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Ladies going to clubs on their own

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By *hampersDarling OP   Woman
17 hours ago

Norwich

Hello Ladies,

What are your experiences of going to clubs on your own?

I'm struggling to find a guy to go with, so I thought I might go solo. I'm in Norwich so it would be one fairly close to me.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
17 hours ago

wonderland.

I spent over 19 years going to clubs as a single female. I'd recommend it , unless an actual couple

Advertise your going, I used to often message new single female and offer to meet them at the door or bar area... and show them around, Introduce them to people etc.

But let the club know if its your first time x

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By *picyminxWoman
16 hours ago

Huntingdon


"Hello Ladies,

What are your experiences of going to clubs on your own?

I'm struggling to find a guy to go with, so I thought I might go solo. I'm in Norwich so it would be one fairly close to me.

"

When I was a single fem I much preferred going alone, I was always looked after by any club and their staff very well as a single fem. If you don't know anyone in the club you can always ask the staff to introduce you to people and they will happily oblige

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
16 hours ago

Wolvo

Its liberating - you go when you want, leave when you want, change your mind about going, no obligations say if you went with a fella who may expect action, people are friendly to solo women.

The bad bits (my own personal experience) - being quizzed by the cabbie on the way home, people being pushy because you're alone, ladies can be a bit unfriendly, leaving the club safely as you're on your own.

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By *heshire CrumpetWoman
16 hours ago

Chorley

I always had a great time as a single lady.

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By *iss KinkWoman
15 hours ago

North West

I started going on my own at the start and still do

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
9 hours ago

Coventry

Mrs goes occasionally on her own to clubs she knows. She has a perfectly good time and feels safe. Likewise I'm happy with her being in clubs solo because I know she'll be safe and in good company.

I would say pick a good club and go. You'll be safe and have the total freedom to do things on your terms without having to be conscious of the needs of any partner you bring. It's true freedom.

Mr

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By *lueDressWoman
8 hours ago

Bath

Went on My own many times.Its a little bit scary when you first try.

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By *iss fabWoman
8 hours ago

Gwent

I tried socials first and then became friends with a few people so going to a club now, I can always meet someone I know

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By *eavenscentitCouple
8 hours ago

barnstaple

I went alone the first couple of times, I found it liberating and interesting. Good luck x

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By *anjabi princessWoman
8 hours ago

Manchester

I’m single female in the lifestyle and I been going clubs all m my own never go with no one they use you and dump you there so past experiences have taught me go Alone and your fre do what you want not what others want you do when you with them the fear them leaving you spoils your night so I go on my own don’t have worry about no one leaving me or dumping me because am not playing with them they can’t handle rejection and they dump you

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By *anjabi princessWoman
8 hours ago

Manchester

I’m single female in the lifestyle and I been going clubs all m my own never go with no one they use you and dump you there so past experiences have taught me go Alone and your fre do what you want not what others want you do when you with them the fear them leaving you spoils your night so I go on my own don’t have worry about no one leaving me or dumping me because am not playing with them they can’t handle rejection and they dump you

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By *andora2Woman
3 hours ago

South somewhere

I prefer going by myself. I’m not dependent on anyone for what time I go, what I do there and what time I leave.

I’ve made many friends.

I’m finally coming out of hibernation this month after a long break from Fab and clubs . Very much looking forward to it 😊

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