FabSwingers.com forum: Young male trying to get into scene

By (user no longer on site) OP
23 weeks ago

Hi everyone, young male here looking to join couples and females but proving a little difficult, any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Good evening,

Join in the forum chats and attend events that interest you.

Verifications help as there are a lot of time wasters.

Less dick pictures and more pictures of yourself. Replace the dick pictures with smart casual shots

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Also put more information on your profile, it’s a swingers site so make yourself standout.

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By *rLicksMan
23 weeks ago

Worcester

Best way to meet others is attend a local social group meeting or go to a club. Once you get into it all and make connections you are most the way there

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By *harAndBryCouple
23 weeks ago

Downham Market

"Hi everyone, young male here looking to join couples and females but proving a little difficult, any advice "

Lose the sex pic, as you have safe sex listed in your interests and that pic clearly isn't.

What's the user name about? Hopefully it's not a misspelling of "big daddy".

Consider that at 21, the VAST majority of people you'll be contacting you will be considerably older than you and may question your experience of being a "bull".

(Bry)

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By *nesCouple
23 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

Errr OP…

You know what a Bug Daddy is, right?!

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By *ogandher1962Couple
23 weeks ago

Reading

"Hi everyone, young male here looking to join couples and females but proving a little difficult, any advice "

Clubs or socials would be your best bet

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By *ucka39Man
23 weeks ago

Newcastle

Expand your bio with more information

Let your personality shine

What are you able to offer sexually

What you maybe looking for and maybe want to explore

Maybe even a little scenario

Set your age bracket

Good luck

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

It's very hard graft for all of you single men, as you'll see from the thousands of similar forum posts.

Have realistic expectations.

You're still very new here and it typically takes months to get established.

Single men invariably need to use their profile to sell themselves. Photos that show a potential partner enough, to let these know if they could find them attractive and stomach them touching them. Most guys don't do it.

And getting to swinging clubs and socials, gets you to meet and know others.

Use the Advanced Search tool, to find people who are interested in someone like you. Ignore the rest.

Good luck!

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By *akie32Man
23 weeks ago

winchester

"Hi everyone, young male here looking to join couples and females but proving a little difficult, any advice "

What effort have you put in?

you say you are a bull, do you have experience?

do you even know what a bull is, none of this is clear on your profile.

not having a dig, but these are questions people would ask.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
23 weeks ago

wonderland.

The vast majority of people here won’t be interested in having sex with someone the same age or younger than their children.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
23 weeks ago

Hinckley

"Hi everyone, young male here looking to join couples and females but proving a little difficult, any advice

What effort have you put in?

you say you are a bull, do you have experience?

do you even know what a bull is, none of this is clear on your profile.

not having a dig, but these are questions people would ask.

Agree totally with this.

The profile is quite poor., and it would be good to put on your profile what experience of being a bull you have.

And why the action photo?

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By *ovinglife!40Man
23 weeks ago

Hinckley

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
23 weeks ago

Newry

Please keep the action photo. I'd rather see you having unprotected sex with someone who possibly hasn't consented to having their photo shared by you than have you hide that. It tells me far more than anything you put in your bio or a message.

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By *irsSubCouple
23 weeks ago

Darlington

Might be controversial but our advice would be enjoy being 21 and avoid the swinging lifestyle till you're at least in your late 20s. You're only 21 once

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Hi everyone, young male here looking to join couples and females but proving a little difficult, any advice "

Well it's been 16 hours since you made this post and you've not taken any of the advice.

I add private notes onto profiles I see showing unprotected sex so I know to avoid

so as previously said thanks for making that known.

But your profile is almost empty, you're going against experienced men so you really need to put some effort in.

I recently started meeting younger guys but they had detailed informative bios, sounded mature and spoke well and gave me confidence without being rocky.

Looking at the lack of effort in your profile I'd just assume you put the same effort in sex...ie not much

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Northampton

As above. Add notes and easy block.

Also Fab need to get a grip of pictures. Face pics uploaded of unsuspecting public in the background.

Come on team

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