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By *oversInSync OP   Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

How do you approach strangers in clubs and start conversations? My partner and I still feel really nervous about making the first move. Any tips or advice on how to break the ice? Or how to approach others.

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By *jlondon78Man
over a year ago

Suffolk

Just be yourself say hi don't expect anything just engage in a conversation maybe express your nervous usually club events are full of genuine people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you approach strangers in clubs and start conversations? My partner and I still feel really nervous about making the first move. Any tips or advice on how to break the ice? Or how to approach others."
if you haven’t been to a club yet then start a conversation stating that I’m sure decent folk will listen and reassure take your time I guess

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Downham Market


"How do you approach strangers in clubs and start conversations? My partner and I still feel really nervous about making the first move. Any tips or advice on how to break the ice? Or how to approach others."

We've found it much easier to do it in the hottub for some reason. Probably because they are generally away from the noise of the dancefloor.

(Bry)

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By *neeyedwillieMan
over a year ago

Darlington

I just say hi and go from there.

My problem isn't chatting to people in real life..its online. Always seems to go nowhere on here. Wish I knew why.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

With two verifications in the past 72 hours from different people at different clubs, your question is a little moot.

However, if your question was 'how do we move from small talk to the business' well, that's another matter entirely.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

I talk with everyone, not just those I find attractive and deal with them in the same way.

Once you've connected, it's not just on you to develop the engagement

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By *orporatejock32Man
over a year ago

Ruislip

Following just to see what people are saying but in agreement with all above

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By *inkystar1Woman
over a year ago

Heathfield

I have always gone to the bar whilst they are there and said...I love your dress, coat, etc or commented about their drink of choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you approach strangers in clubs and start conversations? My partner and I still feel really nervous about making the first move. Any tips or advice on how to break the ice? Or how to approach others."

You just need to grow the balls to do it. Some people live in their head too much and distract from reality. You gotta dive in head first, leave yourswlf no room to escape. Be prepared to get rejected, not everyone is for everyone, and most importsntly, have fun swinging! Xoxoxoxooxo

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Just the other day a couple came over to where myself and a group of friends were sitting and asked to join us as we were the only people laughing. They sat down, we introduced ourselves and we spent the next hour chatting.

The lady mentioned a couple of things she liked in the conversation before asking if anyone would like to join her.

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