FabSwingers.com forum: I never get any Replies

By *i_Guy.01 OP Man
12 weeks ago

Colchester

Heya I thought I'd jump on here and post something to see if I could get any advice on what I could be doing wrong.

I've had an account here for years but somehow only ever get replies from and met like 5 (all men) people. I get lots of views on my profile after I message people but otherwise I am never messaged or am replied to.

I don't think I'm particularly ugly and always message people who are looking to meet men of my age and read profiles as well as send reasonably long messages mentioning things I read in their Bio.

If anyone can give me any advise on what I could be doing wrong I would very much appreciate it.

Thank you very much in advance.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
12 weeks ago

Brum - ish

I’d say there are two possible factors - one you can work on, another you can’t.

Do you feel that your profile gives people enough information to gauge compatibility? Does it tell them who you are, what you’re looking for and what you offer?

The other possible issue is your age - you may be close in age to the children of people you’re messaging which can make people uncomfortable. Lots of people won’t be bothered though so it’s not insurmountable.

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By *harAndBryCouple
12 weeks ago

Downham Market

You're a good looking guy, but half your pics are close-up dick pics. Maybe rethink those and go for something more subtle and bit classier?

Age is against you, and oddly enough the two words "quality people" would actually put us off. Weird, but it's the little things.

Maybe it's not your profile, but your messages?

(Bry)

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If you're 23 now, dick pics uploaded 6 years ago make me uncomfortable 💜

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

Solo guy profiles are literally ten a penny in here mate, the competition is fierce, simply down to numbers. A big issue with that is, every profile you are messaging, that person will be receiving messages from all the others, so it’s not surprising women don’t respond.

You are openly bisexual, which will suit many, but not all. This will cut down your potential matches also.

A lot of ‘successes’ in Fab boil down to opportunity and convenience. Simply put; right time, right place.

Just do your own thing mate, and remember this place is an extra to life, not all there is.

Speaking as a straight guy, there are far more women out there in vanillaland, than there ever will be in here, or the swinger clubs (as many will recommend you try) . All the best

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By *uss and peenCouple
12 weeks ago

West of the Midlands

"If you're 23 now, dick pics uploaded 6 years ago make me uncomfortable 💜"

Good eye for detail...kinda scary 🤣

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By *i_Guy.01 OP Man
12 weeks ago

Colchester

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By *i_Guy.01 OP Man
12 weeks ago

Colchester

"If you're 23 now, dick pics uploaded 6 years ago make me uncomfortable 💜"

I see where you're coming from there. Made the account back in June 2019 (my 18th birthday) and it dies look a bit suspicious

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By *harAndBryCouple
12 weeks ago

Downham Market

Don't take this in any way other than the good nature that it's intended, but grow the beard back.

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By *i_Guy.01 OP Man
12 weeks ago

Colchester

"Don't take this in any way other than the good nature that it's intended, but grow the beard back."

I still have the beard, just like some of the older photos I have without it. Don't take pics to often

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

You have four pics uploaded on the same day but your hair and beard are totally different in them.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

Everyone will only ever be mutually compatible with a really, really tiny minority of people.

If they're unsure, they'll move on. Having views but no contact, just means that you're in the normal range, where you're not matching.

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By *i_Guy.01 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Colchester

Some of them are older pics that I like. They're all less then 2 years old so still an accurate depiction

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By *uenevereWoman
11 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Some of them are older pics that I like. They're all less then 2 years old so still an accurate depiction"

Fair enough.

However, I think your photos are more likely to appeal to men than women. Very cock heavy.

The fact that you consider yourself experienced in a variety of kinks, is probably not doing you any favours either, given your youth.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
11 weeks ago

Norwich

I don't know what age group you're interested in but as people have mentioned you're 23, that would naturally stop a lot of people being interested.

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By *ndymac888Man
11 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Hi pal,

Have you tried looking for couples ?

I see a lot of single ladies outright don’t want to meet bi guys but alternatively a lot of couples that do.

Also single ladies genuinely and almost uniformly dislike dick pics unless they ask for them (I mean definitely have them ready for PM’s) so maybe make them private.

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By *ee642024Woman
11 weeks ago

Crook

you state you dont want single men yet have met men. I would be wondering if a woman would be binned by you in favour of a man??

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