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Ladies going to clubs on their own

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
21 weeks ago

Norwich

Hello Ladies,

What are your experiences of going to clubs on your own?

I'm struggling to find a guy to go with, so I thought I might go solo. I'm in Norwich so it would be one fairly close to me.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
21 weeks ago

wonderland.

I spent over 19 years going to clubs as a single female. I'd recommend it , unless an actual couple

Advertise your going, I used to often message new single female and offer to meet them at the door or bar area... and show them around, Introduce them to people etc.

But let the club know if its your first time x

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By *picyminxWoman
21 weeks ago

Huntingdon


"Hello Ladies,

What are your experiences of going to clubs on your own?

I'm struggling to find a guy to go with, so I thought I might go solo. I'm in Norwich so it would be one fairly close to me.

"

When I was a single fem I much preferred going alone, I was always looked after by any club and their staff very well as a single fem. If you don't know anyone in the club you can always ask the staff to introduce you to people and they will happily oblige

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
21 weeks ago

Wolvo

Its liberating - you go when you want, leave when you want, change your mind about going, no obligations say if you went with a fella who may expect action, people are friendly to solo women.

The bad bits (my own personal experience) - being quizzed by the cabbie on the way home, people being pushy because you're alone, ladies can be a bit unfriendly, leaving the club safely as you're on your own.

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By *heshire CrumpetWoman
21 weeks ago

Chorley

I always had a great time as a single lady.

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By *iss KinkWoman
21 weeks ago

Up North

I started going on my own at the start and still do

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
21 weeks ago

Coventry

Mrs goes occasionally on her own to clubs she knows. She has a perfectly good time and feels safe. Likewise I'm happy with her being in clubs solo because I know she'll be safe and in good company.

I would say pick a good club and go. You'll be safe and have the total freedom to do things on your terms without having to be conscious of the needs of any partner you bring. It's true freedom.

Mr

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By *lueDressWoman
21 weeks ago

Bath

Went on My own many times.Its a little bit scary when you first try.

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By *iss fabWoman
21 weeks ago

Gwent

I tried socials first and then became friends with a few people so going to a club now, I can always meet someone I know

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By *eavenscentitCouple
21 weeks ago

barnstaple

I went alone the first couple of times, I found it liberating and interesting. Good luck x

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By *anjabi princessWoman
21 weeks ago

Manchester

I’m single female in the lifestyle and I been going clubs all m my own never go with no one they use you and dump you there so past experiences have taught me go Alone and your fre do what you want not what others want you do when you with them the fear them leaving you spoils your night so I go on my own don’t have worry about no one leaving me or dumping me because am not playing with them they can’t handle rejection and they dump you

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By *anjabi princessWoman
21 weeks ago

Manchester

I’m single female in the lifestyle and I been going clubs all m my own never go with no one they use you and dump you there so past experiences have taught me go Alone and your fre do what you want not what others want you do when you with them the fear them leaving you spoils your night so I go on my own don’t have worry about no one leaving me or dumping me because am not playing with them they can’t handle rejection and they dump you

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I prefer going by myself. I’m not dependent on anyone for what time I go, what I do there and what time I leave.

I’ve made many friends.

I’m finally coming out of hibernation this month after a long break from Fab and clubs . Very much looking forward to it 😊

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By *urora1912Woman
21 weeks ago

Norfolk East anglia


"Hello Ladies,

What are your experiences of going to clubs on your own?

I'm struggling to find a guy to go with, so I thought I might go solo. I'm in Norwich so it would be one fairly close to me.

"

Would you be looking to go to the annex as that's the nearest from Norwich.

Newbie night is a good option as a single female

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By *leasinglipznhipsWoman
21 weeks ago

I love attending as a single female. I always end up getting to know a new friendly face x

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By *elloWoman
21 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I prefer going on my own.

I found it more difficult to approach others when I was in a couple but as a single, especially a single woman it's really easy.

I just find a friendly looking group of about 5 or 6 couples and just walk up to them and say '_ello, I've never been here before and I'm on my own, do you mind if I talk to you?!'. That approach works a treat, couples really seem to admire the confidence.

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