FabSwingers.com forum: New here and looking for some help / advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
2 weeks ago

Hello all,

I have to say that I’m struggling. Im new to the site and the game. I’ve started to dip my toe in the water after a break up. I’m not sure if it’s my profile but I’m getting zero responses. I’m certainly not a creep, or a pest and im not into banging over a dick pic right away with crass language.

Any help or advice would be appreciated.

Cheers.

By *harAndBryCouple
2 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Few things:

You don't have to, but might be worth mentioning why you can't accommodate....even though you say divorced, people will assume you're partnered up.

Set an age range - it's a tiny detail that people notice. Either you're desperate enough to fuck a 99yr old, or couldn't be bothered to change it.

Your pics aren't doing you any favours at all.

There's not really anything that makes you stand out, and unfortunately single women and couples are overwhelmed with offers and the selection of guys. A lot of it is just getting the right profile in front of the right person at the right time.

(Bry)

By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's just very generic op. There's no sense of who you are and what you like or offer any meets.

By *rdere OpusCouple
2 weeks ago

Brum - ish

I didn’t get a feel for what you’re looking for or what you offer and that’s what allows someone to gauge compatibility and attraction.

Did you have photos before? Decent, well taken photos that give an idea of your body shape (they don’t have to show your face) add to that attraction.

Your profile is easily as important as your message, if not more so.

Consider looking at some of the big organised socials or finding a club night. It’s a great way to meet people and start making contacts.