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By *uriousExplorer40 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Chester-le-Street

Not sure if this is a good idea or not, but thought I'd stick my neck out and open my profile up for a bit of a critique.

I get a fairly low level of views, maybe up to 10 a day, including repeat viewers, but seem to get limited traction with replies to messages.

Is there anything that the great and good of Fab can suggest to make my profile a bit more appealing?

Thanks all

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By *iker JackMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

10 views a day for a single male is good as there will be some in stealth

I’m not your captive audience but reading your profile I would say you’re cheating

You cannot accommodate and won’t send face pics until you’re sure they won’t know you

That won’t appeal to all

Apologies if I’m wrong but that’s how it reads

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By *harAndBryCouple
3 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

If you messaged us and we were in a good mood, we'd open your profile before the message and see 75% dick pics and then delete your message.

If we weren't in a good mood, we'd see a dick pic profile pic and just delete the message without even bothering with the profile.

(Bry)

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By *uriousExplorer40 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Chester-le-Street


"10 views a day for a single male is good as there will be some in stealth

I’m not your captive audience but reading your profile I would say you’re cheating

You cannot accommodate and won’t send face pics until you’re sure they won’t know you

That won’t appeal to all

Apologies if I’m wrong but that’s how it reads"

You're in the right ball park, but there's complicated factors. Will perhaps remove the face pic sentence.

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By *uriousExplorer40 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Chester-le-Street


"If you messaged us and we were in a good mood, we'd open your profile before the message and see 75% dick pics and then delete your message.

If we weren't in a good mood, we'd see a dick pic profile pic and just delete the message without even bothering with the profile.

(Bry)"

Thanks. Will look to get some better pics and ease off in the cock shots.

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By *eeman400Man
3 weeks ago

nottingham

well I get a fairly low level of views too, maybe up to 15-20 a day, but seem to get limited traction with replies to messages.

any critique is well, need help

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By *urphy44Man
3 weeks ago

not quite the middle


"If you messaged us and we were in a good mood, we'd open your profile before the message and see 75% dick pics and then delete your message.

If we weren't in a good mood, we'd see a dick pic profile pic and just delete the message without even bothering with the profile.

(Bry)

Thanks. Will look to get some better pics and ease off in the cock shots."

Don’t let 1 response change how you want to broadcast your profile. You do it how you want to do it.

The thing with asking for profile advice is you will do what others tell you what THEY want from a profile.

Do fab how you want to do it. Not how others expect you to do it

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By *ogandher1962Couple
3 weeks ago

Reading


"well I get a fairly low level of views too, maybe up to 15-20 a day, but seem to get limited traction with replies to messages.

any critique is well, need help"

Perhaps start your own thread

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By *eeman400Man
3 weeks ago

nottingham


"well I get a fairly low level of views too, maybe up to 15-20 a day, but seem to get limited traction with replies to messages.

any critique is well, need help

Perhaps start your own thread"

Other than that any advice on the profile?

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By *ogandher1962Couple
3 weeks ago

Reading


"well I get a fairly low level of views too, maybe up to 15-20 a day, but seem to get limited traction with replies to messages.

any critique is well, need help

Perhaps start your own thread

Other than that any advice on the profile? "

No

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By *uriousExplorer40 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Chester-le-Street


"well I get a fairly low level of views too, maybe up to 15-20 a day, but seem to get limited traction with replies to messages.

any critique is well, need help

Perhaps start your own thread

Other than that any advice on the profile? "

Haha, bro doubled down.

Obviously I'm hugely unqualified to comment, but I'd say your profile seems more like a dating profile than anything else.

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By *eeman400Man
3 weeks ago

nottingham

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By *eeman400Man
3 weeks ago

nottingham


"well I get a fairly low level of views too, maybe up to 15-20 a day, but seem to get limited traction with replies to messages.

any critique is well, need help

Perhaps start your own thread

Other than that any advice on the profile?

Haha, bro doubled down.

Obviously I'm hugely unqualified to comment, but I'd say your profile seems more like a dating profile than anything else. "

Haha just finding my feet here, any tips on making it better? Any help is appreciated

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I agree with losing some of the dick pics and adding some more that leave a bit to the imagination.

Also it does read all about what you want, not much about what you'd offer any meets. There's not much personality in it, just a list of things you're after doing.

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By *uriousExplorer40 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Chester-le-Street


"well I get a fairly low level of views too, maybe up to 15-20 a day, but seem to get limited traction with replies to messages.

any critique is well, need help

Perhaps start your own thread

Other than that any advice on the profile?

Haha, bro doubled down.

Obviously I'm hugely unqualified to comment, but I'd say your profile seems more like a dating profile than anything else.

Haha just finding my feet here, any tips on making it better? Any help is appreciated "

Honestly don't know, that's why I asked the question.

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By *uriousExplorer40 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Chester-le-Street


"I agree with losing some of the dick pics and adding some more that leave a bit to the imagination.

Also it does read all about what you want, not much about what you'd offer any meets. There's not much personality in it, just a list of things you're after doing. "

Thanks some great advice. Thanks!

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By *uenevereWoman
3 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

You need to injection some personality and show that you're more than a cock.

Think about the sort of person you actually want to meet and what you can offer. Would you really meet a 90 year old?

Contrary to popular opinion, women are generally much more interested in your personality, than the size of your penis.

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By *ENGUYMan
3 weeks ago

Hull


"I agree with losing some of the dick pics and adding some more that leave a bit to the imagination.

Also it does read all about what you want, not much about what you'd offer any meets. There's not much personality in it, just a list of things you're after doing.

Thanks some great advice. Thanks!"

As a long term member on here and have witnessed this question before, let me pass on my advice from my experience!

You've only been on here by 6 months and had one Verification from a Couple; you've done well! For most guys, competing amongst up to 100's of males in your region is common and it can take ages to get noticed!

Your profile needs to like a Job application CV. You HAVE to say what you can contribute to a meet, but equally, what you'd expect from a meet.

Ditch the Cock Pics to Private and insert a Facial Photo, even one with you looking happy and smiling; maybe too a Torso Photo too.

On this site, the Ladies are in the Majority, they have control over who they select. Therefore, you learn to have a thick skin as rejection will occur, simply by lack of replies or being told "No Thanks".

Get to Clubs or Socials in your area, as they too are a good option to meet others. You can earn Verifications just simply by "talking" to people, which in turn can spread the word about you!!

Patience is required as are Perseverance & even more Patience!!

Your success will be matched by your efforts. It does work. I'm nearing 70 and still getting success.

Good Luck.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

It's mainly a list of what you want.

Cum and run ! An even faster encounter than cum and go.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

The repetitive cock pics would put me off then the list of "what you want" not what you can offer or why you when competing with another 1630300 penis.

Most women and couples turn off the settings to show on who's looked at me because it's annoying to get messages off the back of it.

I've looked at you and it won't show that I have.

Have a look at other guys profiles to get some ideas.

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By *uriousExplorer40 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Chester-le-Street

Thanks all. Good and pretty consistent feedback, will look to update my profile soon.

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By *iss KinkWoman
3 weeks ago

North West

Maybe change some pictures. Also are you attatched?

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By *uriousExplorer40 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Chester-le-Street


"Maybe change some pictures. Also are you attatched? "

Yes (with complicated factors around it), but essentially yes. I do acknowledge that this is a big issue for many, but have been so reticent about putting it on the profile. I have raised this in private messages, some have cared, so have not.

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By *iss KinkWoman
3 weeks ago

North West


"Maybe change some pictures. Also are you attatched?

Yes (with complicated factors around it), but essentially yes. I do acknowledge that this is a big issue for many, but have been so reticent about putting it on the profile. I have raised this in private messages, some have cared, so have not."

Yes I guess it’s difficult

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