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By *omeGuylol96 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hi, I'm very new to this scene and was wondering if I could get some advice on my profile? I understand the ratio of single men looking is high but what would help my profile stand out and what could I change up in my bio? What kind of pictures could I take/post without having to show my face to the world? I see some profiles wanting dick pics immediately while others ignore/block if they see them.

To give you some context; I'm looking for women aged 18-48 (54 max depending), for local meets and outdoor fun, either a FWB or ONS situation. I'm learning to drive and I live with family members so hosting isn't possible and I can only travel short distance. I prefer more one-on-one situations with a woman rather than having other guys present.

Any advise would very much be appreciated

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By *igrobboMan
over a year ago

Sunderland

Mate I have asked the same question in another forum and all I can say is prepare yourself. They tore my profile to pieces but at the same.time they all gave me some much needed advice on how to change it.

Good luck

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP you say in your profile that in five months you haven't got round to taking any pics, other than a blurred one with your face scribbled out. When someone puts no effort into their pics it makes me think they will also put no effort into a meet.

I have used public transport to get from Leeds to Manchester, Blackpool, Northwich, Nottingham, Peterborough and even Benidorm for meets so I don't think not being able to drive should restrict you to only short distances.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP you say in your profile that in five months you haven't got round to taking any pics, other than a blurred one with your face scribbled out. When someone puts no effort into their pics it makes me think they will also put no effort into a meet.

I have used public transport to get from Leeds to Manchester, Blackpool, Northwich, Nottingham, Peterborough and even Benidorm for meets so I don't think not being able to drive should restrict you to only short distances.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Apologies for duplication. Dodgy WiFi!

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By *cots92Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Advise please on profile, TIA

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, your one pic isn't great and doesn't give much away, so more pics.

Apologies if I'm wrong on this, but daytime only & outdoor meets, often suggests someone's got a partner at home. If that's not the case, perhaps put a line in about why you seek weekday meets.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Advise please on profile, TIA "

Maybe actually write something on your profile.its totally blank and gives no idea of what you're into or offering any meets.

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

The profile picture you’ve isn’t great.

Pictures don’t need to be of your face or cock but tasteful pictures can really help.

For single men it’s really difficult but I think you’ve narrowed your chances even more by preferring day meets and ruling out couples, not saying your preferences are wrong but they will remove a lot of possible people.

Being verified would help as well, perhaps if there are any local group socials you could consider attending?

They are a great way of meeting people and quite often lead to future private meets.

Donna

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe


"Advise please on profile, TIA "

It would be best to start your own thread.

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Advise please on profile, TIA "

My advice, to actually write a profile.

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By *cots92Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hi op, your one pic isn't great and doesn't give much away, so more pics.

Apologies if I'm wrong on this, but daytime only & outdoor meets, often suggests someone's got a partner at home. If that's not the case, perhaps put a line in about why you seek weekday meets. "

No that’s not right, but can’t see where to change it that’s my problem?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

No that’s not right, but can’t see where to change it that’s my problem? "

Go to account and click on "my profile " or "edit details "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi op, your one pic isn't great and doesn't give much away, so more pics.

Apologies if I'm wrong on this, but daytime only & outdoor meets, often suggests someone's got a partner at home. If that's not the case, perhaps put a line in about why you seek weekday meets.

No that’s not right, but can’t see where to change it that’s my problem? "

That advice was to the original poster.. the advice to you was to start your own thread and not hijack another and actually write a profile as yours is blank

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Hi op, your one pic isn't great and doesn't give much away, so more pics.

Apologies if I'm wrong on this, but daytime only & outdoor meets, often suggests someone's got a partner at home. If that's not the case, perhaps put a line in about why you seek weekday meets.

No that’s not right, but can’t see where to change it that’s my problem? "

My reply you've quoted there was to the original poster, not yourself.

I said to you, to write a bit on your bio, as its blank.

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By *cots92Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

How do I change the mid day meets and outdoor not sure why it’s like that

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"How do I change the mid day meets and outdoor not sure why it’s like that "

That wasn't aimed at you, we've said already that's the original person who started this thread, as he's asked for advice.

Our advice to you was to write something on your profile as you have no text at all.

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By *cots92Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ve just realised that sorrry 😂🤦🏼‍♂️

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By *omeGuylol96 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *omeGuylol96 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex


"OP you say in your profile that in five months you haven't got round to taking any pics, other than a blurred one with your face scribbled out. When someone puts no effort into their pics it makes me think they will also put no effort into a meet.

I have used public transport to get from Leeds to Manchester, Blackpool, Northwich, Nottingham, Peterborough and even Benidorm for meets so I don't think not being able to drive should restrict you to only short distances. "

All fair and valid comments which is appreciated.

I live in an isolated area so public transport is too far out to walk and getting an Uber would be too expensive. Although I can appreciate someone's dedication to travel long distances across the country, it's not something for me.

I made the account 5 months ago and have only been on in the last week or so, I've taken pictures but I'm more curious to know what people want to see in a profile before posting any.

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By *omeGuylol96 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi op, your one pic isn't great and doesn't give much away, so more pics.

Apologies if I'm wrong on this, but daytime only & outdoor meets, often suggests someone's got a partner at home. If that's not the case, perhaps put a line in about why you seek weekday meets. "

Gotcha, more pictures would be better. But I'm curious to know what kind of pics. Also yeah, I don't want to give off that impression because that's not the kind of person I am so I'll definitely add more of an explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if your not able to do this without help then what's gonna happen in real life?

Click on forums and at the top there's 2 options, search forum is one of them, type in profile advice and there's 100s to read through

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By *hakaMan
over a year ago

oldham

Advise on my profile please?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Advise on my profile please? "

Hiya

Well you only have one photo, and your bio could do with a little more, maybe a bit about you what makes you tick and any hobbies or interests. Then expand with your sexual desires and what you are able to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advise on profile please 🙂

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Advise on profile please 🙂"

Go by what I've written above let your personality shine

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By *mimrgreyMan
over a year ago

lancaster

Id just leave it you could have the best profile on here along with pictures be polite and all the bs thats recommended and still wont get anywere took me almost a year to get my one verification good luck though

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

OP, how are you expecting to meet people then? Seems like you'd want someone to come pick you up and drive you to either their location, hotel or outdoor spot? Maybe leave that until you can afford to drive, as I can't see many women agreeing to the above. Though you never know, you might get lucky.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Your profile looks better already op, well done for taking the advice and listening.

Good luck.

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By *omeGuylol96 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Your profile looks better already op, well done for taking the advice and listening.

Good luck. "

Thank you kindly

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By *aggyballs98Man
over a year ago

Warrington

I got told my profile lacks information

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe


"I got told my profile lacks information "

To be fair, it does

Donna

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By *onguiliciousMan
over a year ago

Northallerton

You’ll be telling us next you’re a virgin! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my interest Romance long fun safe and worship feet and tits and armpits boobs giving good massage have drink and talk fun slowly into action

How make profile info with my interest

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

Hampshire


"my interest Romance long fun safe and worship feet and tits and armpits boobs giving good massage have drink and talk fun slowly into action

How make profile info with my interest "

There's a disconnect between your profile biog and this post......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my interest Romance long fun safe and worship feet and tits and armpits boobs giving good massage have drink and talk fun slowly into action

How make profile info with my interest

There's a disconnect between your profile biog and this post...... "

Deffo written by two different people

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By *illan-KillashMan
52 weeks ago

Hampshire


"my interest Romance long fun safe and worship feet and tits and armpits boobs giving good massage have drink and talk fun slowly into action

How make profile info with my interest

There's a disconnect between your profile biog and this post......

Deffo written by two different people"

My thoughts exactly....

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