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Looking for honest opinions on my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys, just wondering if a few of u could have a look at my profile and give me some honest feedback. Been here for a few months now and had a few chats here & there with no end results. Whether the members I'm chatting with are genuine or not I don't know. Everything on my profile is true and I've been very honest in everything I've said. Cheers guys, much appreciated!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

1. 3 cock pics! There must be more to you than your cock. If you have to have cock pics on display 1 is fine. Get some more varied pics on.

2. 18-99. Would you really meet a 99 year old If one messaged you?

3. No point moaning about people not replying to messages. It happens. It's not rude or ignorant. It's in the site FAQ that its not rude not to reply and should just be taken as a no thanks.

4. Try and break it up a bit, it's quite hard to read as one huge paragraph.

5. Cannot accom...does put a lot of people off as rightly or wrongly they assume you are married etc, maybe pop a line in your profile stating the reason (even if you are married) then people can make an informed choice!

On the plus side you can spell, string a sentence together and seem friendly enough from your profile text. Just have a reshuffle, varied pics etc xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 cocks pics and no other pics - is there more to you than your cock?

The lack of paragraphs make it pretty hard to read.

Self pitying is not a great look so starting off talking about failed relationships and unfulfilled desires is not a great start. But it's not as bad as telling people how to use the site and calling people ignorant for not replying. Your preferences basically cover everybody, make you sound desperate and contradict your claim not to sleep with the first person you meet.

To be honest, non of it is particularly appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with advice above. Profile as it stands currently is quite off putting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Jimmy, no avatar pic....your profile is too negative, get rid of anything negative, what is past is past, build a bridge and get over it, break itup into paragraphs, check your spelling, a quick glance and I saw several....

Sell yourself, what can you offer? What do you like? Put something of your personality it. What makes you buzz? Your age range is wide....would you really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One big paragraph. I stopped reading to be honest. Maybe put up some face pics and put the others on private? And am wondering why you cant accommodate, perhaps say so in your profile. Have fun and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoa.....overload on the cock shots I think!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your input, will take all comments on board and try and come up with something more appealing. As I said I've just been honest but now reading over it I can see why negativity isn't the best way an will try to give more of an insight to who I am. Thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No avatar pic and contrary to what guys might think, ladies do not particularly want to see cock pictures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i have an opinion on my profile ladies thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i have an opinion on my profile ladies thanks "
Hi. I read your profile. Maybe have a body shot or 2. Im guessing you cant post face pics (like me). Also, see you cant accommodate, perhaps put why in your profile and a bit nitpicky here maybe but there are a couple of little spelling mistakes. sorry just me re spelling. good luck

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi guys, just wondering if a few of u could have a look at my profile and give me some honest feedback. Been here for a few months now and had a few chats here & there with no end results. Whether the members I'm chatting with are genuine or not I don't know. Everything on my profile is true and I've been very honest in everything I've said. Cheers guys, much appreciated!"

with the greatest of respect to what everyone else has said and the advice given, you may well have just said "I am going to make my profile generic because I can't come up with my own idea on how to sell myself"

the truth of it is there are no quick fixes.. no magic formulas and no way to jump the queues to get meets.....

a lot of it is basic common sense.. if you can't sell yourself to your best ability then how is a stranger going to do it?

a lot can be said for individuality... the more you listen and change the profile accordingly... the less you it becomes and the more generic it becomes

you make the mistake that most people who ask for advice in these type of threads do...by trying to appeal to everyone, you in fact do the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i have an opinion on my profile ladies thanks "

Ran out of breath reading your profile text! Use some full stops or think about bullet points so it's not just one block of text. Pics are unimaginative tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering if a few of u could have a look at my profile and give me some honest feedback. Been here for a few months now and had a few chats here & there with no end results. Whether the members I'm chatting with are genuine or not I don't know. Everything on my profile is true and I've been very honest in everything I've said. Cheers guys, much appreciated!"

Gosh I can see why you are struggling here mate. Mrs N would not be at all impressed. The ladies are not interested in cock shots. You need to have a nice smiley face picture to stand any chance I would think.

Also a blokes bum is as important as his cock so less of the pulling it back to make it as huge as you can muster and a piccy of your maximus glutimus might go down better. Ladies like a nice tight pair of buttocks. Mrs N does anyway.

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Our position on cock pics ... NEVER use as a profile avatar ... horrible ... and more than one is pointless. Unless your cock is involved in a sexual activity, it just comes across as bragging about a penis ... which is never an attention grabber So put up a variety of nice pics showing more than that!

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By *ickloverMan
over a year ago

Devizes

Go on then.... I might aswel join in the fun...... What's wrong with my profile please? Lol. Don't be too harsh, I'm only a man ! Lol.

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