FabSwingers.com forum: Jelousy and envy in cuckolding dynamics

London

As most of my adventures have been as a 'lone wolf', I often wonder how you cuckold men deal with the jealousy of your partner fucking someone else.

Does it cause drama, do you get over it easily, or does it simply not affect you?

What about the traditional view of the man being in charge, and the negative societal opinions of cuckolding?

And, how do you deal with the envy of not getting any sex, or her doing things that she would never do with you - plus staying monogamous and teased, while her body-count rapidly grows?

I guess it isn't a one-size fits all answer - and I know many of you are too turned on to think about it.

But I'm also sure plenty of you experienced some quite powerful feelings when you first embarked on this.

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By *onnachakeaneMan
5 days ago

Dundrum

Happy to discuss privately if you DM

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By *anyaTgirlTV/TS
5 days ago

manchester

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By *idnightMischief OP Man
5 days ago

London

"Happy to discuss privately if you DM "

No, it's cool. I'm crap with replying to DMs at the best of times.

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By *anyaTgirlTV/TS
4 days ago

manchester

Wish she would pull x

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By *ack1971Man
4 days ago

Cork

If I wasn't able to handle my emotions, I wouldn't have entered the lifestyle.

And I certainly wouldn't have projected any of it onto others if I was having conflicting feelings anout any aspect of it.

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By *idnightMischief OP Man
4 days ago

London

"If I wasn't able to handle my emotions, I wouldn't have entered the lifestyle.

And I certainly wouldn't have projected any of it onto others if I was having conflicting feelings anout any aspect of it. "
But did you actually know how you'd react before dipping your toe in?

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By *rankie bricksMan
4 days ago

Wolverhampton

Hub here

I'm interested/looking for chat about this

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By *annabe StagMan
4 days ago

Purbeck

Never seen my wife with another guy but I honestly don’t think I’d get jealous at all.

I’ve wanted to see her with another guy for so long now that I don’t think that would even come into it.

It would be such an exciting and amazing experience that I’d only feel pleasure I’d hope.

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By *loscouplegl3Couple
4 days ago

Gloucester

"Never seen my wife with another guy but I honestly don’t think I’d get jealous at all.

I’ve wanted to see her with another guy for so long now that I don’t think that would even come into it.

It would be such an exciting and amazing experience that I’d only feel pleasure I’d hope. "

This guy is asking about full on cuckolding. Not just your wife enjoying casual sex in a stag/vixen manner.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
4 days ago

Coventry

If anything it should be easier in a cuckold dynamic than a dynamic where you just give each other a level of sexual freedom. After all isn't that a huge part of the kink with cuckold dynamic?

But I guess for cucks and guys who just enjoy their women having freedom to pursue their desires the handling is the same. Basically it's a total trust and security in each other and the relationship. And a lot of how that is built is completely open and honest communication. Being able to be completely frank with each other about your desires and how you feel about each other. And when you can open your sex life to others as individuals and fear not from a place of security I'd say you're a very strong and powerful couple indeed. But it's not easy (for some more than others). I can take time, lots of talking and just experience and exposure. I think all of us on here regardless of dynamic learn from experience as we go along. We debrief and work out what has gone right and what has gone wrong. And this is important because sometimes you don't know for sure what will work and what will not work till you do/experience it.

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By *ack1971Man
3 days ago

Cork

"If I wasn't able to handle my emotions, I wouldn't have entered the lifestyle.

And I certainly wouldn't have projected any of it onto others if I was having conflicting feelings anout any aspect of it. But did you actually know how you'd react before dipping your toe in?"

I'm not a reactionary person when it comes to this. In other things yes, where it warrants it.

I knew I would feel things, as opposed to react to things. Those feelings drove my desire to dive deeper and explore, but everything rests on those involved.

Every time is and was different , depending on who is involved and what style it's done in.

I'm a very secure person, I fear nothing and deal straight with people. Same in relationships. It made it easier for guys to be involved because they could trust the environment and my girlfriends knew I wasn't easily fazed or angered. Believe it or not, but that balanced approach made the guys try harder with my partners and my partners try different things to wind me up! Great fun.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
3 days ago

Rotherham

Been in two cuckold relationships, with me in full time chastity cage so all my gf penetrative sex came from others. We were both submissive, always loved seeing her been taken my worthy cock although not being allowed sex or even to wank was difficult it first.

Although I didn't have sex we had more intimate time than before cuckold with kissing cuddling holding hands and lot and lots of oral

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