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"What are cis? " Cis means born that gender, as opposed to someone who is trans or born intersex. | |||
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" I'm visiting Dublin for a few weeks and would love to find a regular playmate. " If you find a regular playmate in Dublin will you still be able to meet up when you leave Dublin ? | |||
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"Hi all, I'm new to the FS world and was hoping to get some feeback or pointers that could improve my profile. I'm visiting Dublin for a few weeks and would love to find a regular playmate. I'm generally too busy for anything serious, but dearly miss sex. Any help or advice would be appreciated! Thanks in advance." It isn't a good profile being honest. All it seems to say is 'I want sex' If you were looking, would you look for the best photos and the best profile? Now looking at yours, do you think it ranks among the better ones out there?? Maybe take a long hard look at how you present yourself, and also look how the successful guys present themselves. Then start all over again. | |||
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"Hi all, I'm new to the FS world and was hoping to get some feeback or pointers that could improve my profile. I'm visiting Dublin for a few weeks and would love to find a regular playmate. I'm generally too busy for anything serious, but dearly miss sex. Any help or advice would be appreciated! Thanks in advance. It isn't a good profile being honest. All it seems to say is 'I want sex' If you were looking, would you look for the best photos and the best profile? Now looking at yours, do you think it ranks among the better ones out there?? Maybe take a long hard look at how you present yourself, and also look how the successful guys present themselves. Then start all over again. " at least he has a face pic mate ( kinda ) ha ! I assume you are obviously a successful guy on fab ? if you can pull women with just your eye’s as a profile picture That’s impressive ! | |||
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"Hi all, I'm new to the FS world and was hoping to get some feeback or pointers that could improve my profile. I'm visiting Dublin for a few weeks and would love to find a regular playmate. I'm generally too busy for anything serious, but dearly miss sex. Any help or advice would be appreciated! Thanks in advance. It isn't a good profile being honest. All it seems to say is 'I want sex' If you were looking, would you look for the best photos and the best profile? Now looking at yours, do you think it ranks among the better ones out there?? Maybe take a long hard look at how you present yourself, and also look how the successful guys present themselves. Then start all over again. at least he has a face pic mate ( kinda ) ha ! I assume you are obviously a successful guy on fab ? if you can pull women with just your eye’s as a profile picture That’s impressive ! " Don't you worry about me fella. I am not moaning on the profile, or asking for help. You just do yourself a favour and worry about yourself!! However, yes. I am quite successful thanks!! | |||
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"Hi all, I'm new to the FS world and was hoping to get some feeback or pointers that could improve my profile. I'm visiting Dublin for a few weeks and would love to find a regular playmate. I'm generally too busy for anything serious, but dearly miss sex. Any help or advice would be appreciated! Thanks in advance. It isn't a good profile being honest. All it seems to say is 'I want sex' If you were looking, would you look for the best photos and the best profile? Now looking at yours, do you think it ranks among the better ones out there?? Maybe take a long hard look at how you present yourself, and also look how the successful guys present themselves. Then start all over again. at least he has a face pic mate ( kinda ) ha ! I assume you are obviously a successful guy on fab ? if you can pull women with just your eye’s as a profile picture That’s impressive ! Don't you worry about me fella. I am not moaning on the profile, or asking for help. You just do yourself a favour and worry about yourself!! However, yes. I am quite successful thanks!!" Trust me lad I’m all good but if you have the neck to come at somebody else’s profile don’t get them expensive knickers all twisted ! I’m glad your doing well buddy keep it 🔥I ain’t being sarcastic I mean that 🤙 | |||
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"Hi all, I'm new to the FS world and was hoping to get some feeback or pointers that could improve my profile. I'm visiting Dublin for a few weeks and would love to find a regular playmate. I'm generally too busy for anything serious, but dearly miss sex. Any help or advice would be appreciated! Thanks in advance. It isn't a good profile being honest. All it seems to say is 'I want sex' If you were looking, would you look for the best photos and the best profile? Now looking at yours, do you think it ranks among the better ones out there?? Maybe take a long hard look at how you present yourself, and also look how the successful guys present themselves. Then start all over again. at least he has a face pic mate ( kinda ) ha ! I assume you are obviously a successful guy on fab ? if you can pull women with just your eye’s as a profile picture That’s impressive ! Don't you worry about me fella. I am not moaning on the profile, or asking for help. You just do yourself a favour and worry about yourself!! However, yes. I am quite successful thanks!! Trust me lad I’m all good but if you have the neck to come at somebody else’s profile don’t get them expensive knickers all twisted ! I’m glad your doing well buddy keep it 🔥I ain’t being sarcastic I mean that 🤙 " I’m so confused as to why you’re being weird to someone who gave advice that was asked for? Anyhoo, OP - completely agree with a lot of the other advice - more info required, generally, and in terms of your timescales. | |||
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"Hi all, I'm new to the FS world and was hoping to get some feeback or pointers that could improve my profile. I'm visiting Dublin for a few weeks and would love to find a regular playmate. I'm generally too busy for anything serious, but dearly miss sex. Any help or advice would be appreciated! Thanks in advance. It isn't a good profile being honest. All it seems to say is 'I want sex' If you were looking, would you look for the best photos and the best profile? Now looking at yours, do you think it ranks among the better ones out there?? Maybe take a long hard look at how you present yourself, and also look how the successful guys present themselves. Then start all over again. at least he has a face pic mate ( kinda ) ha ! I assume you are obviously a successful guy on fab ? if you can pull women with just your eye’s as a profile picture That’s impressive ! Don't you worry about me fella. I am not moaning on the profile, or asking for help. You just do yourself a favour and worry about yourself!! However, yes. I am quite successful thanks!! Trust me lad I’m all good but if you have the neck to come at somebody else’s profile don’t get them expensive knickers all twisted ! I’m glad your doing well buddy keep it 🔥I ain’t being sarcastic I mean that 🤙 " I am not getting at anyone's profile. I am simply answering a question with an honest answer. Brutal maybe, but honest. Believe me, I don't need neck. But now YOU, are getting at MY profile. Good luck fella. | |||
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"Hi all, I'm new to the FS world and was hoping to get some feeback or pointers that could improve my profile. I'm visiting Dublin for a few weeks and would love to find a regular playmate. I'm generally too busy for anything serious, but dearly miss sex. Any help or advice would be appreciated! Thanks in advance. It isn't a good profile being honest. All it seems to say is 'I want sex' If you were looking, would you look for the best photos and the best profile? Now looking at yours, do you think it ranks among the better ones out there?? Maybe take a long hard look at how you present yourself, and also look how the successful guys present themselves. Then start all over again. at least he has a face pic mate ( kinda ) ha ! I assume you are obviously a successful guy on fab ? if you can pull women with just your eye’s as a profile picture That’s impressive ! Don't you worry about me fella. I am not moaning on the profile, or asking for help. You just do yourself a favour and worry about yourself!! However, yes. I am quite successful thanks!! Trust me lad I’m all good but if you have the neck to come at somebody else’s profile don’t get them expensive knickers all twisted ! I’m glad your doing well buddy keep it 🔥I ain’t being sarcastic I mean that 🤙 " And if you wear expensive knickers that is cool. i wear men's underwear. | |||
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"Thanks for the feedback—I (mostly) appreciated it! The personal digs weren’t necessary though. Ironically, while the suggestions (more details, more photos, etc.) make sense, I’ve realized that what I actually want is to simplify things. Although I’m not partnered or playing away from ho.e (I can see how my profile might have given that impression), I’m also not looking for anything serious right now. I’m just looking for a casual hookup, so I’ll adjust my profile accordingly." Perhaps state where you're from normally. The likely dates you're in Dublin from and until. | |||
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"Thanks for the feedback—I (mostly) appreciated it! The personal digs weren’t necessary though. Ironically, while the suggestions (more details, more photos, etc.) make sense, I’ve realized that what I actually want is to simplify things. Although I’m not partnered or playing away from ho.e (I can see how my profile might have given that impression), I’m also not looking for anything serious right now. I’m just looking for a casual hookup, so I’ll adjust my profile accordingly." If you’re looking for hookups, the ‘normal’ dating sites might be just as good a bet - contrary to the people that will tell you ‘this is a sex site’ it’s often way more about the social side. | |||
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"Thanks for the feedback—I (mostly) appreciated it! The personal digs weren’t necessary though. Ironically, while the suggestions (more details, more photos, etc.) make sense, I’ve realized that what I actually want is to simplify things. Although I’m not partnered or playing away from ho.e (I can see how my profile might have given that impression), I’m also not looking for anything serious right now. I’m just looking for a casual hookup, so I’ll adjust my profile accordingly. If you’re looking for hookups, the ‘normal’ dating sites might be just as good a bet - contrary to the people that will tell you ‘this is a sex site’ it’s often way more about the social side." Thanks for the insight. I've actually noticed from the forums that the community is (generally) quite friendly and positive! A refreshing change from most of the internet. I do think there's space for people here to hook up though, and this place is better than the usual apps | |||
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"Thanks for the feedback—I (mostly) appreciated it! The personal digs weren’t necessary though. Ironically, while the suggestions (more details, more photos, etc.) make sense, I’ve realized that what I actually want is to simplify things. Although I’m not partnered or playing away from ho.e (I can see how my profile might have given that impression), I’m also not looking for anything serious right now. I’m just looking for a casual hookup, so I’ll adjust my profile accordingly. Perhaps state where you're from normally. The likely dates you're in Dublin from and until. "Thanks for the suggestion 👍 | |||
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"Thanks for the feedback—I (mostly) appreciated it! The personal digs weren’t necessary though. Ironically, while the suggestions (more details, more photos, etc.) make sense, I’ve realized that what I actually want is to simplify things. Although I’m not partnered or playing away from ho.e (I can see how my profile might have given that impression), I’m also not looking for anything serious right now. I’m just looking for a casual hookup, so I’ll adjust my profile accordingly." Whilst there were a couple of handbags flying around, which were nothing to do with you, I don't actually see anythin that is a personal dig in this thread. True, you might not like the advice you have been gven, but you did ask for it in the first place and people are trying to help you. That said, following your changes, your profile is now even more bereft of information than it was before. Previously you stated that you wee in Dublin for a few weeks. Has that changed? Are you now there permanently? You were also looking for regular meets. Has that changed? That aside, and to be quite frank with you, your current profile is ready to be ignored by most people. Tineye your one profile pic and you'll find thousands of others in the same pose. You have now cut your profile to just 19 words. Simply put, you aren't putting your best foot forward. We wish you well | |||
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"Thanks for the feedback—I (mostly) appreciated it! The personal digs weren’t necessary though. Ironically, while the suggestions (more details, more photos, etc.) make sense, I’ve realized that what I actually want is to simplify things. Although I’m not partnered or playing away from ho.e (I can see how my profile might have given that impression), I’m also not looking for anything serious right now. I’m just looking for a casual hookup, so I’ll adjust my profile accordingly. Whilst there were a couple of handbags flying around, which were nothing to do with you, I don't actually see anythin that is a personal dig in this thread. True, you might not like the advice you have been gven, but you did ask for it in the first place and people are trying to help you. That said, following your changes, your profile is now even more bereft of information than it was before. Previously you stated that you wee in Dublin for a few weeks. Has that changed? Are you now there permanently? You were also looking for regular meets. Has that changed? That aside, and to be quite frank with you, your current profile is ready to be ignored by most people. Tineye your one profile pic and you'll find thousands of others in the same pose. You have now cut your profile to just 19 words. Simply put, you aren't putting your best foot forward. We wish you well "Valid points from your perspective, thank you for being helpful to a stranger! But none of my previous information matters. In fact, I've realised my profile doesn't really matter (other than the basic info, being verified, and displaying a pic) I used Fab to click on a profile I like the photo of, start chatting by sending a face pic and if the recipient likes the look of me we take it from there. | |||
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"Hi all, I'm new to the FS world and was hoping to get some feeback or pointers that could improve my profile. I'm visiting Dublin for a few weeks and would love to find a regular playmate. I'm generally too busy for anything serious, but dearly miss sex. Any help or advice would be appreciated! Thanks in advance. It isn't a good profile being honest. All it seems to say is 'I want sex' If you were looking, would you look for the best photos and the best profile? Now looking at yours, do you think it ranks among the better ones out there?? Maybe take a long hard look at how you present yourself, and also look how the successful guys present themselves. Then start all over again. at least he has a face pic mate ( kinda ) ha ! I assume you are obviously a successful guy on fab ? if you can pull women with just your eye’s as a profile picture That’s impressive ! Don't you worry about me fella. I am not moaning on the profile, or asking for help. You just do yourself a favour and worry about yourself!! However, yes. I am quite successful thanks!! Trust me lad I’m all good but if you have the neck to come at somebody else’s profile don’t get them expensive knickers all twisted ! I’m glad your doing well buddy keep it 🔥I ain’t being sarcastic I mean that 🤙 And if you wear expensive knickers that is cool. i wear men's underwear." I consciously said knickers you seem the type ! Look relax maybe I took your advice as rude instead of constructive! So my apologies | |||
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