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By *aveylad OP   Man
5 days ago

Exmouth

Hi, I am a single guy who has tried to at least make new friends and talk to people on here for many years now although I never seem to get far. I am totally genuine and I am a respectful guy who just wants to broaden my experience and try new things but no matter what I just don't seem to be able to get anywhere on here. Any tips or any other sites anyone can recommend where I may be more successful in even just making new friends and getting to know people?

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By *uenevereWoman
5 days ago

Scunthorpe

Fab is very difficult for everyone, there's no guaranteed way to meet or even get a response to messages.

However, the fact you have no profile photo will not be helping matters.

If you do better in person, maybe try a club.

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By *aveylad OP   Man
5 days ago

Exmouth

Thank you for your help and honesty. I want to put a profile picture up, just difficult when you want to be discreet. Especially when I have come across a couple of people I know on here. Maybe a club meet is definitely the way forward as I understand it definitely depends on trust and getting to know people on here.

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By *entakuruMan
5 days ago

Exeter

It's the luck of the draw. I must have bucked the trend as I managed to get a meet in my first week, but then after that there was basically nothing for at least 18 months. Even getting replies to messages was a bit of a challenge and I like to think I've got good chat. Verifications help a lot but it's chicken and egg getting meet verified.

My advice would be a) use the video cam chat rooms, if people like you on there you can of course get cam veris and it can be easier to get a vibe going with someone in real time than via their overflowing inbox, and b) get yourself down to some club nights with a 'here to socialise' mindset first and foremost. As in, don't treat the night as a fail if you don't end up playing with anyone, but equally if you're friendly, polite, outgoing and don't look/smell like a bucket of smashed crabs you might be pleasantly surprised how things develop. My first ever club experience I was pulled aside by a couple, the wife was absolutely stumning, for a DP scenario. Not what I normally look for but also not my first time, and a fun time was had by all.

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By *entakuruMan
5 days ago

Exeter


"Thank you for your help and honesty. I want to put a profile picture up, just difficult when you want to be discreet. Especially when I have come across a couple of people I know on here. Maybe a club meet is definitely the way forward as I understand it definitely depends on trust and getting to know people on here.

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If there are people you recognise on here and their profiles appear genuine, what's the harm? They're obviously like-minded.

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By *ullsfan77Man
5 days ago

Torquay


"Thank you for your help and honesty. I want to put a profile picture up, just difficult when you want to be discreet. Especially when I have come across a couple of people I know on here. Maybe a club meet is definitely the way forward as I understand it definitely depends on trust and getting to know people on here.

I was always worried about being spotted on here-but then I realised that it works both ways! My reply would now be “Ok busted-so-what’s your story?”

If there are people you recognise on here and their profiles appear genuine, what's the harm? They're obviously like-minded. "

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By *allySlinkyWoman
5 days ago

Leeds


" I want to put a profile picture up, just difficult when you want to be discreet.

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A profile pic doesn't have to be your face

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By *issmorganWoman
5 days ago

Calderdale innit

Op, you have more body parts than your face and cock.

Take a shot dressed and crop your head off if you'd prefer.

The one pic you have of your cock, won't appeal to many women.

Most will see no profile pic and delete any message, I would.

So it be better to take some more pics and set one as your avatar.

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
5 days ago

M20

My most popular photo for likes is one of me standing in front of a mirror naked. It catches just a slice of my face so not giving my identity away. But has my full body in shot from behind so people can see my build without it being an unsolicited dick pic. Maybe try it yourself.

I don’t give a damn about being spotted here so have other photo’s with my face in. This would help you most.

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
5 days ago

M20

If you are really concerned about them seeing you, block them.

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By *aveylad OP   Man
5 days ago

Exmouth

Thank you everyone for the great advice, I really appreciate it and I will work on what you are advising me as I really would love to open my world to new experiences.

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By *akie32Man
5 days ago

winchester

get to some local socials, expect nothing, just be nice and friendly, oh and loose the dick pic

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By *assageKnightMan
5 days ago

Alloverville

Your looks don't matter, your profile text is irrelevant.

If you have the correct currency/key, doors will be opened for you to fuck for free.

A good looking, slutty girl.

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