FabSwingers.com forum: Help with my profile please 🙏

By *ndyBishop OP Man
4 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

Hi all,

I’ve been to a club (Pleasures) about 5 times, played with a couple of different couples, however I’m not getting any meets through FAB.

Could someone point out to me how to stand out from the crowd, and increase meets.

Many thanks,

Honestly I really appreciate any comments.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

Profile text looks ok to me.

I am wondering why you have photos showing your face and similar ones with it covered 🤔

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By *elkieWoman
4 weeks ago

Durham

The sentence about having people questioning their morals has me wondering exactly what you mean by that, tbh, and not in the way that makes me want to message and ask

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Personally I don't like the comical photos

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By *harAndBryCouple
4 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Honestly I really appreciate any comments."

Profiles okay, pics are bit hit and miss - can see that there's a sense of humour but they might be putting more serious people off. Also some duplication.

Good that you have a verification from a club visit - it demonstrates that you're willing to actually get out from behind a keyboard unlike a LOT of people on here.

Unfortunately Fab is much more looks-based than a club. Char has much stronger preferences when arranging a meet on here than when she's got chatting to someone at a club. You may well be falling into that trap of being a lovely guy that's great face-to-face but not to as many people's taste in pics.

(Bry)

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By *sumfun2Man
4 weeks ago

Chorley

Ok.... Here is my 2p's worth. State what you're looking for on your profile Instead of being vague that your looking and open to anything. Going to a club is far better than trying to arrange anything on here yet. Take the club as if you were going to your local pub. Just that people are in there underwear. Make your photos " your swinging journey" rather than pics of just you. Be creative and don't put the dreaded dick pic of every possible angle.

The more people you talk to in clubs the more connections you make face to face instead of behind a keyboard

Hope this helps

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By *iverpoolman321Man
4 weeks ago

st helens

". Take the club as if you were going to your local pub. Just that people are in there underwear. "

Love this haha

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By *ndyBishop OP Man
4 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

Thanks everyone.

I’ve taken on your feedback and changed my text, and removed crappier photos.

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By *ert999400Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff

"Thanks everyone.

I’ve taken on your feedback and changed my text, and removed crappier photos.

Ffs you had a verification in Dec 24. Why are you so concerned about the profile. If you are getting your fill at clubs,and other. I would give this site a wide berth.full of pretentious and galahads

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I think you mean sparring not sparing. What do you teach ?

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By *ndyBishop OP Man
4 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

I teach science, I also try and teach kids to take responsibility for their actions and give them more confidence in themselves.

Don’t enjoy your job?

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By *lphaswingMan
4 weeks ago

Dereham

Could someone also look at mine and advise on my profile. Nobody messages me or anything. Please and thanks

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By *lasgowMinxWoman
4 weeks ago

glasgow

"Could someone also look at mine and advise on my profile. Nobody messages me or anything. Please and thanks"

Youve wrote more on this post than you have on your profile.. and do you honestly think any woman would get picked up by a driver they dont know?

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By *ndyBishop OP Man
4 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

I’d have to agree with the previous,

The text in your profile is too short, has a spelling mistake, and no woman is going to be picked up by a stranger, to see someone they’ve never met.

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By *ndyBishop OP Man
4 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

Thanks.

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By *lphaswingMan
4 weeks ago

Dereham

Thanks, ive changed my profile abit now

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

"Thanks, ive changed my profile abit now"

I'm afraid it comes across as a bit negative. "I've not been with anyone on here, not been to any clubs. Don't know what to write on a profile " yet you've been here over a year.

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By *ert999400Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff

"Could someone also look at mine and advise on my profile. Nobody messages me or anything. Please and thanks"

Lol you are asking for trouble

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By *SAFUNONLY1Man
2 weeks ago

conwy

"Hi all,

I’ve been to a club (Pleasures) about 5 times, played with a couple of different couples, however I’m not getting any meets through FAB.

Could someone point out to me how to stand out from the crowd, and increase meets.

Many thanks,

Honestly I really appreciate any comments.

....2 weeks later, hides profile 👍🏻

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By *ert999400Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff

"Hi all,

I’ve been to a club (Pleasures) about 5 times, played with a couple of different couples, however I’m not getting any meets through FAB.

Could someone point out to me how to stand out from the crowd, and increase meets.

Many thanks,

Honestly I really appreciate any comments.

Hiding your profile.... is a great er....help

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By *ert999400Man
1 week ago

Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff

"Hi all,

I’ve been to a club (Pleasures) about 5 times, played with a couple of different couples, however I’m not getting any meets through FAB.

Could someone point out to me how to stand out from the crowd, and increase meets.

Many thanks,

Honestly I really appreciate any comments.

Hiding your profile.... is a great er....help

Profile is still hidden prehaps he is shy

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By *lowercandyWoman
5 days ago

Lancashire

"Could someone also look at mine and advise on my profile. Nobody messages me or anything. Please and thanks"

If the information isn't there or the photos visible or attached lots will not be asking for them/adding a friend just to find out more...

They simply move in in their inbox!

As a single guy you are outnumbered on here and you have to do the work really

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