FabSwingers.com forum: Being a "larger" guy

By *udda316 OP Man
15 hours ago

Stroud

Hey everyone, I've got a barrel not a six pack plus I do have a disability, any tips people have because I just get deleted and ignored

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By *ake005Man
15 hours ago

Sedgley

I'm a dad bod guy I would just say interact with the forums as the more genuine people are on there

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By *uss.susserMan
14 hours ago

all

We will never be good enough lads.

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By *ackson 501Man
14 hours ago

Chesterfield

Good advice

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By *acavityMan
13 hours ago

Redditch

I'm a chunky monkey.

Some people like that. Occasionally they might be the sort of people I like too. But the odds are small.

But not everyone does. Or it might be that I don't have a different characteristic that they want (beard, tattoos, etc)

But while some people judge purely on looks, others prefer to make a mental connection. So post on the forums, don't have a tantrum if you get rejected, and just be yourself

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
13 hours ago

little house on the praire

Gi to socials, join in the forums let your personality show

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
13 hours ago

Central

Most people, of whatever looks, build etc will not be mutually compatible with most people. So they won't get replies, may likely get blocked - to prevent future unnecessary contact etc.

This will have nothing to do with their looks and abilities, merely that attraction AND full compatibility is very rare. It's perhaps 1% that we should hope for.

We can just be honest and make our own realistic expectations. It's only each of us that can do that.

And take care of ourselves, so that what we engage with is only positive for us and our wellbeing.

It's always much harder for single men here, hence why socials and clubs can be helpful.

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By *iss KinkWoman
12 hours ago

North West

"We will never be good enough lads.

Effort in = more chances

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By *igblackchocolateMan
11 hours ago

London & Essex

Depends what kind of woman your trying to get

But in general gym and be confident and talk and make sure your profile looks interesting

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By *iker JackMan
11 hours ago

Wolverhampton

Sometimes it’s not about looks. Personality can come through on here as well. Both in a positive and negative way

Don’t rely on here as being your only way of meeting people

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By *ogandher1962Couple
9 hours ago

Reading

"We will never be good enough lads.

Effort in = more chances"

Yep

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By *uss.susserMan
9 hours ago

all

I suppose confidence is an issue too to be honest.

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By *heblackbull1234Man
9 hours ago

london

"Hey everyone, I've got a barrel not a six pack plus I do have a disability, any tips people have because I just get deleted and ignored

Two things i guess that can help, there will always be people who would fancy you no matter how you look etc.

As for changing how you are, if you cant do gym etc try changing your diet.

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By *ullsfan77Man
9 hours ago

Torquay

I definitely do not have the “Brad Pitt” physique and look like a cross between the back end of a bus and a monkfish but I am sure that one day I will be someone’s cup of tea. I know that I need to go to a club and/ socials but it’s getting the confidence to do so and accepting that you maybe sat there the whole time being ignored. Or-you may just get chatting-no action-but that all important verification. That alone is probably worth that visit. You never know.

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
8 hours ago

mid glam

It's nothing to do with being a larger person or disability. If you have a generic profile and pics that are the generic you will get passed by unfortunately

Smiling goes a long way sometimes

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 hours ago

little house on the praire

I see you've been to one social can you not go to more

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By * and SuziCouple
7 hours ago

seaton

That's the way of the world unfortunately

Some people are happy. Some people aren't

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By *igad999Man
7 hours ago

wolverhampton

"Hey everyone, I've got a barrel not a six pack plus I do have a disability, any tips people have because I just get deleted and ignored

To be fair there is plenty of women that prefer chubby to slim and fit.

Same as men prefer BBW to slim

It’s all about taste I mean I’m a little chubby wife’s BBW neither of us like the skinny look

And I’d say keep with the socials see if can strike up chat with couples even if just as friendship type

Also clubs always a good way to meet

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By *ndisMan
7 hours ago

Liverpool

You reap what you sow, you need to put the effort in to get the results.

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By *inkystar1Woman
6 hours ago

Heathfield

Try smiling...everyone looks better when they smile

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