FabSwingers.com forum: Ghosting trend

By *owhambam OP Man
3 days ago

clacton

I’ve recently been ghosted by 2 couples and 2 women. I don’t remember this happening before so was wondering if this is a trend hitting many, or just me been very unlucky.

1 of the couples I hadn’t even mailed before so was totally random. Be glad to hear your thoughts.

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By *harAndBryCouple
3 days ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I’ve recently been ghosted by 2 couples and 2 women. I don’t remember this happening before so was wondering if this is a trend hitting many, or just me been very unlucky.

1 of the couples I hadn’t even mailed before so was totally random. Be glad to hear your thoughts."

You say ghosted, but then say that one of them you'd not even messaged. Maybe they did a pre-emptive block? We do that - sometimes we'll come across a status update or profile and something immediately puts us off so we'll block before either of us has messaged.

Also....there's a LOT of couples accounts and single female accounts that aren't what they seem. Maybe the guy had finished wanking, or it was getting a bit too close to arranging a meet....

(Bry)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 days ago

East Sussex

Ghosted to me means you've met someone a few times and formed a relationship of sorts and they just drop out of your life.

It doesn't mean they just stop messaging in my opinion.

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By *owhambam OP Man
3 days ago

clacton

They had messaged me and had about 20 messages before all stopped, regarding getting close to meet, maybe you’re right

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By *owhambam OP Man
3 days ago

clacton

Maybe my interpretation is incorrect, but it stilll seems strange to me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 days ago

Central

For prior messaging in Fab

No reply = No thanks

Blocking is wise use of the site tools, to stop unwanted contact that would needlessly waste time

Users are getting more experienced at good time management here

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 days ago

Staffordshire

People do it this way as it often avoids confrontation.

We've chatted to people in the past and realised we aren't a good match. Explained why and got rude messages back....its just not worth it.

It's a very harsh way, but its how it works.

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By *owhambam OP Man
3 days ago

clacton

I’ve been on here 6 years, I’m not talking about general chat. I was just wondering if this had become normal behaviour, as it hasn’t happened to me before

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By *owhambam OP Man
3 days ago

clacton

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By *owhambam OP Man
3 days ago

clacton

"[Removed by poster at 28/02/25 14:43:18]"

Only 1 has blocked me

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By *estinysswingersCouple
2 days ago

Worsley

Yeah it’s irritating but it’s online interactions in the 21st century. People will ghost. Get used to it.

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By *entleman JayMan
24 hours ago

Wakefield

It’s rife on Fab. Delete and move on. Don’t overthink it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
24 hours ago

Central

No interest equals no messaging. Call it ghosting or whatever you want but that is the Fab rules you signed up to.

No obligation to state thanks and goodbye. No or stopping messaging is the perfect way to do it. Move on

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By *averockrockMan
24 hours ago

swindon

Ghosting is a part of Fab! Lol

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