk about experiencing kinks and being open - to what? How can people gauge compatibility?

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Profile is the shop window. Most hate writing one.

But it necessary and incredibly important.

200 word summary of

You, your personality

Your interests, sexually

Experience, sexually or in kink/ bdsm

What you would like to try

That should cover all the bases.

If your still struggling, your young use the tools - Chat Gpt it!!

After that. Add a few tasteful pics. Couple with clothes, couple without, keep the dick pic down the viewing list or hidden.

Then. Be present. Engage online and offline.

Online - chatrooms, forums. Add meets, wink or send the odd message.

Be positive and golden rule; Don't be a dick!

Offline - socials, events, clubs, networks, meet the active community.

Be present, be positive. Golden rule Don't drink excessively and don't be a dick!

You will do just fine.

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
52 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent

Hi!

Try browsing other profile to get some tips. My husband is often working on ours. Adding to it, tweaking it to suit what we like/don't like.

We only started out in January so a still learning about the lifestyle.

But that's my advise. See what you like about profiles you view and adapt yours accordingly.

Be descriptive, add your own personality and above all...have some fun with it!

Good luck and happy fabbing!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
52 weeks ago

Leeds

Didn’t even think about the age bracket, thanks!"

Two days later and you still haven't changed it !

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