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By *lat county fun OP   Man
20 weeks ago

norwich

So iv got bit of a dilemma. Iv developed feelings for someone but I only know where she lives and her first name. We have chatted but only in a professional setting. I would love to know how this woman feels too.

I have no way of getting in contact with her other than leaving a note on her car. So do I leave her a note or do I just put it to the back of my mind and move on. Would you be freaked out or would you like to find a note from someone lol.

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By *iss KinkWoman
20 weeks ago

Up North

I’d be freaked tbh. Especially a note on my car and someone knowing where I live. BTW how do you know where she lives?

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By *lat county fun OP   Man
20 weeks ago

norwich

I worked a couple doors down from her but kept professional and never said anything, now I kind of regret it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

Are you likely to chat in a professional setting again? Have you chatted face to face?

This is difficult because you don't know how she'd react to a note on her car.

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By *lat county fun OP   Man
20 weeks ago

norwich

The chances are slim as the job is finished now

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By *litterbabeWoman
20 weeks ago

hiding from cock pics

I think life is about taking the occasional chance and I would take a chance on it but if she doesn't respond I would definitely leave it there.

What about to note that reads something like this...

Hey there!

I was working on a house nearby and we chatted a few times you while passing by.

I thought I'd reach out and say hi.

If you're up for it, I’d love to grab a drink sometime and chat.

No pressure, just thought it’d be nice to connect.

Feel free to send me a message on 07xxxxx if you wish. If not, wishing you all the best.

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By *litterbabeWoman
20 weeks ago

hiding from cock pics

Just to add, years ago I got a parking ticket and there was a note next to it saying "if you'd like me to pay for your ticket, it would be worth it if I could take you for a drink".

I did go for the drink, I didn't accept money towards the parking ticket.

I also didn't see him again afterwards but it just was that we weren't really suited.

It was still a fun way to meet somebody.

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Watermouth

This reminds me of Butterflies.

If you keep at her your stalking.

If you happen to be walking down the road once when she does you can say hi, and do what you wish you had, ask her.

I reckon we have all left something to later, but it's not always to late.

Be ready for rejection.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm curious what you mean by 'feelings'?

Sounds like you worked locally to her, chatted briefly and no more. Maybe she was just being nice?

If you really know so little about her is it more a case of lust vs actual feelings?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

Maybe she's married. A note on the windscreen could cause trouble if her husband saw it.

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By *dderlyDeliciousWoman
18 weeks ago

Manchester

If you know her professionally, can't you find her on LinkedIn? Send her a connection request and a message

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By *leep walkerMan
18 weeks ago

Caerphilly


"So iv got bit of a dilemma. Iv developed feelings for someone but I only know where she lives and her first name. We have chatted but only in a professional setting. I would love to know how this woman feels too.

I have no way of getting in contact with her other than leaving a note on her car. So do I leave her a note or do I just put it to the back of my mind and move on. Would you be freaked out or would you like to find a note from someone lol."

If I felt that strongly, I'd take a chance and leave the note. Not sure about putting my phone number on it and would suggest an alternative method of contact. You could get all kinds of weirdos calling you up, haha !

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