FabSwingers.com forum: Review our profile

By *oppafeel OP Couple
over a year ago

london

Hi everyone. Would appreciate a review of our profile. We’re a FM couple looking for a F - quite new on Fab but have been active elsewhere and not new to threesomes.

Don’t want to post face pics on profile due to privacy (but we will DM them in messages). Am thinking we should post a clothed picture of us together with faces obscured so you can see our body shapes / height together etc.

We also barely get anyone actually looking at our profile! Only if we message someone. Which makes me think our profile just isn’t v visible in search? Understand women prob aren’t searching for couples, which may be why. But also have had a block on our account from posting on the forum which was lifted today by admin (apparently an error) so perhaps our profile was restricted. No idea.

Any advice appreciated. Thanks

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

You need photos of the male half and some together, also verifications. Get to a club and you will meet people and get verified all in one.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Downham Market

As always, no pics of the male half. If you're looking for women, then surely the male half is just as important as the female half?

You probably ARE getting looked at. An awful lot of couples and females will be looking in stealth mode and won't show on the who's looked at you list, whereas most guys don't turn that switch on.

(Bry)

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By *oppafeel OP Couple
over a year ago

london

Thanks. Ok I get it. Will get some photos of him.

I didn’t even know there was a stealth mode tbh!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Downham Market

"I didn’t even know there was a stealth mode tbh!"

Account - Privacy Settings.

We have it turned on so when we look at guys they don't immediately message us.

(Bry)

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As others have said, the lack of pics of the man will mean lots of women wouldn't message or respond to a message.

Remember any lady needs to find 2 people attractive, so you're reducing your chances by excluding one of those people.

Also most couples want the same, which makes bi women the most sought after group here. So they can be inundated with mail from couples looking for that elusive ffm.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Definitely add some pics of both of you together, be it dressed, in underwear etc.

I'm not your target audience, but I am half a couple and I love to see pics of a couple together.

It probably seems you don't get many views because you're not looking for men and they're probably the most prolific viewers of profiles.

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By *oppafeel OP Couple
over a year ago

london

Thanks for the considered response. It’s appreciated

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Quality over quantity " might make some women feel they aren't good enough so they don't message you.

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By *oppafeel OP Couple
over a year ago

london

Ok. Thats intended to mean we don’t want to sleep with tons of people. It’s about the connection being quality. But can change thanks

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I agree with the majority, that the lack of photos of the man needs addressing.

You're clearly meeting as a couple and your profile should reflect this.

From a personal perspective, the profile had a very sub/dom feel, which isn't a dynamic that interests me and would therefore be an instant "not for me".

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