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"Just wondering if anyone would be up for casting an eye over my dating profile and offering a few pointers? As a single (bi) guy, I know the odds are a bit rough – especially if you’re not exactly a head-turner – but I’d like to give myself the best shot … I totally get that people like to ‘window shop’ before taking a closer look, (hence some pics relating to my nether regions, but it’s not featured on my main profile picture) so I’d really appreciate any advice on how to make my profile more engaging. Suggestions for improved photos are especially welcome. I’m working with limited raw materials, admittedly – if I were a car, I’d probably be a beige Vauxhall Corsa: not much to look at, fairly forgettable, but still plugging along. That said, even the most uninspiring cars can be polished up, right?" You’re a perfect guy to meet. You need to expand your profile summary. Talk about yourself. As you’re intelligent you can pop in a joke or two to highlight you’ve got a sense of humour. You would love bi night at VA. It’s the first Friday each month and you would fit right in, you’re very local to Vanilla Alternative, Sandy. Btw you’re a red Ferrari xx I will send you a PM so we can talk more xx Sam xx   | |||
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"The main question to ask yourself is, does your current profile give the reader enough information to gauge compatibility? Can they tell what you’re looking for, what you offer and particularly, why you - above all the other single men on Fab? " I don’t have a six pack and muscles, and the size of my cock is average, so I’m immediately at a disadvantage 🤣 If such emphasis is placed on physical attraction (understandably so) then one would think the platonic part is secondary. But I guess there are some sapiosexuals out there. They’re my ‘target market’ 🫣 | |||
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"The main question to ask yourself is, does your current profile give the reader enough information to gauge compatibility? Can they tell what you’re looking for, what you offer and particularly, why you - above all the other single men on Fab? I don’t have a six pack and muscles, and the size of my cock is average, so I’m immediately at a disadvantage 🤣 If such emphasis is placed on physical attraction (understandably so) then one would think the platonic part is secondary. But I guess there are some sapiosexuals out there. They’re my ‘target market’ 🫣 " I’d say you’re mistaken if you think six packs and a huge dick are top of the list for everyone. The point of my post was to suggest you look at what you do have and to emphasise that. Many people are looking for friendships, for intelligent conversation and for a laugh with the people they meet. | |||
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"Good redo of your profile summary. Add in a few songs you like as you mention your Apple play list, or don't and let the reader ask, you stay a little mysterious. Your choice xx "Important to stay a little mysterious… | |||
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"I'm not sure what an unsolicited anatomical monologue involves. " That he isn't gonna say the usual diatribe of compliments on boobs? | |||
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" That he isn't gonna say the usual diatribe of compliments on boobs?" Or say he has a huge penis ? | |||
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" That he isn't gonna say the usual diatribe of compliments on boobs? Or say he has a huge penis ?" Yes exactly Sally, those monologues are painful to read and irrelevant as they haven't bothered to read profiles. They're just spam xx | |||
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"I'm not sure what an unsolicited anatomical monologue involves. " Perhaps I should edit the flowery language to make it clearer 😜 | |||
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" That he isn't gonna say the usual diatribe of compliments on boobs? Or say he has a huge penis ?" Well that one is certainly not going to happen 😆 | |||
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"I'm not sure what an unsolicited anatomical monologue involves. Perhaps I should edit the flowery language to make it clearer 😜" I would say your profile is intended to attract people you’re compatible with, not appeal to the masses. If you feel it represents you, keep it! | |||
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"Seems a good profile. Your verifications should be enough to win the casual viewer over. Society is mercenary. It is what it is sadly. Be true to yourself, or fully enter into the sycophantic side of life." Thank you 🫡 | |||
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"I'm not sure what an unsolicited anatomical monologue involves. Perhaps I should edit the flowery language to make it clearer 😜 I would say your profile is intended to attract people you’re compatible with, not appeal to the masses. If you feel it represents you, keep it! " Much appreciated! | |||
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