FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs and single guys

By *Wguy456 OP Man
2 days ago

South Coast

After some advice please

I'm thinking of going to a club and not been before!

Is it worth going as a single guys?

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By *.T.Man
2 days ago

Back home in Glasgow

Always.

Go with no expectations, go for the opportunity of relaxing in a place where liberated people hang out.

If you expect sex, then you will reek of desperation and people will find that offputting.

However, go with a view that you could end up chatting with people who get the scene and can talk frankly about almost anything.

Don't be a wanking Zombie. I've seen women and couples leave a club because the zombies followed them from room to room.

Be polite, curteous, confident but respectful and you won't go far wrong. And never forget, if you want to play, ask and never assume you can just join in.

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By *tag and CelesteCouple
1 day ago

Liverpool

"Always.

Go with no expectations, go for the opportunity of relaxing in a place where liberated people hang out.

If you expect sex, then you will reek of desperation and people will find that offputting.

However, go with a view that you could end up chatting with people who get the scene and can talk frankly about almost anything.

Don't be a wanking Zombie. I've seen women and couples leave a club because the zombies followed them from room to room.

Be polite, curteous, confident but respectful and you won't go far wrong. And never forget, if you want to play, ask and never assume you can just join in.

Exactly this, single guys aren’t our go to normally, mainly because the wanking dead just follow us around which can get a bit tedious. However, those that act normal with no expectations tend to be the ones we invite to join us.

As someone who started out as a single guy, clubs are probably the best way to get to know people within the lifestyle and more often than not so long as you’re respectful, engage with people as a normal human being and not looking for a quick fuck, your chances of getting to join a couple or a single girl drastically improve.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 day ago

Central

Always do thorough research on the potential clubs, to get the right one for your budget, availability etc, as each one will have different schedules, events and when single men can attend, plus very different charging levels. Get the right facilities for you. And go for the facilities and social options.

It's definitely worth going to many of them, if you're a decent guy who respects others and engages fairly, without pressure on others. It's typically those who don't who shouldn't be at clubs.

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By *abioMan
1 day ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"After some advice please

I'm thinking of going to a club and not been before!

Is it worth going as a single guys?

Define “worth going”

If you go expecting guaranteed sex because you have paid a certain amount … then no!

If you go with an open mind with no expectations, a sociable person who will talk to everyone and anyone and treat it like a night out… and everything is no until told/asked otherwise.. then absolutely!

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By *harAndBryCouple
23 hours ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"After some advice please

I'm thinking of going to a club and not been before!

Is it worth going as a single guys?

We don't go to clubs on days/nights when there are NO single guys....it's generally what we (and lots of others) are looking for.

But....be sociable, be respectful, talk to both halves of a couple and don't walk around with your t-shirt on, cock out and playing with yourself.

(Bry)

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