FabSwingers.com forum: Inexperienced and nervous

By *hubbyTrucker OP Man
3 days ago

Canvey island

I’m very nervous to meet as I feel I don’t have much experience and am worried I won’t be up to satisfying the other person.

Are there people who enjoy teaching?

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 days ago

Bedford

"I’m very nervous to meet as I feel I don’t have much experience and am worried I won’t be up to satisfying the other person.

Are there people who enjoy teaching? "

Just be honest about it when chatting to people.

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By *ingle49Man
3 days ago

rural

Be yourself to be honest majority of times they are as just as nervous as you

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By *ogandher1962Couple
3 days ago

Reading

"I’m very nervous to meet as I feel I don’t have much experience and am worried I won’t be up to satisfying the other person.

Are there people who enjoy teaching? "

Perhaps go to a club and talk to people in the first instance.

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By *ucka39Man
3 days ago

Newcastle

Maybe spend more time chatting before actually meeting whether on this or away from this

The chat rooms id say would help build up some confidence engaging with others and those who are on cam

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By *hoccaMan
3 days ago

local

Go to a club and just remember, you can leave at any given moment if you really feel you need to.

Chances are you gradually get more and more comfortable in the environment.

Don’t pressure yourself to perform or to get anything out of an interaction, only intention is to socialise and go with the flow

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
12 hours ago

Gillingham

It's totally normal to feel nervous, it's a daunting thing entering another couple's dynamic to get intimate. As a couple we get nervous too, It's the unknown that causes the nervousness, like going for a job interview or riding a roller coaster...the fear is all in the lead up. Be yourself, relax, and appreciate the fear, it's exhilarating and reminds you that you're human and alive. And once the fun begins, the nerves are no more and it's just total pleasure for the rest of the ride. X

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By *lowercandyWoman
9 hours ago

Lancashire

"I’m very nervous to meet as I feel I don’t have much experience and am worried I won’t be up to satisfying the other person.

Are there people who enjoy teaching? "

Definitely be honest with anyone you get into conversation with

You say not much but I'm taking it you're not a virgin (though if you are own it there'll be people who are more than happy to help I'm sure)

Remember what are you actually gauging your experience level on anyway???

Is there a scale or is this your own perception of not much...in which case maybe you are overthinking it

There's nothing stopping you reading..

I investigated some things then put the information into practice...

Everything in life is learnt

Just relax, be honest, enjoy

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By *enelope2UWoman
9 hours ago

Fife

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By *enelope2UWoman
9 hours ago

Fife

By afraid to meet you mean fab term for fucking or sex?.. because you don't need experience to SEE or meet someone in person and establish chemistry/comparability connection.

Everyone is a first time to someone.

Some people like fumble sex, some dread it, some get off on the what if aspect of finding out if there's compatibility BY fucking... so until you're physically in the presence of a person or actually TALK interact with them you don't know how it might go or be.

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple
9 hours ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

There’s an awesome book for people who are sexually inexperienced. It’s called Drawn to Sex by Erika Moen. It walks you through all the basics.

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