FabSwingers.com forum: Profile visits the nothing

By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

Hi all, I was wondering what people had to say or any feedback about my profile. I get a lot of people visiting my profile then no contact after.

Is my profile shit, am I ugly or maybe it’s my body that people don’t like or my height?!

I’d appreciate peoples comments, be brutal I don’t mind!

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By *harAndBryCouple
12 weeks ago

Downham Market

Honestly, if you were closer to us we might message you as there's not really anything wrong with your profile, except....

The dick pic isn't doing you any favours at all, and you have no verifications. First is an easy fix, second just means getting out to a club or two or some organised socials and get some in-person verifications that show you do leave the house.

You're at a disadvantage being so far away from most of the UK, though.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

I really appreciate that post thank you. Great picture of you pouring Jameson, I like your style. Thanks again x

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
12 weeks ago

land of overweight munters

I think when someone makes a thread, possibly others will have a look at the profile to be nosey.

Your profile, my opinion only, is...

Header is generic

Age limits section isn't completed

Pics could be creative with angles and using a timer

Bio is detailed on what you want/enjoy which is too sexual for me and maybe some others, it's not all that you are, ya know, personality isn't coming across because I can't get past the sexual stuff.

Plus the time you've been here is only a minute in the fab universe

I wish you good luck because, well, your a good looking dude and I like chest hair

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"I think when someone makes a thread, possibly others will have a look at the profile to be nosey.

Your profile, my opinion only, is...

Header is generic

Age limits section isn't completed

Pics could be creative with angles and using a timer

Bio is detailed on what you want/enjoy which is too sexual for me and maybe some others, it's not all that you are, ya know, personality isn't coming across because I can't get past the sexual stuff.

Plus the time you've been here is only a minute in the fab universe

I wish you good luck because, well, your a good looking dude and I like chest hair

That is much appreciated, thanks for taking the time to write that.

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By *itty69xWoman
12 weeks ago

all over

I actually think you have a really decent profile OP.

For me personally it’s not being a verified that would be a no. But that’s just me!

I’d recommend finding some local socials to mingle and meet others as well as getting some verifications.

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By *r Bond.Man
12 weeks ago

Moving Around the Midlands

"Hi all, I was wondering what people had to say or any feedback about my profile. I get a lot of people visiting my profile then no contact after.

Is my profile shit, am I ugly or maybe it’s my body that people don’t like or my height?!

I’d appreciate peoples comments, be brutal I don’t mind! "

People will describe your profile as your shop window to sell yourself to people.

Using that analogy you might get a lot of people just looking at what you have on offer and then moving onto the “next shop”

From the comments above, you aren’t doing much wrong. Just keep plugging away and hopefully things will change for you

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By *issmorganWoman
12 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I don't think theres anything wrong with your profile op.

It tells us about you and has personality.

Fab is swamped with men though gh,so it can be tough for blokes to stand out.

If you're sending a decent message, I don't know why you're not getting replies.

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By *uenevereWoman
12 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

OP, I actually like your profile.

If I was looking to meet men and was in your area, I would certainly respond to a decent message.

The only minor criticism, is that you haven't amended your age limits. Would you really meet an 18 year old or an 80 year old? Some might see it as a bit desperate or being willing to shag anyone.

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

I can only assume you've made amends based on the feedback given so far. It's not a bad profile. You come across as a decent fellow with a decent profile and a gentlemanly smile. It's all good.

You need to correct the lopsided photograph; it doesn't help your profile. Also, as brutal as it sounds, your height: most women, despite their lip service assurances, have a penchant for 'taller' men. I can say this because I'm not tall either and I've had to refine my profile and my persona in other departments to make up for it. Obviously you can't change your height but it can (sadly) be a limiting factor for us all.

People are nosey and perceptive, they look at details in photographs, rightly or wrongly: sort out your bed, sheets and whatnots...and then take another photograph. Put the focus back on yourself and not the background or the juxtapositions.

With all said and done I like your profile. Good luck, OP.

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By *nytime2023Couple
12 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

As others have said, we quite like the profile! Pictures could be a bit better but by god we’ve seen a lot worse 😂 The bio is detailed and tells people lots about you. Unfortunately, being 100% straight isn’t our thing but that’s us and don’t change who you are.

Fab takes time and patience, someone like you would do well at a social or in a club environment so perhaps that’s an avenue worth exploring, good luck OP. V&K x

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
12 weeks ago

scunthorpe

I think it’s a great profile….especially for a single guy!

I really would suggest trying to go to a couple of arranged group socials so you can get some verifications, that will absolutely help.

Donna

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By *ries AngelWoman
12 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Agree!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"I actually think you have a really decent profile OP.

For me personally it’s not being a verified that would be a no. But that’s just me!

I’d recommend finding some local socials to mingle and meet others as well as getting some verifications."

Thanks for the post in forum, honestly much appreciated. You look great btw.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"Hi all, I was wondering what people had to say or any feedback about my profile. I get a lot of people visiting my profile then no contact after.

Is my profile shit, am I ugly or maybe it’s my body that people don’t like or my height?!

I’d appreciate peoples comments, be brutal I don’t mind!

People will describe your profile as your shop window to sell yourself to people.

Using that analogy you might get a lot of people just looking at what you have on offer and then moving onto the “next shop”

From the comments above, you aren’t doing much wrong. Just keep plugging away and hopefully things will change for you

Much appreciated thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"I don't think theres anything wrong with your profile op.

It tells us about you and has personality.

Fab is swamped with men though gh,so it can be tough for blokes to stand out.

If you're sending a decent message, I don't know why you're not getting replies. "

Much appreciated that’s very kind of you to reply, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"OP, I actually like your profile.

If I was looking to meet men and was in your area, I would certainly respond to a decent message.

The only minor criticism, is that you haven't amended your age limits. Would you really meet an 18 year old or an 80 year old? Some might see it as a bit desperate or being willing to shag anyone."

I’ll go and set the age limits, thank you for the comment, much appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"I can only assume you've made amends based on the feedback given so far. It's not a bad profile. You come across as a decent fellow with a decent profile and a gentlemanly smile. It's all good.

With all said and done I like your profile. Good luck, OP.

Cheers for the message, I appreciate you taking the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"As others have said, we quite like the profile! Pictures could be a bit better but by god we’ve seen a lot worse 😂 The bio is detailed and tells people lots about you. Unfortunately, being 100% straight isn’t our thing but that’s us and don’t change who you are.

Fab takes time and patience, someone like you would do well at a social or in a club environment so perhaps that’s an avenue worth exploring, good luck OP. V&K x"

Honestly I can’t tell how appreciative I am that you’ve taken the time to comment and reply thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"I think it’s a great profile….especially for a single guy!

I really would suggest trying to go to a couple of arranged group socials so you can get some verifications, that will absolutely help.

Donna "

Thank you for taking the time and thanks for the help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"Agree!"

Thanks, much appreciated.

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By *issfrogstompWoman
12 weeks ago

Oxford

It was fine until the use of 'Cunnylingus' - not once but twice. What?!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Cunnilingus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

Haha What would I say?

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By *issFussyWoman
12 weeks ago

hitchin

I don’t think your profile is too bad to be honest. Why not try a social event?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"I don’t think your profile is too bad to be honest. Why not try a social event? "

Much appreciated, I think I just need to persevere and find the right social. Thank you

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By *issFussyWoman
12 weeks ago

hitchin

There are plenty springing up, where are you based

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By *ids2000Couple
12 weeks ago

Worcester

"I don’t think your profile is too bad to be honest. Why not try a social event? "

I second this 100%. Socials and clubs are the way to go x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"There are plenty springing up, where are you based "

I’m in Exmouth x

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By *issFussyWoman
12 weeks ago

hitchin

"There are plenty springing up, where are you based

I’m in Exmouth x"

Ah can’t help you in that direction but may be worth looking for some on here. Some are profiles and some post events

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"There are plenty springing up, where are you based

I’m in Exmouth x

Ah can’t help you in that direction but may be worth looking for some on here. Some are profiles and some post events "

Really appreciate your help x

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By *issFussyWoman
12 weeks ago

hitchin

No problem I run a social with a friend and it’s a great intro point with no pressure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"No problem I run a social with a friend and it’s a great intro point with no pressure "

In the south East? x

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By *issFussyWoman
12 weeks ago

hitchin

"No problem I run a social with a friend and it’s a great intro point with no pressure

In the south East? x"

Hertfordshire

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By *uliette500Woman
12 weeks ago

Hull

Great profile nothing wrong with it apart from if you really enjoy something make sure you spell it properly on your bio!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"No problem I run a social with a friend and it’s a great intro point with no pressure

In the south East? x

Hertfordshire "

It sounds fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"Great profile nothing wrong with it apart from if you really enjoy something make sure you spell it properly on your bio!! "

Ah I see, thank you x

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By *issFussyWoman
12 weeks ago

hitchin

"No problem I run a social with a friend and it’s a great intro point with no pressure

In the south East? x

Hertfordshire

It sounds fun x"

It is quite well attended and people seem to enjoy it

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