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By *aZi777 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

London

We've been here for a few months now and not been having much luck.

I know looking for single women to join couples is rare but just wanted opinions on the profile and see if there was anything we could change about it?

Thanks 😁

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By *otsauce24Couple
5 weeks ago

Norwich


"We've been here for a few months now and not been having much luck.

I know looking for single women to join couples is rare but just wanted opinions on the profile and see if there was anything we could change about it?

Thanks 😁"

Hi,

I think a lot of the time people are looking for verifications. I appreciate they are difficult to get without having meets!

Have you considered going to a club? Great way to meet people, especially Bi girls. Or going to an organised social ?

Happy for you to DM

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
5 weeks ago

Chester

It doesn’t really tell me that much, to be perfectly honest.

I’d delete ‘third’ in your first sentence, as I suddenly wondered if I was looking at a FF profile. It sounds as if FF is your interest, and the M isn’t really involved, so if that’s not the case, maybe you need to get more specific on what you want and can offer the lady joining you.

In short, it offers up way more questions than answers to the extent, that even if I was in your age range, I’d not message.

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By *acky RacersCouple
5 weeks ago

Lincoln


"We've been here for a few months now and not been having much luck.

I know looking for single women to join couples is rare but just wanted opinions on the profile and see if there was anything we could change about it?

Thanks 😁"

Your profile says you're both straight...I know many bi women who wouldn't entertain that dynamic...

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By *aZi777 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

London

We went to our first club last week, misses is abit shy and we're pretty young compared to majority so we kept our selves mostly 😅 Still enjoyed it though, will definitely be going back and be more social this time

In regards to the profile would you say its ok apart from the no verifications?

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By *aZi777 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

London

Missed that cheers 👍

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By *aZi777 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

London

Appreciate it I'll make it more precise and specific

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By *exySiren01Woman
5 weeks ago

RCT

I guess it depends what you are looking for but right now it reads like you just want another woman for FF play with no involvement from the male half.

Also it says you are both straight so is the woman just going to be playing with the male? As this goes against the text you have written

Your text also reads like what you are looking for is all about you both, you need to take into account the extra woman's needs

On the plus side, great range of photos of you both

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By *aZi777 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

London

Yeah I've changed it abit as was the same mentioned above, appreciate the reply

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By *exySiren01Woman
5 weeks ago

RCT


"Yeah I've changed it abit as was the same mentioned above, appreciate the reply"

Much better now

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By *aZi777 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

London


"Yeah I've changed it abit as was the same mentioned above, appreciate the reply

Much better now"

Appreciate the help love

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
5 weeks ago

Chester


"Appreciate it I'll make it more precise and specific "

Good work, it’s much better now!

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By *andora2Woman
5 weeks ago

South somewhere

Tbh it’s going to be tough for you.

I’m not your target market but as a woman who has enjoyed threesomes with couples I expect full play.

Your scenario is that you and the other woman play whilst your partner watches I guess?

Nothing wrong with that but it’s going to be very difficult to find.

On the plus side you’ve got a good selection of pics of you both which is always a positive.

Wishing you both luck.

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By *aZi777 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

London


"Tbh it’s going to be tough for you.

I’m not your target market but as a woman who has enjoyed threesomes with couples I expect full play.

Your scenario is that you and the other woman play whilst your partner watches I guess?

Nothing wrong with that but it’s going to be very difficult to find.

On the plus side you’ve got a good selection of pics of you both which is always a positive.

Wishing you both luck."

No everyone would be involved, what part gave you that impression?

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By *lowercandyWoman
4 weeks ago

Lancashire


"Tbh it’s going to be tough for you.

I’m not your target market but as a woman who has enjoyed threesomes with couples I expect full play.

Your scenario is that you and the other woman play whilst your partner watches I guess?

Nothing wrong with that but it’s going to be very difficult to find.

On the plus side you’ve got a good selection of pics of you both which is always a positive.

Wishing you both luck.

No everyone would be involved, what part gave you that impression?"

It says not looking for full swaps where couples are concerned.

That really sticks out and possibly would make a single female wonder quite what she's getting out of the deal with you.

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By *aZi777 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

London


"Tbh it’s going to be tough for you.

I’m not your target market but as a woman who has enjoyed threesomes with couples I expect full play.

Your scenario is that you and the other woman play whilst your partner watches I guess?

Nothing wrong with that but it’s going to be very difficult to find.

On the plus side you’ve got a good selection of pics of you both which is always a positive.

Wishing you both luck.

No everyone would be involved, what part gave you that impression?

It says not looking for full swaps where couples are concerned.

That really sticks out and possibly would make a single female wonder quite what she's getting out of the deal with you.

"

Yeah that's specifically for couples, in regards to women we've stated everyone would be fully involved, changed it a little to be more precise, cheers.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
4 weeks ago

Chester


"Tbh it’s going to be tough for you.

I’m not your target market but as a woman who has enjoyed threesomes with couples I expect full play.

Your scenario is that you and the other woman play whilst your partner watches I guess?

Nothing wrong with that but it’s going to be very difficult to find.

On the plus side you’ve got a good selection of pics of you both which is always a positive.

Wishing you both luck.

No everyone would be involved, what part gave you that impression?

It says not looking for full swaps where couples are concerned.

That really sticks out and possibly would make a single female wonder quite what she's getting out of the deal with you.

Yeah that's specifically for couples, in regards to women we've stated everyone would be fully involved, changed it a little to be more precise, cheers."

Maybe do it the other way round and say what you do want from couples, otherwise it’s not very clear.

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By *uenevereWoman
4 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

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By *uenevereWoman
4 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I'm clearly not your target audience but as a bi woman I have no idea from your profile exactly how the dynamic would work.

The lack of verifications will concern some too. Maybe get to socials and clubs.

Best of luck.

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By *aZi777 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

London

Right I'm hoping I've made it clear enough now 😅 thanks for the responses ladies and let me know if it's looking better

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By *lowercandyWoman
4 weeks ago

Lancashire


"Right I'm hoping I've made it clear enough now 😅 thanks for the responses ladies and let me know if it's looking better"

Think that's certainly clearer.

I would suggest trying to get to some clubs though as well

Good luck

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By *aZi777 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

London


"Right I'm hoping I've made it clear enough now 😅 thanks for the responses ladies and let me know if it's looking better

Think that's certainly clearer.

I would suggest trying to get to some clubs though as well

Good luck "

Great, thanks. Went to our first club visit last weekend but got a lil overwhelmed as was both our first experience so was just taking it all, definitely going back though and will be more social next time

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