FabSwingers.com forum: Strap On/ Pegging Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
1 week ago

Me and my husband really love the idea of me pegging him and also it’s something id love to bring in to meets with guys. Love the idea of getting into dominatrix mode and being the penetrator for once!

We tried it a few years ago but I found the strap-on I used quite difficult logistically, so to speak. Not very securely strapped on etc! . Just wondered if anyone had any advice/ experience of using them, and which are best and feel more like an extension of oneself rather than a separate, badly fitted toy?

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By *lueDressWoman
1 week ago

Bath

I have tried many types over the years but for the past 20 years I’ve used a harness and a silicon dildo that slots in

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By *iscreetfun6951Man
1 week ago

Doncaster

Mmmmm I do love the idea of being pegged by a Dom lady. Just ashame I can't find one lol

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By *emptation6580Couple
1 week ago

playa de ingles

Several types available- depending on how rough you want to be will dictate your choice of fitting!

Tried a few styles but we have settled on a soft leather harness with the vacu- lock system that holds the dildoes!

Harness does up nice and tight in all the right places to get a good rhythm going- nothing worse than a dick flopping around between you!

Never tried a strapless one yet but don’t think it would work for us!

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By *s-two-75Couple
1 week ago

club meets only

As above, a silicone nice textured feel dildow with round suction base, it makes a difference and a harness with the 2 rubber o rings.

Lots of good quality lube and your body positioning makes a difference, him riding you allows him to lower himself on it at his pace or get him to guide it in, go slow and start small.

Once you’ve got the knack you will both love it with the most amazing orgasms xx

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By (user no longer on site)
7 days ago

My favourite is briefs that holds the dildo firmly in place.

Far more comfortable and attractive than any harness I’ve used in the past.

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By *uckXMan
7 days ago

Bristol

Anyone wanting to put this advice into - I kindly volunteer as pincushion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 days ago

Thank you so much for the advice everyone! We appreciate it

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By *eeling naughty 1324Man
6 days ago

clapham

I think each person is a little different and all have different preferences on types of harness depending on how rough and also how big you go with the dildo. The more expensive ones tend to be better but it’s not a given.

But movement wise most women find it hard at first as it’s not a movement that they have done before. But once you get used to it it will feel more natural and easier.

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By *iamond_and_the_RoughCouple
5 days ago

Norwich

We have the love honey universal harness.

Not the most attractive thing but very secure.

Loads of adjustment so either of us can wear it

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By *ommodoCouple
2 days ago

OX16

Dr johnson vacu- lock is a good fit with the option to change the size of the toy

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By *wb765Man
16 hours ago

Mids

I’d love to join this dynamic

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By *acky RacersCouple
15 hours ago

Lincoln

A lot of harnesses are based on a waist band and a thong which goes between your legs...I've never found they give enough of a foundation to enable yourself to balance the dildo and thrusting...they chafe a bit too...

I've found the better ones are those that have adjustable straps around your thighs too...much more stable and if you look at our latest pictures, able to support quite heavy dildos.

Most women also aren't prepared for how much work fucking is from a thrusting perspective! My thighs and abs certainly know when we've had a session! You'll feel it on your pubic bone too so a little bit of padding on the harness doesn't go amiss...

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