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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we are soft swing and talk to lots of other couples on here that are the same, we always find that lots of others, like us dont have time for meets but are happy to visit clubs, would any softies be interested in a group meet at a club?

K&R XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be a good night i reckon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are soft swing and talk to lots of other couples on here that are the same, we always find that lots of others, like us dont have time for meets but are happy to visit clubs, would any softies be interested in a group meet at a club?

K&R XXX"

The only thing is who defines soft we where at a club Saturday night we talked to 3 soft swing couples 2 of which only allowed fem on fem contact only the other couple allowed everything except full intercourse ( we played with them) I have no problems with people's boundaries but who defines them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

part of the reason for the social bit and possibly messaging on here before would be an ideal time for folk to discuss limits and each others defs of soft swing, we are girl/girl and partners only touch own, but we dont mind what others do between themselves, its really an icebreaker meet with an option to play if everyones happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a previous poster has said its all about the boundaries......

We tend to go to clubs rather than private meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only soft swing love your idea , we only watch be watched some touching with the right peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would love to join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are soft swing and talk to lots of other couples on here that are the same, we always find that lots of others, like us dont have time for meets but are happy to visit clubs, would any softies be interested in a group meet at a club?

K&R XXX

The only thing is who defines soft we where at a club Saturday night we talked to 3 soft swing couples 2 of which only allowed fem on fem contact only the other couple allowed everything except full intercourse ( we played with them) I have no problems with people's boundaries but who defines them."

The people as to what they are comfortable with and their indivdual fantasies. As is with us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the main problem we have found is that some couples dont listen to what others are wanting, and also quite a few seem to think that just cos they like a certain thing hey think everyones the same, no one wants to waste a night out through mis communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the main problem we have found is that some couples dont listen to what others are wanting, and also quite a few seem to think that just cos they like a certain thing hey think everyones the same, no one wants to waste a night out through mis communication. "

This is probably the main reason we don`t get involved in the "club scene" or parties. We prefer to get a feel for other couples expectations, like and dislikes before organising a meet. Making a true effort to see if we`re compatable thus avoiding any misconceptions. However we do always insist on a social no pressure meet first to see if there is the required chemistry for all parties. If not, well, we can still have a good laugh swap stories and have a few drinks with new found friends.

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

We'd be up for a meeting of fellow softswingers.

John & Shel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it have to be in a club ? It could be anywhere as long as we are all together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it have to be in a club ? It could be anywhere as long as we are all together "
agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

deffo intrested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could interest us, depends on when and where. Profile is hidden but only due to lack of time at the moment, we are still playing just not through new meets at the moment.

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

Just a thought for those people whom have commented on this thread as it definately seems to have created an interest with various options.

You might be better moving it/ opening a new thread in the meets forum as you'll probably get a wider audience looking at it there and then be able to judge the reaction on a wider scale.

Depending on where you were to consider holding such an event, may I humbly suggest that you consider contacting some of the swinger clubs to see if they would be interested in making their facilities available for such a meet. For example some of the clubs are willing to open on days/evenings that they are normally closed to cater for special events if there is enough interest, or a club might consider setting aside an area of the club on a particular night exclusively for soft swing only.

Just a thought as the principal of whats being discussed here seems interesting.

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