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By *ldbutnewguy OP   Man
11 weeks ago

hemel

Looking for tips re what to say, is profile ok etc.

Been here a while and need advice as seem to be getting nowhere.

Happy to chat via DM

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
11 weeks ago

Chester

Delete the legal stuff - it’s pointless and takes up half of your profile.

Otherwise, just remember that confidence is sexy. I’m definitely not advising you to lie, but a bit of ‘fake it until you make it’ in terms of outlook might be useful.

At the moment it reads a bit as if you’re just after a pity shag, and that’s very unlikely to happen!

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By *iss DevilWoman
11 weeks ago

Bedford


"Delete the legal stuff - it’s pointless and takes up half of your profile.

Otherwise, just remember that confidence is sexy. I’m definitely not advising you to lie, but a bit of ‘fake it until you make it’ in terms of outlook might be useful.

At the moment it reads a bit as if you’re just after a pity shag, and that’s very unlikely to happen! "

I very much agree with this one. You need some better pics, the one you have is not putting you in the best light.

Have a think about what you want from here, and remember you're one of thousands single men on here. If you don't make your profile stand out, the likelihood of getting a meet through here is

very low.

Also, please remember one of the points from FAQs- no reply means "not interested", so best to forget and move on. Some people delete all their "sent" messages as that helps with the expectations of getting a response.

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By *iss DevilWoman
11 weeks ago

Bedford

Last but not least, that I forgot to include, is that nobody is going to tell you what to write in your profile, OP.

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By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It doesn't really give me any sense of you op, so maybe write what you do offer and sell yourself.

As Gwendoline said, don't talk yourself down.

Maybe some more pics added in too, it's difficult for single men on here, due to the numbers.

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By *w funwifeWoman
11 weeks ago

near taunton

your owed nothing on this scene and people will only meet you if they want to ..given the sheer number of men on the scene that leaves very few who will susceed

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair


"your owed nothing on this scene..."

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That goes for women too...

I don't think he's implying that he's owed anything. He's simply asking for tips from a p+sitive standpoint.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Maybe it's your user name which people find offputting. You're not new as you have been here over two years and you're not old as you're only 55.

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