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can anyone tell me where im going wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just written the first profile text and just wondered if its too much or ok from a female prospective.

Would ask where am I going wrong but only just wrote it.

If there is could you please let me know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just need to sit and wait and be patient . Face pic would be good , if you can .

Non driver would put me off unless you have good public transport and can meet in a neutral area first .

Not many single fems will be happy to just turn up at your place as safety is paramount .

Perhaps visiting a club on a social night would be good ... We are all shy at first but good way of getting yourself known , and it gets easier x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked at your profile and from my point of view it is ok.

For me personally ditch the cock shots, or at least the one you have uploaded twice. Your body pics are good and if you are bi curious then just state bi curious. Confusion runs when you see that you are not 100% straight, and other 'straight' or bi men will email you with the 'dont ask dont get' theory.

If you are looking for a meet with a tv/ts (as your profile shows) you really are saying at least bi curious.

As you dont travel or accom, maybe suggest a local hotel for convenience to both yourself and others.

It's your profile, decide what your target audience is and amend it to that.

Try to avoid negativity, as on here, it often shows that it attracts just that.

You could always have a look at other profiles, maybe those local to you and draw inspiration from them (Don't copy them) but mostly, chat with people, dont try and force or rush things & relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also seen from forum posts about the stayer thing ... That's good to know and you will be an asset in group situation as long as you don't hog the lady

Good luck and be patient x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you and I live right next to trainstation and a hotel and can travel anywhere within reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree about the photos. Too many cock pics. Body shots are good, they give a great idea what your physique is like. Face pics are personal choice. Always better if you can but if like us you need to be discreet perhaps subtle shots like we have as an idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you and I live right next to trainstation and a hotel and can travel anywhere within reason. "

So just add a line to your profile that states as much.

Apart from that I'd agree with what the other ladies have said and I really do think a local social is a good starting point.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks ive changed the pics now

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'd change your main profile pic too - I know when my mail box gets too busy I automatically delete all the cock shot ones to narrow down my time spent online.

Lots of ladies want more than just a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks ive changed the pics now "

That's better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was better with the face pic avatar but the cock is back Otherwise its a touch better, so see how you get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile text looks fine and nice public pics. You can have more than 3 (think it's about 8 maximum for non site supporters) so put more of a selection up. Nice tattoo so a pic of that would be good. Change the avatar pic to anything else but a cock pic! They get a bit tedious after a while. You're a good looking guy who seems polite so am sure you'll be fine. Good luck. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just written the first profile text and just wondered if its too much or ok from a female prospective.

Would ask where am I going wrong but only just wrote it.

If there is could you please let me know."

yur not bad luking at all,id meet u

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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