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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

Hello , obviously I fully understand and respect people will only meet others who are verified . But what’s the best approach for me to get verified. I send my face and a nice warm welcoming message and it’s just always brushed off and replied “youre not verified” or most will overlook it and delete straight away - which is all understandable

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

You could go on cam in chatroom and ask if someone would kindly verify you.. although alot of people dont go by cam veris.. could try going to organised socials or a club and meet people there and someone might verify you.

Remember being verified doesnt automatically get you meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

Absolutely you’re right . Verification doesn’t always lead to meets but even conversations would be better . Thankyou very much for the reply 😊. I’m still fairly new to all of this . Appreciate it

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
11 weeks ago

land of overweight munters

Most people will look at your profile and that will decide if they reply or not.....

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Before opening a message with attached pics or looking at a profile, people see your profile pic. You need to decide if yours is enticing enough for them to want to read your message and profile.

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By *nuggle_fuckersCouple
11 weeks ago

Cardiff

Add some tasteful photos, delete the bit about looking for a verification, add a little detail about what you're looking for.

Look to attend a local social or event where you can meet others face to face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

Thankyou all very much . Shall tweak a few things now 😊

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

11 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Always worth remembering that every single Fab profile starts out the same.

Unverified.

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By *harAndBryCouple
11 weeks ago

Downham Market


"Hello , obviously I fully understand and respect people will only meet others who are verified . But what’s the best approach for me to get verified. I send my face and a nice warm welcoming message and it’s just always brushed off and replied “youre not verified” or most will overlook it and delete straight away - which is all understandable "

It's not just your lack of verifications.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

People do meet unverified users. But the stark fact is the vast majority of people are not mutually compatible, whether messages are fantastic or verified etc

Get to clubs and socials or meet any type of person who will do it.

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By *neeyedwillieMan
11 weeks ago

Darlington

Veris are meaningless.

A few points to to take it to account.

I'm well verified...and yet I've never had a single meet through Fab (on this account). It's all clubs and social events where other people where on Fab as well.

Also why waste your time on here anyway? Yes, fab has its uses but for the most part as a single or solo male you are one person in hundreds messaging women and / or couples. So once you message so eone it becomes a case of If you get read, if you get replied, if the conversation does not dry up or worse, it's a catfish... etc etc etc. It then begs the question...why spend so much time behind a screen doing the same thing over and over getting the same outcome?

Much easier and more fun to go to a club or social, chat to people, read the room amd go from there.

Not bashing on Fab or anyone on it. But I think there's a lot of people on here now who use it just for validation or to live out mental fantasies or you're just not what they want but you don't know it till you message.... so...you know...do the work, get the results which means putting yourself out there and not on here. Online connections are not great....imo.

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By *ngelina042025Woman
10 weeks ago

London


"Veris are meaningless.

A few points to to take it to account.

I'm well verified...and yet I've never had a single meet through Fab (on this account). It's all clubs and social events where other people where on Fab as well.

Also why waste your time on here anyway? Yes, fab has its uses but for the most part as a single or solo male you are one person in hundreds messaging women and / or couples. So once you message so eone it becomes a case of If you get read, if you get replied, if the conversation does not dry up or worse, it's a catfish... etc etc etc. It then begs the question...why spend so much time behind a screen doing the same thing over and over getting the same outcome?

Much easier and more fun to go to a club or social, chat to people, read the room amd go from there.

Not bashing on Fab or anyone on it. But I think there's a lot of people on here now who use it just for validation or to live out mental fantasies or you're just not what they want but you don't know it till you message.... so...you know...do the work, get the results which means putting yourself out there and not on here. Online connections are not great....imo.

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Very fair points you make. I do meet men online but if they don’t meet me at a club then that’s the end of that.

I reply to messages but of course I can’t keep up with every message my life is too busy for that lol xx

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