FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Advice and Support

By *zzzwazzz OP Man
16 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Hi all, have been on Fab a while now and still struggle to gain the attention of many parties on here. I was wondering what women and couples think of my profile and how I could best improve and amend it in order that shines that bit more. I'm aware of how difficult it is on here for genuine guys, but any pointers will be greatly received! Thanks in advance!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Get someone to take better pics of you. They all look as if the camera was 10 miles away

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By *zzzwazzz OP Man
16 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Thanks, but you can just click on the pics to enlarge them haha. I just prefer body shots as that way you get to see all of me 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

See you ask for advice then come back with a counter to it

Your profile reads more of a dating profile. Also you say can’t attract the many or something like that

That’s a bit of a scatter gun approach for me. Concentrate on those that you think you may have genuine joint interests with

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By *partharmonyCouple
16 weeks ago

Ruislip

What do you put in your messages when you contact somebody for the first time? The vast majority of the messages we received are dreadful and don't warrant a reply. What are yours like?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Thanks, but you can just click on the pics to enlarge them haha. I just prefer body shots as that way you get to see all of me 😂"

Ok, I get loads of messages and winks every day and if I have to faff about clicking on pics to see more then I'm out.

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By *zzzwazzz OP Man
16 weeks ago

Nuneaton

I was just giving my response to the point, but all feedback is greatly received and will certainly be considered. I might well try differing the angles and styles of pics.

I'm not sure what you mean when you state 'I can't attract that many' or something similar as I haven't mentioned that anywhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

"What do you put in your messages when you contact somebody for the first time? The vast majority of the messages we received are dreadful and don't warrant a reply. What are yours like? "

This I'm intrigued about. When I send a first message I make a comment on their profile whether it's something written, their pic or both, ask if they want to chat more and encourage them to look at my profile. For me, I'm not a pushy guy so I'm intrigued if this is a good approach or is something more appropriate required...

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By *zzzwazzz OP Man
16 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Usually a greeting, brief introduction and choose something from their profile that stands out to me and something we might have in common if possible. Although it can be difficult sometimes, I do my best to tailor it to the profile and what they might be looking for.

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By *zzzwazzz OP Man
16 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Any more thoughts and views welcome! 😊

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By *eewaiiiMan
16 weeks ago

Huntingdon

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

"Thanks, but you can just click on the pics to enlarge them haha. I just prefer body shots as that way you get to see all of me 😂"

You can only do that if you are a site aupporter

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By *nytime2023Couple
16 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

We like the bio (we prefer longer ones to short ones) Pics are so so, they look rushed. Especially the ones with blocked faces. We get the need for privacy etc.

The one thing from our perspective is it says you’re straight yet in your ‘looking for’ it says TV? Can’t really be both we don’t think.

You’ll never please everyone and there is no magic formula unfortunately. Just be you and be patient, socials and clubs are the way to go. V&K

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By *zzzwazzz OP Man
16 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Okay, thanks for that perspective. It wasn't something I'd considered beforehand, but I've changed a few pics now including the display pic

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By *Silver-Man
16 weeks ago

North Wales

Remove the selfies that have your head blanked out in white for starters, try and get some better pictures, shorten the bio and just keep at it.

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