FabSwingers.com forum: Small penis humiliation ideas

By *aveJones76 OP Man
1 week ago

Rotherham

My wife is getting more and more into playing along with my like for small penis humiliation and quite enjoying it.

Were pretty limited to me wearing her panties when we play, her laughing and how small my bulge is and her only wanking me with a finger and thumb along with some fun talk.

Could any like minded people offer advise on how you may have taken this further? Unfortunately my wife isn't interested in fucking any other guys unfortunately, so it's just fun between us.

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By *ashtimeMan
1 week ago

London

It sounds like you and your wife have a fun and engaging dynamic that you both enjoy, which is great! Since you’re looking for ways to take your small penis humiliation (SPH) play further while keeping it between just the two of you, here are some ideas that might enhance the experience:

1. Expanding Verbal Humiliation

If she enjoys teasing, you could encourage her to explore more creative or exaggerated ways to play with the theme. Some ideas:

• Comparing your size to everyday objects (e.g., “It’s barely bigger than my pinky!”).

• Joking about how she doesn’t even feel anything if you try to use it.

• Mocking how easily you get aroused despite her minimal effort.

2. Teasing & Denial

• Let her play with the idea of giving you pleasure but stopping before you finish, reinforcing the idea that you don’t deserve it.

• She could dictate when (or if) you’re allowed to climax, possibly keeping you on edge for longer periods.

• Make a rule that you can only orgasm if she permits it, emphasizing your submissiveness.

3. Clothing & Accessories

• You already wear her panties, but you could take it further with lingerie, stockings, or even a chastity device.

• Wearing something overly feminine, like a bra or a skirt, can heighten the humiliation aspect.

• A chastity cage could reinforce the idea that your size is too small to be useful and make the game even more psychological.

4. Size Comparison & Objectification

• She could compare you to dildos or vibrators, talking about how much better they are.

• Measuring your penis and laughing about how tiny it is.

• Holding up her pinky finger or another small object and making a joke about how you don’t measure up.

5. Cuckolding Without Another Man

Since your wife isn’t into involving other guys, you could still incorporate an element of “fantasy cuckolding”:

• She could talk about how a “real man” would please her.

• Watching porn together and making comments about how much bigger the men are.

• Making you buy her bigger sex toys and watching her use them.

6. Public & Semi-Public Play

• Whisper teasing when you’re out in public (e.g., “I bet no one here would believe how tiny you are”).

• Dressing you in panties under your clothes when you go out together.

• Making you do subtle things that remind you of your place, like holding her purse or fetching things for her.

7. Servitude & Control

• Expanding beyond the bedroom into domestic servitude—having you do chores in an outfit she chooses, for example.

• Making you earn orgasms by serving her in various ways.

• She could play with financial domination, even in small ways, like making you buy things for her while denying yourself things.

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By *omRachCouple
1 week ago

Wirral

"My wife is getting more and more into playing along with my like for small penis humiliation and quite enjoying it.

Were pretty limited to me wearing her panties when we play, her laughing and how small my bulge is and her only wanking me with a finger and thumb along with some fun talk.

Could any like minded people offer advise on how you may have taken this further? Unfortunately my wife isn't interested in fucking any other guys unfortunately, so it's just fun between us. "

Maybe that fun talk could become a little more assertive and dominating, does she have that in her?

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
1 week ago

Bristol/ Daventry

If you enjoy lingerie etc then that’s amazing. It’s worth checking in with her if she does as it’s misogynistic and can sometimes negative affect shame play if it’s a niggle at the back of her mind.

As someone who loves small penis humiliation (giving), playing with masculinity can actually be a lot more fun than sissification. People often start with sissification as it’s what is seen in porn.

Get budgie smugglers and go out to a spa sex club (not to find others to play with but to ensure a consenting/understanding crowd). Whispers of how tiny you are, you can’t even fill out the smallest pair, briefs the same. How can you expect anyone to play with that tiny thing. Look at all the other “real men” etc.

Objectification as well can be fun. I see you already use a strap on, making more of that, so maybe a fucking machine with you applying lube and facilitate her orgasms, and even her using a wand dildo to masturbate because of your “insert phrase you’ve okayed” with her.

I would also start from the beginning and walk through what you value most. This can be really fun or. “It’s a good thing you’re good at x because that thing is no good for y”. I love bimbofication and being treated like an empty headed object because it’s the opposite of what I really am. It’s escapism and doesn’t pop the real shame/insulting bubble.

Also, I’m sure you’ve done this, but discuss what brings real shame to ensure you don’t accidentally veer into the real realm and pop the bubble. Equally remember your safe words. Shame play can easy go too far and needs to be able to be stopped without judgement or worry.

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By *aveJones76 OP Man
1 week ago

Rotherham

Thanks for the replies, some really helpful in depth comments and ideas.

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By *arahfromwarringtonTV/TS
1 week ago

warrington

Ha yes, it is pretty small, isn’t it. I’m surprised you still have that hair down there. I suggest you have it all waxed off regularly, maybe let your wife do it. Come to that, have your whole body waxed, it will feel much nicer when you walk round the house in sissy underwear.

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By *oolhandluke87Man
7 days ago

halesowen

My gf teases me about my 1 inch soft 4 hard all time I love it teases me in public also xx

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By *uzzleMan
7 days ago

Hastings

Get your cock locked in chastity for sure! You'll probably enjoy it.

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By *otfunx1Man
7 days ago

Edinburgh

Being made to wear the strap on

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
7 days ago

M20

If you know you enjoy your masochistic side, maybe you should be asking how she might enjoy exploring her sadistic side?

If both of your gears are turning together the intensity could be exponential for you both.

If she’s not sadistic there’s a point where she’s taking one for the team. That’s fine if it’s only an aspect of your sex life.

Good luck to you both in finding it!

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By *rufflesCouple
7 days ago

manchester

"It sounds like you and your wife have a fun and engaging dynamic that you both enjoy, which is great! Since you’re looking for ways to take your small penis humiliation (SPH) play further while keeping it between just the two of you, here are some ideas that might enhance the experience:

1. Expanding Verbal Humiliation

If she enjoys teasing, you could encourage her to explore more creative or exaggerated ways to play with the theme. Some ideas:

• Comparing your size to everyday objects (e.g., “It’s barely bigger than my pinky!”).

• Joking about how she doesn’t even feel anything if you try to use it.

• Mocking how easily you get aroused despite her minimal effort.

2. Teasing & Denial

• Let her play with the idea of giving you pleasure but stopping before you finish, reinforcing the idea that you don’t deserve it.

• She could dictate when (or if) you’re allowed to climax, possibly keeping you on edge for longer periods.

• Make a rule that you can only orgasm if she permits it, emphasizing your submissiveness.

3. Clothing & Accessories

• You already wear her panties, but you could take it further with lingerie, stockings, or even a chastity device.

• Wearing something overly feminine, like a bra or a skirt, can heighten the humiliation aspect.

• A chastity cage could reinforce the idea that your size is too small to be useful and make the game even more psychological.

4. Size Comparison & Objectification

• She could compare you to dildos or vibrators, talking about how much better they are.

• Measuring your penis and laughing about how tiny it is.

• Holding up her pinky finger or another small object and making a joke about how you don’t measure up.

5. Cuckolding Without Another Man

Since your wife isn’t into involving other guys, you could still incorporate an element of “fantasy cuckolding”:

• She could talk about how a “real man” would please her.

• Watching porn together and making comments about how much bigger the men are.

• Making you buy her bigger sex toys and watching her use them.

6. Public & Semi-Public Play

• Whisper teasing when you’re out in public (e.g., “I bet no one here would believe how tiny you are”).

• Dressing you in panties under your clothes when you go out together.

• Making you do subtle things that remind you of your place, like holding her purse or fetching things for her.

7. Servitude & Control

• Expanding beyond the bedroom into domestic servitude—having you do chores in an outfit she chooses, for example.

• Making you earn orgasms by serving her in various ways.

• She could play with financial domination, even in small ways, like making you buy things for her while denying yourself things.

What a fabulous, well thought out response xx

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By *otfunx1Man
7 days ago

Edinburgh

1. Expanding Verbal Humiliation

If she enjoys teasing, you could encourage her to explore more creative or exaggerated ways to play with the theme. Some ideas:

• Comparing your size to everyday objects (e.g., “It’s barely bigger than my pinky!”).

• Joking about how she doesn’t even feel anything if you try to use it.

• Mocking how easily you get aroused despite her minimal effort.

2. Teasing & Denial

• Let her play with the idea of giving you pleasure but stopping before you finish, reinforcing the idea that you don’t deserve it.

• She could dictate when (or if) you’re allowed to climax, possibly keeping you on edge for longer periods.

• Make a rule that you can only orgasm if she permits it, emphasizing your submissiveness.

3. Clothing & Accessories

• You already wear her panties, but you could take it further with lingerie, stockings, or even a chastity device.

• Wearing something overly feminine, like a bra or a skirt, can heighten the humiliation aspect.

• A chastity cage could reinforce the idea that your size is too small to be useful and make the game even more psychological.

4. Size Comparison & Objectification

• She could compare you to dildos or vibrators, talking about how much better they are.

• Measuring your penis and laughing about how tiny it is.

• Holding up her pinky finger or another small object and making a joke about how you don’t measure up.

5. Cuckolding Without Another Man

Since your wife isn’t into involving other guys, you could still incorporate an element of “fantasy cuckolding”:

• She could talk about how a “real man” would please her.

• Watching porn together and making comments about how much bigger the men are.

• Making you buy her bigger sex toys and watching her use them.

6. Public & Semi-Public Play

• Whisper teasing when you’re out in public (e.g., “I bet no one here would believe how tiny you are”).

• Dressing you in panties under your clothes when you go out together.

• Making you do subtle things that remind you of your place, like holding her purse or fetching things for her.

7. Servitude & Control

• Expanding beyond the bedroom into domestic servitude—having you do chores in an outfit she chooses, for example.

• Making you earn orgasms by serving her in various ways.

• She could play with financial domination, even in small ways, like making you buy things for her while denying yourself things.

What a fabulous, well thought out response xx"

She does a lot of this list with me

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