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By *edstraveller OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Ipswich

Hi all,

set my profile here a while back but apart from that haven't really dipped my toe in. I appreciate as a single male (and I'll be honest - partnered but looking to cheat) I'm really up against it.

Please take a look and do the usual - constructive criticism, tips etc. Face pics are available for friends only (of which I currently have none!).

Am looking for some adventure via afternoon meets, with couples or single women mainly in Suffolk: Bury St Edmunds and surrounding 20 mile radius but could go further for a good prospect.

Am 80% straight but prepared to explore my bi side with the right couple.

Would be happy for now to make a few friends and do a bit of chatting, see where it leads. Even if you're not interested but willing to help get me verified, would be much appreciated.

Thanks all,

D x

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
11 weeks ago

Chester

In my view, you could do with being up front and really clear about your situation in your profile, so that people can make an informed decision about whether to engage or not.

It’s absolutely not fair to make someone have to discover that after investing time and effort messaging.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

I'm going to echo the sentiments of adding that you are partnered to your profile so people can make an educated decision on interacting with you or not.

If you are bi curious than put that on your profile.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

I think it is a well written profile but I query your phrase "no baggage" when you have a partner

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By *ray_BTWMan
11 weeks ago

Worcester

Profile is "ok" but own your "bi" side.

Needs a lot more interesting pics.

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By *harAndBryCouple
11 weeks ago

Downham Market

Cut to the chase - you have one photo that shows you as very average at best, when added to the married part will make you a very unlikely choice for most on here. You also say about photos when you're friends....an awful lot (most?) of the people on here aren't going to devote time to becoming friends unless they see an attraction in the first place.

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
11 weeks ago

land of overweight munters

40s white English male.......age is already on your profile.

Am new to this.......profile is more than 6 months and so nit actually new.

'no baggage' manner......not very nice wording.

Physically I am tall, medium build .......already stated on your profile.

Use the search function and look for advice threads there are 100s

But everyone's looking for someone different and you can't please everyone

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
11 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs Ares

Harsh but fair ... us chaps have to make an extra effort too....

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By *edstraveller OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Ipswich

Thanks, that's a fair point.

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By *edstraveller OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Ipswich

Appreciate the honesty! Aware I am no Adonis, figure it's best to be honest with the pics.

As per others advice I'll get a few more put up for a more complete representation.

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By *edstraveller OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Ipswich

Thank you, all noted

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