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By *rogal OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Falkirk

Hey, we have been swinging for a wee while now. We have had a major life change with having a baby!

We have discussed starting swinging again in the future and are thinking about hotwife meets during the day while our child is at nursery and hubby is working.

Is there any advice you'd give to a couple starting hot wifing? X

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe turn your filters on to block men, then search out men you like the look of and who have good veries from couples.

You'll be inundated if you put that you're looking for the lady to start meeting alone, I imagine.

Also always have a social meet first,rather than go straight for fun meets.

It's good with couples in that someone will always look out for you and know where you are etc.

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By *uncouple153Couple
9 weeks ago

Abergavenny

Have our first hot wife meet planned this week. We'll let you know..

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By *empest2KMan
9 weeks ago

Derby


"Maybe turn your filters on to block men, then search out men you like the look of and who have good veries from couples.

You'll be inundated if you put that you're looking for the lady to start meeting alone, I imagine.

Also always have a social meet first,rather than go straight for fun meets.

It's good with couples in that someone will always look out for you and know where you are etc. "

From my experience of meeting hotwives, this seems like sound advice, in my humble opinion 👍

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
9 weeks ago

Gillingham


"Hey, we have been swinging for a wee while now. We have had a major life change with having a baby!

We have discussed starting swinging again in the future and are thinking about hotwife meets during the day while our child is at nursery and hubby is working.

Is there any advice you'd give to a couple starting hot wifing? X"

Communicate! Communicate! Communicate!

Pick guys that are respectful and speak to you as a couple.

Avoid wannabe bulls with no verifications.

Be selective! And if something doesn't feel right about a guy dont meet them.

Choose a guy that is wanting to please all and not just himself, you can tell when a guy is only in it for himself by the way he talks...e.g "Can't wait to feel my dick in her pussy"

Had a guy recently that seemed good, had a hotwife meet with him and then couple days later found he's been showing our profile to his fwbs and trying to pimp wife out to them. So also be careful about methods of communication.

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By *rogal OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Falkirk


"Hey, we have been swinging for a wee while now. We have had a major life change with having a baby!

We have discussed starting swinging again in the future and are thinking about hotwife meets during the day while our child is at nursery and hubby is working.

Is there any advice you'd give to a couple starting hot wifing? X

Communicate! Communicate! Communicate!

Pick guys that are respectful and speak to you as a couple.

Avoid wannabe bulls with no verifications.

Be selective! And if something doesn't feel right about a guy dont meet them.

Choose a guy that is wanting to please all and not just himself, you can tell when a guy is only in it for himself by the way he talks...e.g "Can't wait to feel my dick in her pussy"

Had a guy recently that seemed good, had a hotwife meet with him and then couple days later found he's been showing our profile to his fwbs and trying to pimp wife out to them. So also be careful about methods of communication. "

Wow that is insane that he would do that!!

We have been burned before using things like WhatsApp, Kik and telegram so we tend to just keep things on here.

Your advice is greatly appreciated thank you

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By *rogal OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Falkirk


"Maybe turn your filters on to block men, then search out men you like the look of and who have good veries from couples.

You'll be inundated if you put that you're looking for the lady to start meeting alone, I imagine.

Also always have a social meet first,rather than go straight for fun meets.

It's good with couples in that someone will always look out for you and know where you are etc. "

These are great tips thank you!! We already have single males blocked as some of the messages were horrific!

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By *ivingthegoodlifeMan
6 weeks ago

Falkirk

Happy to help out. Feel free to pm

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By *otfunx1Man
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We often chat and fantasize about this.hope it happens for her soon

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By *heelerMan
6 weeks ago

Northants


"Hey, we have been swinging for a wee while now. We have had a major life change with having a baby!

We have discussed starting swinging again in the future and are thinking about hotwife meets during the day while our child is at nursery and hubby is working.

Is there any advice you'd give to a couple starting hot wifing? X"

Yes certainly can I be first.

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By *omRachCouple
6 weeks ago

Wirral


"Have our first hot wife meet planned this week. We'll let you know.."

How did it go?

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"Hey, we have been swinging for a wee while now. We have had a major life change with having a baby!

We have discussed starting swinging again in the future and are thinking about hotwife meets during the day while our child is at nursery and hubby is working.

Is there any advice you'd give to a couple starting hot wifing? X"

Make sure you trust the guy you’re meeting and hubby is definitely ok with a guy meeting you alone, definitely send hubby pics and vids as you play!

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By *ndymac888Man
6 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Are you guys looking for one guy ?

Might be worth building up the trust before opening it up to applications. I would follow the previous advice of blocking the messages and pick the profiles you think have potential.

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