FabSwingers.com forum: What makes a GOOD private swingers party?

By *ris221fab OP Man
4 days ago

North West

Im considering hosting private parties at my house. I own a house with 4 bedrooms I rent out using airbnb, but it seems perfect for a swingers party.

So with that in mind, im thinking of designing a swingers party that has everything you'd want. But also, I'd be open to ideas of how you could make it different, and it enhance things.

So,

What makes a good private swingers party?

What ideas have you had that could make it better, and different?

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
4 days ago

Home

People turning up

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By *dam_TinaCouple
4 days ago

Hampshire

No viruses

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
4 days ago

IRVINE

Yep people turning up mrs

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By *lik and PaulCouple
4 days ago

cahoots

Couples only

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By *teveanddebsCouple
4 days ago

Norwich

"Couples only"

The the Op can't go.

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By *iss KinkWoman
4 days ago

North West

Only invite people with good veris

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By *iGuy197747Man
4 days ago

Stamford

A relaxed vibe and people who actually turn up would be the critical factors!

If you have enough interest then it's good to try and choose compatible numbers of couples / singles etc too.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
4 days ago

London

Chips, dips, chains, whips.

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By *en_Dover79Man
4 days ago

Oswaldtwistle

The people. I have only ever been to one though

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By *rpeggioCouple
4 days ago

Baughurst

The guests and the hosts is what makes it good.

There's about 4 to 5 dynamics within guests and the way they like to play. Some of them are compatible, some are not. Choose compatible dynamics for each particular set of guests and invite profiles that would fit those dynamics.

For example, couples into gangbangs for the lady will not mix well with Bi couples looking to play with other couples or Bi group play.

You can have both types of party, but be aware of the 4 or 5 different dynamics and invite guests that will not feel out of place.

Some dynamics need single men invited, others will not like single men in the party.

Besides that. The rest is logistics. We have never had any problem with people attending, as in the past we over invited by 25% so 1 in 4 would not turn up on average ans so ended more it he's worth the right amount of people.

Feel free to DM us with specific questions. If you'd find it useful, let us know here in the Forum and We will DM you first since you can't, we block single men.

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By *rpeggioCouple
3 days ago

Baughurst

By the way, if anyone in the South East is in a similar position as the OP with a house or flat they would be willing to make available or rent for a swingers party, let us know. We can help with the rest.

(Single males profiles state your interest here and we'll DM you since we block single Ms).

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 days ago

Leeds

An ice breaker game

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By *lowercandyWoman
3 days ago

Lancashire

Hosted before (when a couple)

We invited two couples we already knew and who we felt would get on with eachother

We also had a few couples we had chatted to /had a social with

Also one or two that we'd not met but had been maybe on our hotlist and they'd messaged us

We found that it allowed for people to meet someone new

People to catch up with old friends

And we got to interact with possible without any awkwardness if we didn't fancy them irl

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By *teinsGateDuoCouple
3 days ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Couples only.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 days ago

Staffordshire

Vetting guests. Quality over quantity.

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 days ago

Fife

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 days ago

Fife

Actually having compatible people there that have similar interests personalities because the HOST knows or can vouch for those invited or present or deciding if it's just going to be a brothel.

In the states lifestyle organisation was essential and a requirement of any swingers party/events.. Firstly it wasn't just bed notchers/fakes/porn dreamers it's called lifestyle for a reason..

there's nothing remotely close to that here.

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By *urFantasy21Couple
3 days ago

Shrewsbury

An invite since we have yet to experience one (more's the pity)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 days ago

East Sussex

A social, no sex space, a private room and a public room.

Clean towels, at least one non playing person who can deal with any problems, strict no is no policy, very little alcohol, condoms, lube, snacks, waterand access to a shower

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 days ago

Fife

"A social, no sex space, a private room and a public room.

Clean towels, at least one non playing person who can deal with any problems, strict no is no policy, very little alcohol, condoms, lube, snacks, waterand access to a shower"

Crazy basics like that go forgotten

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 days ago

East Sussex

"A social, no sex space, a private room and a public room.

Clean towels, at least one non playing person who can deal with any problems, strict no is no policy, very little alcohol, condoms, lube, snacks, waterand access to a shower

Crazy basics like that go forgotten "

Yeah. It's also wise to put any valuables and private correspondance somewhere inaccesible. For your guests and hosts benefit. Nobody wants to be accused of pinching great aunt Ethels diamond ring only for it to be found a week later.

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By *P mature cplCouple
3 days ago

Hull

Limit single guys 3 single guys per 5 cpls.

If you do organise a party keep us in mind

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By *ris221fab OP Man
3 days ago

North West

Loads of wonderful advice here, thanks. Im definitely thinking about it for April time. Im thinking 10-15 people max. I have already thought of which rooms would be used for what etc. I probably just need to vet some people now, ha.

Thankyou all for the advice, genuinely really helped!

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By *acky RacersCouple
3 days ago

Lincoln

"A social, no sex space, a private room and a public room.

Clean towels, at least one non playing person who can deal with any problems, strict no is no policy, very little alcohol, condoms, lube, snacks, waterand access to a shower"

Great advice...I also put hand gels, wipes and bins in every room designated for play...

We curate our guest list extremely carefully...usually only people we know and have met before and who we know are respectful of our space and our other guests...

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