FabSwingers.com forum: I need a single fem-advice?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone, I'm looking for a single female to join me and a m/f couple for a straight swap at their house in Lincoln, but I don't have the foggiest how to go about it; should I put an advert on meets and events?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can put up a meet but doubt you will find anyone. But good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can put up a meet but doubt you will find anyone. But good luck."

Have to agree that the likelihood of success is slim. You probably need to revisit your sense of expectation.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

So you want a single female who is willing to meet 3 strangers? Have you given any thought to how she may feel regarding her safety, or you just bothered about getting your rocks off?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Ive gotta admit if I was single this wouldnt appeal to me. Basically it reads as though you have to find a girl to take along so you can fuck the fem from the couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh I get all that-add to that the fact that not everyone likes long hair or tattoos-but there's no harm in trying I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so basicly the female isnt even going to be with you so she may as well bypass you and just go to the couple herself lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So you want a single female who is willing to meet 3 strangers? Have you given any thought to how she may feel regarding her safety, or you just bothered about getting your rocks off?

Whilst I appreciate I'm not exactly a seasoned swinger, I always view other's safety as paramount. I'm certainly not just trying to 'get my rocks off'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so basicly the female isnt even going to be with you so she may as well bypass you and just go to the couple herself lol x"

No, not exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a former single female on here, I think your chances of finding a lady who is willing to meet 3 strangers on her own are pretty lremote tbh. You could ask the couple if they know anyone who could join in. Is meeting.the couple conditional on you bringing a lady with you? Ms

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

There is pretty much nothing on your profile so no incentive to meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

evening, as a single fem on here - and not too far from you - i am a little lost as to why you need a single fem?

Are you interested in a particular couple who only play with other couples? it seems to me that you are trying to rush into something. Your profile says you are verified, why dont you ask one of the people who verified you to go?

whatever you do i wish you luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

whatever you do i wish you luck.

Essentially yes, they want to meet me, but only as part of a couple. And the one couple that have verified me no longer go swinging.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm a long way from you, so this is just my tuppence worth...

Your basically asking a single fem to go on a 3way blind date, where she doesn't really pick her partners?

I'd suggest your desperation to meet his couple is off-putting. I certainly wouldn't want to be the lady tagged along so you can play with them - I'd feel about as wanted as a fart in an elevator.

Single fems are hard to come by, and I'd guess even harder to come by when you are expecting this. But good luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also-and forgive my profound ignorance, but where the heck is Raithby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't understand is why a couple are in correspondence with a single guy yet they will only meet you if you bring a female. Surely they'd have more success if they messaged other mf couples. Confused of Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

doubly confused of Lincoln. I suspect it's because the guy doesn't want to be left out and he also feels uncomfortable in 'gangbang' situations, near men, etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't understand is why a couple are in correspondence with a single guy yet they will only meet you if you bring a female. Surely they'd have more success if they messaged other mf couples. Confused of Nottingham"

The cynic in me can only see one reason, and that is that they are stringing the OP along with a near impossible criteria to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doubly confused of Lincoln. I suspect it's because the guy doesn't want to be left out and he also feels uncomfortable in 'gangbang' situations, near men, etc"

so your single female is just "bait" for some bloke she doesn't know because he needs not to feel left out in order for you to fuck his wife...nice...

Ever considered a name change because from here it's seeming pretty ironic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doubly confused of Lincoln. I suspect it's because the guy doesn't want to be left out and he also feels uncomfortable in 'gangbang' situations, near men, etc"

I suspect it's more likely that the guy wants a lady and is getting you to do the hard work for him or as crystal wheels says above. Or a bit of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either way OP, my advice would be to blow this couple out and look for couples who want to meet you in your own right as a single guy.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Hi everyone, I'm looking for a single female to join me and a m/f couple for a straight swap at their house in Lincoln, but I don't have the foggiest how to go about it; should I put an advert on meets and events?"

it looks as if you are using the fem to get at the couple... that looks awful and is probably doing you no favours...

you'll tend to find that since single fems tend to be popular, they don't need a guy to get with a couple if they wanted one.....

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Either way OP, my advice would be to blow this couple out and look for couples who want to meet you in your own right as a single guy."

This

Or why not just meet with a single fem alone?

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

single female here not a million miles away

Not a chance I would meet a stranger with a couple of strangers in a strange situation to boot...

stupid is not my middle name...

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

The cynic in me can only see one reason, and that is that they are stringing the OP along with a near impossible criteria to meet them.

lol have to say my first thought when reading this thread was seems it might be they don't have obvious reason to say no thanks (ie age, lack of veris) so nexr best thing is to make conditions such that it will never happen. hopefully we are wrong but thats how it sounds.

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By *i_sSwingWoman
over a year ago

Any place 4 the right Person

"Ive gotta admit if I was single this wouldnt appeal to me. Basically it reads as though you have to find a girl to take along so you can fuck the fem from the couple."

Certainly reads like that to me too, as a single fem if they are not attracted to your profile in the first instance which it is not very appealing. You've failed at the first hurdle. No pics so u won't come up in alot of searches, profile does not stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single girl giving my opinion too.

1. I'd never agree to meet a couple if I'm on a 1st meet with a single guy.

2. If I was going to swing with a playmate with another couple, it would be after a considerable length of time and trust with that playmate.

3. I'd pick the couples we played with.

4. How do you know any girl you get to agree to this would find the guy in this couple attractive?

5. Are you planning a social meet with all four of you before any play? Or just straight to a place to shag?

This whole set up is just totally umappealling to 99% of the single women on here, if we want to play we couples, we don't need men to pimp us out to them.

Good luck in your quest, but you might find locating the Loch Ness monster easier x

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