FabSwingers.com forum: Questions?

By *ickie_Ranking OP Man
11 weeks ago

Space Mountain

Recently I messaged a lady with a cheeky reply to her status and she replied back (which is rare for me).

I asked her two simple, friendly (not sleezy) question and got asked, am I police due to asking all these questions.

I'm a little confused, how do you get to know someone initially without asking questions?

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

This sounds like she was engaging with some banter officer.

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By *ucka39Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

Try sarcasm

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By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, it depends on what you're asking.

I hate being asked about work or where abouts I am etc, by people I don't really know. Sometimes it can feel like an inquisition, so maybe that's what they meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

For anyone to give an answer you’d need to say what the questions you asked were

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

" got asked, am I police due to asking all these questions.

Did you asking you could take down her particulars ?

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By *all me FlikWoman
11 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

"Hi op, it depends on what you're asking.

I hate being asked about work or where abouts I am etc, by people I don't really know. Sometimes it can feel like an inquisition, so maybe that's what they meant. "

I would agree with this... sometimes it feels like they are building up towards asking your mother's maiden name.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Did you say "may I ask you a question? How is this site treating you ?"

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By *herrybakewellCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Questions are good, but it depends on their context.

Its nice when someone wants to get to know you. When you immediately get hit with graphic pictures and messages....for us thats a huge turn off.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

e.g. Do you prefer girth or length ?

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By *iss DevilWoman
11 weeks ago

Bedford

All depends on the kind of questions and the number of them. Did you ask one, let them reply, than ask another? Or was it like a Fab survey? I hate questions about my work and my private life, as well as how I'm doing on here or "what's the naughtiest thing you've done".

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By *ickie_Ranking OP Man
11 weeks ago

Space Mountain

I asked, what type of guys is she attracted to and what excites her?

Then I got asked am I police due to the amount of questions asked?

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By *reyeyesesMan
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

Well, are you police?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
11 weeks ago

Norwich

"I asked, what type of guys is she attracted to and what excites her?

Then I got asked am I police due to the amount of questions asked?"

Maybe that was a clue and she's attracted to policemen.

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By *uliette500Woman
11 weeks ago

Hull

"Did you say "may I ask you a question? How is this site treating you ?""

My answer to the first one of those is normally "You just did"

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By *ellhungvweMan
11 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Did you also offer to show her your truncheon?

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By *rdere OpusCouple
11 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"Did you say "may I ask you a question? How is this site treating you ?""

Or the other favourites… so have you been naughty/been having much fun lately? 🤢

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
11 weeks ago

Essex

Did you ask to see her driving license and to blow on your tube?

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By *ickie_Ranking OP Man
11 weeks ago

Space Mountain

No to all above

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Hi op, it depends on what you're asking.

I hate being asked about work or where abouts I am etc, by people I don't really know. Sometimes it can feel like an inquisition, so maybe that's what they meant. "

100% this im here to swing not give out my job and family / life details

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

oh and asking if ive played recently and who with is another one that stops the chatting

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

My profile says I am in Leeds which is true. So many people message asking "what part of Leeds are you ?" Does it matter ?

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By *ickD80Man
10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

To be honest, i’d say that asking someone who you’ve only exchanged one previous message with ‘what excites you?’ is a bit sleazy. You say ‘how am i meant to get to know someone without asking them questions’ but asking someone what men they are attracted to and what excites them doesn’t seem like you were trying to get to know her, you’ve basically made the conversation sexual with your second message. I think that her reply was a way of trying to use humour to disguise the fact that she didn’t want to disclose her sexual desires to a complete stranger, she was avoiding answering an inappropriate question in the most polite way she could. You are making out like you’re completely innocent and was just being friendly and she was the aggressor with a bad attitude, but i think that it was actually the other way round.

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