FabSwingers.com forum: Single Male Profile Help

By *BC0151 OP Man
14 weeks ago

Liverpool

Hello, just wondering if anyone would mind giving my profile a review nothing major.

Just wondering what you likes, dislikes and possible changes that would make you want to chat to me more and then meet etc

Thanks, have a boss day all

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
14 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Negativity breeds negativity.

The first line puts it on a downer. Complaining about the masses doesn't help.

If you were a single woman, would you be interested in what your profile says and shows?

Is there enough there for an at least vague sense of the possible compatibility or otherwise?

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 weeks ago

Bedford

"made a few mates ask if you want them to join

"- just this very line would make me at the very least skip your profile. Also, your profile is very hard to read, to be fair.

And I might be in the minority, but I would never ever share my phone number with a random person on here unless we have arranged a meet.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
14 weeks ago

Chester

I don’t understand why so many guys believe ‘nobody reads this’. As a rule, women read profiles. Maybe you don’t, but saying that won’t help you.

Everyone has an accent! What does that mean?

And echoing the bit about mates. No.

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By *uenevereWoman
14 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Sorry, but the text and photos are not appealing.

See comments above re text.

Photos are very cock focused and include other people.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
14 weeks ago

Reading

Far too many negatives in your profile text. Action photos would put us off.

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By *Silver-Man
14 weeks ago

North Wales

Username makes me think of a Dyson vacumm cleaner... just saying

Anyways, get some better pics, display your veri's

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By *moothGrooveWoman
14 weeks ago

If I were I'd delete the lot and start again!

Ladies DO read profile bios. You say you want to meet like minded people, but don't explain your mindset. 'Got a few mates'.... most likely to put people off. In general people don't like action shots. I always see them as a bit of a red flag.

To me it reads that you think you're the king of the swingers and know everything. I just don't like the vibe at all

Sorry, but you did ask

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By *rdere OpusCouple
14 weeks ago

Brum - ish

It gives us no idea of what you’re looking for, your interests or what you offer. There’s no way to gauge compatibility.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
14 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Big ball of negativity and what does a genuine woman look like

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By *BC0151 OP Man
14 weeks ago

Liverpool

Ooff rough reviews haha but I appreciate all the responses thank you

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By *eroLondonMan
14 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, dear chap — your profile is virtually nonexistent. You have no profile photographs, a blank avatar, a video of your most recent conquest which would be potentially off-putting for some of your target audience and, worst of all, no profile description whatsoever.

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By *thfloorCouple
14 weeks ago

Hove

"OP, dear chap — your profile is virtually nonexistent. You have no profile photographs, a blank avatar, a video of your most recent conquest which would be potentially off-putting for some of your target audience and, worst of all, no profile description whatsoever."

Give the lad a minute, it looks like he's taken all down to rewrite

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By *sumfun2Man
14 weeks ago

Chorley

Agreed with the above. You need to put some effort in a profile as it comes across as you just want to fuck. This lifestyle is not all about fucking, it's about connections with people. Put pictures of you on the profile, a face pic goes a long way if you have nothing to hide. It's not a blind date. Don't put dick pics of "every angle"

If you're struggling to get a verification then try a newbie night in your club.

Respect is earned not presumed.

Good luck

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Not sure if you’ve deleted it all but one video, no photos, no profile text

You’re straight but have a verification from a male either by meet or by cam, some may question that

Also you have 2 veris in 3 months. I’d say that’s a success

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Also you only want to meet mf couples and ff couples. Whilst that narrows down who will be interested in you

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By *BC0151 OP Man
14 weeks ago

Liverpool

Like mentioned above, it’s been deleted since my last comment to make some updates haha

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By *lowercandyWoman
14 weeks ago

Lancashire

"Like mentioned above, it’s been deleted since my last comment to make some updates haha"

You don't appear to have bothered with updating your profile so it sounds worse than before!

Your profile is your shop window

No photos and a video of someone else

I'd definitely just delete any messages you sent

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By *BC0151 OP Man
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Like mentioned above, it’s been deleted since my last comment to make some updates haha

You don't appear to have bothered with updating your profile so it sounds worse than before!

Your profile is your shop window

No photos and a video of someone else

I'd definitely just delete any messages you sent "

Am I not allowed to still be making changes lol good thing I wouldn’t send you a message. The video includes me, which I’ve had consent in uploading why would I upload of video of someone else

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By *iss DevilWoman
13 weeks ago

Bedford

"Like mentioned above, it’s been deleted since my last comment to make some updates haha

You don't appear to have bothered with updating your profile so it sounds worse than before!

Your profile is your shop window

No photos and a video of someone else

I'd definitely just delete any messages you sent

Am I not allowed to still be making changes lol good thing I wouldn’t send you a message. The video includes me, which I’ve had consent in uploading why would I upload of video of someone else"

You have every right to still be making the changes, OP. And regarding the video- most women are not keen on seeing videos, or photos, of your past conquers/lovers/play partners, regardless whether you had their consent to post those. It's just a woman thing.

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