FabSwingers.com forum: Opening message

By *lyingSoloFun OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

Hi all just after some advice. I'm not getting many responses to my opening message not even a no thanks.

I usually start with addressing the couple by their names as listed. Explain I have seen their profile and like their vibe.

Then finish with saying I would love to chat and get to know you both.

Very non pushy and non sexual

Any suggestions on how I can improve this

Thanks

By *lyingSoloFun OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

Also I completely understand I am competing with a billion other single guys lol

By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

"Hi all just after some advice. I'm not getting many responses to my opening message not even a no thanks.

I usually start with addressing the couple by their names as listed. Explain I have seen their profile and like their vibe.

Then finish with saying I would love to chat and get to know you both.

Very non pushy and non sexual

Any suggestions on how I can improve this

Thanks "

Why mend it if it's not broken. If it works for you then keep doing it.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

That sounds fine to me. It's always been difficult for single men to get a response on here. Do you ever frequent the chat rooms or chat in the forum?

By *lyingSoloFun OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

Hi I haven't been that active to be honest I'm the forums or chat rooms.

Would like to be though X

By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Downham Market

They may well be receiving your message and checking out your profile before reading it....and unfortunately the profile doesn't really stand out from all the other single guys and just one pic makes it difficult to get a feeling for someone....

(Bry)