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By *heHornySpark28 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Newcastle

Just looking for advice on tryna improve on here as it ain’t the easiest being a single male as we outnumber you women on here 10 fold, how to make myself stand out from the rest. Aswell as first impressions always count how do you women on here prefer to be approached ? Like you do you prefer a charming sophisticated message, or a straight to the point message, or even just a wink all advice is appreciated

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By *all me FlikWoman
15 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Everyone will give you a different answer based on their preferences. All you can do is be you and contact people where you have a chance of connecting based on your respective profiles.

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By *heHornySpark28 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Newcastle

Thank you appreciate that x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I have consulted the hive mind. It says we like to be approached as individuals 💜

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By *retty hotwifeCouple
15 weeks ago

chorley


"I have consulted the hive mind. It says we like to be approached as individuals 💜"

Agree with this and equally as important when asked what type of female attracts you, be honest and do not try to cover every base

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By *thfloorCouple
15 weeks ago

Hove

Sidenote but it's time to lose that last pic, it's nearly six years old and it's giving "barely legal", you're not that teenager anymore. You can have better pics than you currently have, I don't think these do you justice. You write well so I'd always message rather than wink if I were you. Also what kind of thing would you like to experience? "Like-minded people" means nothing, we all enjoy the lifestyle in very different ways which are not always compatible.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

Messaging works for everyone, winks are fine but only viewed by some. Messages should be respectful and friendly but cut the sexual content, until it's invited.

A single man's profile is his weapon. He should fill it with golden material that sells him at his best. All photos should be grade A, crystal clear and highlighting him well. Cut the duff shots as they add nothing good or different, except negativity. A prospective partner needs to be able to assess how much they'd like to be with a man and intimate. Have no turnoff pics or cringes induced in people.

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By *Silver-Man
15 weeks ago

North Wales

Experiment and learn

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By *revaunanceCouple
15 weeks ago

Exeter

Follow the advice given here:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1692810

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