FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling

By *ornych87 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

I really don't no why I'm not getting messages back I'm not rude I read there profile always sent a picture with a message please help

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By *iker JackMan
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Have you not taken any advice you’ve been told in previous threads you’ve asked this in?

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By *ornych87 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yes and still no good thinking off just giving up on here

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By *akeland-ladMan
2 weeks ago

South Lakes

Prehaps, and I mean this in the nicest possible way, the lady/people your're messaging either don't find you attractive or there isn't anything they read in your profile they feel intrigued by to want to reply?

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By *ake and BeckyCouple
2 weeks ago

Gravesend

This site isn't for everyone. Some guys do okay, but most do badly. A very select few do quite well.

When I had a single guy's profile I did well... But I am exceptionally good looking with an incredible body. It was just the personality that often let me down

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

Probably fewer than 1% of people are mutually compatible. Due to the message overload, people won't reply to say you're the majority who aren't compatible.. No reply= no thanks, as the FAW state

Adjust your expectations and go to clubs and socials, if your profile represents you well

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By *ornych87 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yeah thanks for the advice looks like going back to the old fashion way lol

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By *essTTWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Female"

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By *ornych87 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Female??

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By *ogandher1962Couple
2 weeks ago

Reading

Small fish, big pond

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

The problem is the ratio of men to women, you have to make yourself stand out from the rest. Be honest, be yourself. Give it time.

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By *eedsmale36Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"This site isn't for everyone. Some guys do okay, but most do badly. A very select few do quite well.

When I had a single guy's profile I did well... But I am exceptionally good looking with an incredible body. It was just the personality that often let me down

PMSL great reply Becky

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By *eedsmale36Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"Yes and still no good thinking off just giving up on here "

Good idea, please turn off the lights on your way out

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By *lan157Man
2 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Don't think to badly of yourself OP . The site has hundreds of men in exactly the same position . I have had a good time over the years and there are two ways to get into it which work whereas endless fab messaging won't . Either you start in this lifestyle with a girl friend who is is keen to do so or you go to the Pub based organised socials in your area and chat to people there.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"I really don't no why I'm not getting messages back I'm not rude I read there profile always sent a picture with a message please help "

I don't see why you need to send a pic with a first message as you have a face profile pic

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By *ornych87 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I really don't no why I'm not getting messages back I'm not rude I read there profile always sent a picture with a message please help

I don't see why you need to send a pic with a first message as you have a face profile pic"
I always do it's a something I've always done

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
2 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Your like a blade of grass in a very big field

You need to stand out from the crowd

Maybe try going to some socials or a club

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By *iss KinkWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

"Prehaps, and I mean this in the nicest possible way, the lady/people your're messaging either don't find you attractive or there isn't anything they read in your profile they feel intrigued by to want to reply?"

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By *assageKnightMan
2 weeks ago

Alloverville

"Female??"

That's who you need if want to meet others. Your looks don't matter, your profile text is irrelevant.

If you have the correct currency/key, doors will be opened for you.

A good looking, slutty girl.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

"Female??

That's who you need if want to meet others. Your looks don't matter, your profile text is irrelevant.

If you have the correct currency/key, doors will be opened for you.

A good looking, slutty girl. "

Nonsense.

I think the point may have been the use of the term ‘female’ in OP’s profile. (Forgive me for jumping in, above poster!). A female what?! A lot of us do not enjoy being referred to as ‘a female’ when ‘woman, lady, goddess’ (I jest) could be used instead.

OP - your profile reads as if you don’t know what you want, and that anything/one will do. That in particular would put me off.

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By *assageKnightMan
1 week ago

Alloverville

"Female??

That's who you need if want to meet others. Your looks don't matter, your profile text is irrelevant.

If you have the correct currency/key, doors will be opened for you.

A good looking, slutty girl.

Nonsense.

OP - your profile reads as if you don’t know what you want, and that anything/one will do. That in particular would put me off. "

I haven't even looked at OP's profile.

Nonsense, you say...hmmm

OP, try my suggested "nonsense". If it doesn't work, I'll buy you a year's site support. I'll do the same for the (female

), I mean the lovely goddess who said I was talking shyte..ermm, nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I know that you have to catch the attention of people, and they pass you by but you could be turning away the best sex ever. confidence and clarity, if you keep having the same results then goto one of the clubs at the end of the day fab is just like a club in itself you got to earn your membership.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
1 week ago

Leeds

I don't see why you need to send a pic with a first message as you have a face profile pic

I always do it's a something I've always done "

I don't understand why you feel it necessary.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
1 week ago

Bristol/ Daventry

"Female??

That's who you need if want to meet others. Your looks don't matter, your profile text is irrelevant.

If you have the correct currency/key, doors will be opened for you.

A good looking, slutty girl.

Nonsense.

1000% with you! I see it as a wonder red flag waving proudly and to up my block list. People who can’t see the problem, are th problem and they won’t change (or do the work). Let them.

OP - you’ve not been here long, the profile isn’t clear as to what you have to offer, what one can expect from you, and what you are actually looking for. You’ve had some excellent advice.

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