FabSwingers.com forum: How can I improve my profile

By *jd91 OP Man
11 weeks ago

manchester

Hi everyone, I was wondering if any women would be able to help improve my profile. I’ve been on this site for a little while, I’d like to think I’m polite and respectful when I message but honestly I’m finding it pretty brutal. I make sure to attach a face pic every time I contact someone and I know I’m no Ryan Gosling but I don’t think I’m THAT bad looking. I totally understand that women obviously get absolutely bombarded with messages and I’m sure that’s pretty damn annoying at times, but I never thought it would be this rough. So yeah, any advice would be AMAZING! Thanks in advance

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By *osh blokeMan
11 weeks ago

hereford

"Hi everyone, I was wondering if any women would be able to help improve my profile. I’ve been on this site for a little while, I’d like to think I’m polite and respectful when I message but honestly I’m finding it pretty brutal. I make sure to attach a face pic every time I contact someone and I know I’m no Ryan Gosling but I don’t think I’m THAT bad looking. I totally understand that women obviously get absolutely bombarded with messages and I’m sure that’s pretty damn annoying at times, but I never thought it would be this rough. So yeah, any advice would be AMAZING! Thanks in advance

I'm not a woman mate but had a look at your profile and it looks ok. Id have thought you'd be getting plenty of replies and meets. You've got a massive cock! Lol

My advice would be to read their profile 1st and remember the bits that interest you. Be sure to mention these in your initial email. This is common ground you have with a stranger and is likely to start a conversation which could lead to something.

Your profile states that you travel around a lot with work blah blah so endless messaging isn't going to work....(obviously I've paraphrased here) it gives the impression that that you just want quick hook ups while you're in the area. That's cool and it's good to be upfront but I'm pretty sure it'll narrow your market so to speak. That said, women are like us also, some do want just a hook up but it'd better to spread bet.

Get on the forums mate...chat on there...put in some effort and get attention. With your massive dong youll get it and then you'll get some...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Your pics are lovely. Maybe women on this site aren't into "deep chats" ?

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By *harAndBryCouple
11 weeks ago

Downham Market

Your pics are good, your profile text is good. Understand you're not looking for couples, but we'd *maybe* reply to a message, depending on the message itself. However there's a few red flags:

You're looking for 18-99 year olds. Either you will fuck anything and aren't fussy, or just been a bit lazy in filling in the profile.

You've no meet verifications at all, which to us is a major factor in whether you'll actually turn up. Try clubs or non-play socials to get a few meet verifications.

There's an inconsistency in your text/pics. It says discretion needed and you'll send a face pic, but then there's one in your public pics.

You also have to remember that there are SO many single guys and SO few single women. You have to be lucky to be in the right area at the right time with the right message.

(Bry)

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

" any advice would be AMAZING! "

You say you've been here before and know the quirks of this site!

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By *ikesEmBigMan
11 weeks ago

Herts

Don't copy mine

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
11 weeks ago

Chester

The request for a face pic on first reply would be why I’d not reply - I agree with you that it’s nice to know who you’re chatting to, but equally you have to remember that in general women have a different risk profile to men.

When you say ‘brutal’, are people being rude? Or just not replying?

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By *aloma PicassoWoman
11 weeks ago

Waterford city

I love your profile. You look gorgeous in your pictures. Ladies please form an orderly queue

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