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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago

We are lou lou n ricardo we are new to swinging n love fun in the bedroom but havent had our first meet, how do we go about this 🤔

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By *aomilatteCouple
23 weeks ago

Midlands

Our advice would be to go to a club. Go and see what a club is all about. It's not a big gangbang that some may think, but a place where you have the opportunity to be sociable, and if you connect take things further in a playroom. If you rely on Fab you'll likely find it frustrating.

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By *ustus5555Woman
23 weeks ago

Mansfield

Absolutely 2nd this advice ⬆️

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By *all me FlikWoman
23 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Great advice above plus you have plenty of choice within a reasonable distance.

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By *orBarCouple
23 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Morning

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By *rpeggioCouple
23 weeks ago

Baughurst

A club , very good service above. If you have one nearby, go to a social (organised swingers meet with no play just chat and drinks, usually at a pub and usually no fee).

In Fab, the amount of couples and ladies that are soft swing only, like you are at this stage, are very few compared to full swap. Do an advanced search in fab for soft swing for couples and women, then read profiles and approach any in your wavelength.

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By *rpeggioCouple
23 weeks ago

Baughurst


"A club , very good service above. If you have one nearby, go to a social (organised swingers meet with no play just chat and drinks, usually at a pub and usually no fee).

In Fab, the amount of couples and ladies that are soft swing only, like you are at this stage, are very few compared to full swap. Do an advanced search in fab for soft swing for couples and women, then read profiles and approach any in your wavelength."

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Meant advice, not service+++

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By *issmorganWoman
23 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

More pics are needed, that show the man too. If you're looking to attract single women and couples, they'd need to see both of you. Especially ladies, who have to be attracted to two people.

Also maybe write a bit more about what you offer any potential meets and what you're both into.

It's harder than you think to meet other couples (I'm half of one) you need that 4 way attraction and then there's the availability of all the parties.

Single bi women are swamped with mail as most couples are looking to meet one.so you do need to stand out and remember they are a person too, with their own likes and desires.

As others have said, clubs are a good bet as are organised socials.

We've met more couples through those, than just using fab alone.

Good luck.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
23 weeks ago

Chester

It’s a matter of setting your expectations - it’s very, very unlikely that you’ll get a bi lady responding to a ‘come round to ours after 9pm’ status, unless maybe they’re someone you already know. Either you need to enhance your profile and be prepared to message a lot of potential matches, or get to an organised social and/or a club.

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By *ucifer And MazikeenCouple
23 weeks ago

Derbyshire

We had that are we to pickey when we first started the answer to that is no you will find your match and when you find your grove and style of fun you will be on your way to a fantastic journey don’t give up we now love our life style

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Speaking as the kind of woman you're looking for - if you're hoping to meet a woman here, your profile will need some work. You need more pictures and clearer pictures of both of you. You don't have to show faces, you don't have to show genitals. Body, body parts, that sort of thing.

You also need to beef up your profile text. You tell us what *you* want. If you messaged me, I'd ask, why this couple as opposed to any other? Answer that question. Why would a woman or couple want to meet you?

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Northumberland

Drop us a message xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
22 weeks ago

Leeds


"We are lou lou n ricardo we are new to swinging n love fun in the bedroom but havent had our first meet, how do we go about this 🤔"

You need a wider variety of pics. You only have two and the second is a male armpit.

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
22 weeks ago

Gillingham

Agree about more pics on your profile. These are your "selling point" and show people how sexy you both are and what they could be enjoying.

Try being more descriptive in your profile. Instead of saying you'd like to meet X,Y and Z for fun.. Tell us a bit about yourself, what you enjoy, your fantasies/kinks and what you'd like to experience, what you can offer.

Equally you can put what you're not into as well. What your boundaries are.

You can always have a look at others profiles to get some inspiration for how you'd like your profile to look.

Happy fabbing! X

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By *orBarCouple
22 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Hello

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