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"Ino I’m not the best looking lad but what am I doing wrong " Maybe say what you are into? Go to a local club? I’m no expert here but stay happy mate! Moving back to the parents is tough. I’ve been through that, I had an amazing experience when I first joined with a lady. We never verified each other as it was just good and didn’t feel the need to. When I came on I just said, I’m new! I’m scared and very good at cuddling. I explained I’d been in a sexless marriage for 15 years and I think being open about that resonated. That fab experience carried on for 5 months and stopped. I went back onto tinda have been flip flopping back and forwards to fabs. I think if you explained how you feel sexually and what who you would like to meet, perhaps you have a link that you would like to share? At the moment your explaining your situation and sound a bit sad if I’m honest, I’m not judging you because I know that pain and sadness. There is a whole world out there, not just on here. Perhaps try reaching out to old mates, old friends, girls and boys. It’s amazing how many of us forget people along the way and they are still there, when you reach out. You got this mate x | |||
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average.
"No need for that! Go bash your self off and be nice! Dudes a bit depressed and that’s not a very positive thing to say | |||
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average. "• Sometimes it takes a mediocre person to recognise an average one. ✔️ | |||
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average.
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Sometimes it takes a mediocre person to recognise an average one. ✔️"Yes Nero x | |||
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average.
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Sometimes it takes a mediocre person to recognise an average one. ✔️"At no point did I say I wasn't mediocre. 'cause I am. | |||
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average.
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Sometimes it takes a mediocre person to recognise an average one. ✔️
At no point did I say I wasn't mediocre.
'cause I am.
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average.
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Sometimes it takes a mediocre person to recognise an average one. ✔️
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At no point did I say I wasn't mediocre.
'cause I am.
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"Ino I’m not the best looking lad but what am I doing wrong " You're not doing anything wrong. Fab can be tough. Standing out can be tough. Having a good profile can help. Making friends here can help. Taking a deep breath and going out and meeting people at socials and clubs can help. You got this OP. Best of Luck. | |||
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"Thank you for the actual genuine advice much appreciated I’m just looking to have some fun and get my confidence back " You will get there mate! Happy to chat privately for some moral support if you like. | |||
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"Thank you for the actual genuine advice much appreciated I’m just looking to have some fun and get my confidence back You will get there mate! Happy to chat privately for some moral support if you like. " Exactly. It can be hard work on here. Keep going if can as you can find people who you will get on with. There are lots of nice people I get in with. Good luck | |||
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"3491 be confident. I look like the elephant man. But i know ppl will love me for who i am. The world's ya oyster m8 "We all look different and thank god we do! If we were all the same life would be terribly boring! | |||
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"Shite ain’t it " Nah just needs chat and work. Will cum then | |||
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"Shite ain’t it " Also tbh it's risky using a face pic public. If other people don't misuse it Sydney University will for ground breaking research into explaining the workings of 1990's looking websites. | |||
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"Ino I’m not the best looking lad but what am I doing wrong " Having to high expectations, go to socials to get known is usual advice | |||
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average.
"Brutal. Love it 🤣 Mr F. | |||
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average.
Brutal. Love it 🤣
Mr F. "Yes but it’s the variety that makes this fun. There are always connections can make | |||
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average.
Brutal. Love it 🤣
Mr F. "What’s cool about kicking a man down? | |||
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"Some nasty people on this thread" Yes no one is average | |||
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"Thank you for the actual genuine advice much appreciated I’m just looking to have some fun and get my confidence back " Fab is definitely not the place to get your confidence back as a single guy. The profile screams post-divorce and not done the healing work. IMO take time to yourself and learn who you are again. Join a Men Shed/Dudes with Dogs/running clubs etc group and build connections and learn who you are in this new phase of life. Once secure and confident then try clubs/dating apps/gangbangs/ socials. There are not hoards of women on here and the men who tend to do well are responsive and niche. They are clear about what they have to offer, the skills they have and what the meet might be like if it takes place. Profile photos are imaginative/interesting and give a reason to talk. Good luck and I hope it comes right for you. | |||
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average.
Brutal. Love it 🤣
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What’s cool about kicking a man down? "Cool? Are you down with the kids innit? I never asked for your opinion on my sense of humour | |||
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"Some nasty people on this thread Yes no one is average" So, what are all the average people then? | |||
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"Ino I’m not the best looking lad but what am I doing wrong " Essentially nobody in here ever does anything ‘wrong’, but ‘success’ in Fab is never straight forward, and luck and opportunity often play a big part! 
I would say though, that if you’re happy posting public face pics, a big smile works wonders with the ladies, as well as having pics the right way up!
Keep your chin up mate, never take Fab seriously or think this is all there is. You will meet more women out there in real life, than you will in here! Fab is an interesting extra to life, not the be all and end all! 
Good luck fella | |||
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" no one should be rude but at the same time no point in dressing it up ..its a very very hard scene for most men.." And many men turn to dressing up to get meets! | |||
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"There’s nothing wrong with your looks imho." If the jet engine he's in front of had been turned on he would've become a much hotter guy. Oh dear  | |||
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"There are hundreds of men on this site and you are sadly disturbingly average.
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