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By *amAndAsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Somerset

Help! We seem to get pretty much zero attention on here or people wanting to meet, we feel our profile is open and honest with a variation of pics (we can’t show our faces due to work) but we get practically no engagement.

Any help or advice would be appreciated as we are genuinely looking for meets with like minded people but running out of ideas and it’s knocked our confidence massively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve had your fair share of meets and verifications judging by your profile

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By *amAndAsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Somerset

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By *amAndAsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Somerset

We really haven’t, we have had a few bumping into people in pubs or holidays where we have said hello etc but actual meets we’ve had about 6 in 7 years.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile says the social side for you both is crucial so I would expect to see pics of you both together without an erect penis in them.

I appreciate you don't want to show your faces but there are plenty of other ways to pose.

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By *amAndAsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Somerset

Hey! So you mean a few more vanilla type pictures? X

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hey! So you mean a few more vanilla type pictures? X"

Yes

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

And maybe a profile pic of you both together

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By *amAndAsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Somerset

Ok thank you will have a look at ones we feel comfortable putting on there that are more vanilla and together without being blatantly obvious that it’s us x

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By *aprica2Couple
over a year ago

woking

We've had very little interaction on here with local couples but more success posting before club nights, for us clubs are definitely more fun.

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By *amAndAsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Somerset

We haven’t braved any club yet but the main reason for that is because we get pretty much no interest on here that makes us not want to be rejected in real life at a club x

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By *WANDTGCouple
over a year ago

Borough of Greenwich

Attention is a 2 way street, do you message other couples or sit and wait for those you find nice to engage first ?

Clubs are marmite, that's my opinion.

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By *amAndAsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Somerset

We message lots of couples, add lots of meets and put what we feel is a lot of time into the site x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Clubs are marmite, that's my opinion. "

The good things about clubs for a couple is you always have each other to play with

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By *hoenix_1Man
over a year ago

richmond


"Hey! So you mean a few more vanilla type pictures? X

Yes"

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By *WANDTGCouple
over a year ago

Borough of Greenwich


"

Clubs are marmite, that's my opinion.

The good things about clubs for a couple is you always have each other to play with"

Agree , but coughing up £50 to fuck each other is a bit rich !!

Could be at home doing that and I get a cup of tea afterwards

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
over a year ago

Rainham, Kent

Clubs are a great way to meet like minded singles/couples face to face. Whether you end up playing with them or not, you get yourself out there and there's more chances of meets happening.

You never know unless you try!

With regards to your profile...there's a lot of humerous pics on there...maybe add some more sultry/kinky ones? I'm getting the vibe of it all being a laugh...funny but not really a turn on.

Maybe describe more of your fantasies, what you've done or would like to do?

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By *amAndAsh OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Somerset

Thank you for your advice we are a very fun loving, don’t take life to seriously couple so we want to portray that but the thing about sultry and sexy pics we will certainly take on board x

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